# Something to put me at ease **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 13, 2008, 8:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/something-to-put-me-at-ease/19451 "2008-09-13T20:05:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mdsimson3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9a140/32.png) [@mdsimson3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mdsimson3)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 8:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/something-to-put-me-at-ease/19451/1 "2008-09-13T20:05:28Z")
Hi, I’m a 22 year old guy from Lexington, KY. I was looking for something to put myself more at ease in social situations because I am fairly shy around groups of people. I decided to go with TAC 50 mcg/spray and it has seemed to have the calming and perhaps perceptual enhancement that some claim to experience with it. I must agree that I seemed to view the world on a different level when I tried it for the first time. I am planning on buying a few other blends from [SmartMones.com](http://SmartMones.com) and if anyone has any suggestions feel free to post your comments. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 8:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/something-to-put-me-at-ease/19451/2 "2008-09-13T20:09:03Z")
Welcome to the forum. Instant Honesty and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) are great for getting people to open up in social situations. You may want to try them. If you do, we’d love to hear how they work for you. If you search on those names you’ll find what other people have experienced with them. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 8:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/something-to-put-me-at-ease/19451/3 "2008-09-13T20:11:51Z")
Hello mdsimson3, Great to have you in Pherotalk so welcome 🙂 So i see you have read a lot of info from here & bought some pheros from here too, good choice 🙂 Ok for your situation since you say you are shy there\> try Instant Shine & [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) as these two pheros will boost your confidence, make people feel comfortable with you(Instant Shine) & for easier & smoother conversation thus breaking the icebreaker(Instant Openness) See you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 8:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/something-to-put-me-at-ease/19451/4 "2008-09-13T20:14:24Z")
Hey Simson, Is the TAC 50 your first purchase? If so, you should probably start off with some of the consumer products first, like something from the Instant line. You can still achieve the calming effect with the consumer products, like IShine. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/something-to-put-me-at-ease/19451/5 "2008-09-13T21:18:52Z")
Hi, welcome to the forum! As has been said, Instant Shine would help with your shyness amd I agree with Gone that you might want to also look at Instant Honesty and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). All of these are available as Togo sizes, which can give you a good idea of what works best for you without having to buy a large bottle. Keep in mind that the minimum order of Togos is two bottles. Also, make sure to read through the sticky threads found in the Men’s forum as well as the links in Tisha’s (the CG goddess) signature. Enjoy your stay here… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/something-to-put-me-at-ease/19451/6 "2008-09-13T22:11:01Z")
Hello, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I am glad you are having good experiences with TAC but I highly recommend you use the consumer products before you move on to the advanced single molecules. AMMO and CTTM or IO would be great to start with. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way 😃** Tisha