# Sometimes, it’s the small things you notice **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 13, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010 "2009-04-13T19:50:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MuskCloud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@MuskCloud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MuskCloud)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/1 "2009-04-13T19:50:31Z")
It’s like the drip-drip-drip of a leaking tap. Over time, the evidence builds until the truth cannot be denied. Pheros work. Since I’ve started wearing them, women have started being more affectionate. This became apparent when I went through old emails, text messages and letters. As of a few months ago, they’ve started signing off their communications with a kiss. If I respond with an ‘X’ of my own, they return it double, signing off with ‘XX’ or ‘XXX’ or ‘XOXO’. My name has gradually vanished from all messages I get from women. It’s now ‘Love’ or ‘Sweetheart’. ‘Babe’, ‘Honey’, ‘Darling’ also make frequent guest-starring appearances. In face-to-face meetings, they now go out of their way to greet me with a hug, often wrapping their arms around my neck and cupping the back of my head in their hand, a very affectionate, caring gesture. They’ve developed a serious neck problem too, often cocking their head to one side when talking. Smiling, always smiling. Some even sneak a kiss on the lips and then walk away, giving me a meaningful over-the-shoulder look and are you doing that butt wiggle deliberately, you sex kitten, you? To all newbies, this is for you. Don’t be discouraged if you don’t experience the megahits straight away. Every rock star starts from humble beginnings in a garage or basement somewhere. Keep your eyes open and the hits will come. They won’t always be obvious and you’ll need to have some kind of record to track any changes. I had one, almost by accident. Just be patient. Musk ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2009, 7:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/2 "2009-04-13T19:54:54Z")
Great post. Nice way to earn yourself a fat Gift Certificate… Its coming your way ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2009, 8:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/3 "2009-04-13T20:07:29Z")
Hi Musky, Sweetheart! 🙂 Long time no see, Darlin’. Hope you’re well, Love. …and did I mention how _gooood_ you smell, Honey? Oh BTW, nice post, Babe. 😉 Bella ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2009, 8:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/4 "2009-04-13T20:10:20Z")
This is why I often say this is a heartfelt community, who encourages testing and research to hone your IOI pick up sense as well as re-wiring your confidence and self perception. I hope if the near future I will be able to talk with such open charisma about a passion I have. Most Esteemed Respect, -DJ ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2009, 4:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/5 "2009-04-14T16:44:24Z")
I’m a bit underwhelmed that nobody else has had any little thing that has happened they would like to share 😉. This is really an important topic. One hit that I always see is a lady will look my way, and just like I used to do when I was afraid of beautiful women, would quickly overt the eyes. Then again they would make eye contact a little longer, overt, longer, overt, until finally they would make the eyes and keep them while smiling. You get that with mones. It’s a little thing that can be picked up on as a hit. There’s also the double take, which is always fun. ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2009, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/6 "2009-04-14T17:01:23Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > I’m a bit underwhelmed that nobody else has had any little thing that has happened they would like to share 😉. This is really an important topic. Well, since the call has been made, i suppose i shall rise to the occasion! Guess i’m in the habit of not writing out the small things, since they just don’t seem that big and important… but as you said, the small things are maybe even more important, since they are what you’ll see the most of. So… I went out last Saturday night to a nearby bar called Buckhead, since i’d worked 9 hours that day and it had free cover and a live band. Hadn’t heard of the band before, but i figured if they sucked and no one was there (cause of Easter weekend) i could head back and not lose anything in the bargain… So i applied: 3 sprays [MX203](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/mx203/) (neck) 2 sprays Spaceland (hair) I left out the more sexual ones and went with the more social (at least from my experiences) since i was in the mood to listen to some music, maybe dance a bit, but not really looking to flirt too much. Anyways, i got to the bar at 10:50pm and it was not dead, but not hopping by any means. So i order a drink and settle in to listen to the band, since they are just now setting up. Turns out that i LOVED the band, they played some really upbeat cover songs that got the place off their butts and dancing. Southern rock, mostly, but whatcha gonna do when you live in NC? 😉 Anyways, the dance floor never had more than 20 people on it, so i could tell who had moved around and such. I started the night next to a group of girls that were dancing, with one of them (brunette, 24?, 5’10ish, well figured) next to me. After about 3 songs i noticed her throwing me some glances, but i just kept doing my groove thang and eventually went for another drink. Ended up on another part of the dance floor and low and behold!, there she was again within a song, her group having migrated my way and her throwing me some glances again. I tried it one more time after i went to the bathroom (for scientific accuracy), and it happened again. Gave me some chuckles and a good ego boost, but that’s about it. Wasn’t in the mood for anything more. So yeah, that’s my low-key hit of the week last week. Hope you enjoyed. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2009, 6:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/7 "2009-04-14T18:08:02Z")
Hey if anyone is interested in low key ‘social’ hits, I have to start posting more. I don’t get any/many responses to my social hit reports so I figured people weren’t interested. The places I go (mall, coffee shop, grocery store) aren’t conducive to having a woman grab me and rip my clothes off in the detergent isle or anything. Most of my hits are more about friendliness or chattiness. ---
**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2009, 6:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/8 "2009-04-14T18:32:30Z")
> [@](#): > > Anyways, the dance floor never had more than 20 people on it, so i could tell who had moved around and such. I started the night next to a group of girls that were dancing, with one of them (brunette, 24?, 5’10ish, well figured) next to me. After about 3 songs i noticed her throwing me some glances, but i just kept doing my groove thang and eventually went for another drink. Ended up on another part of the dance floor and low and behold!, there she was again within a song, her group having migrated my way and her throwing me some glances again. I tried it one more time after i went to the bathroom (for scientific accuracy), and it happened again. Gave me some chuckles and a good ego boost, but that’s about it. Wasn’t in the mood for anything more. haha thats my favourite trick 🙂. And this thread is great, I really like the dripping tap analogy. ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2009, 8:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/9 "2009-04-14T20:09:20Z")
all mine are in my journal 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![M\_P](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/m_p/32/1633_2.png) [@M\_P](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_P)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2009, 1:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/10 "2009-04-15T01:48:04Z")
I never post my small hits either…It just seems like a waste of time to read for all the phero-pros here ---
**Author:** ![BubbleCatcher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ebca7d/32.png) [@BubbleCatcher](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BubbleCatcher)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2009, 10:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/11 "2009-04-15T10:13:56Z")
Hello, ok here is my small hit. Yesterday i need to go for a cortisone injection, i arrived at outpatients reception and as stood in que i saw woman not dresses in physio uniform who going through some files. She was mid thirties and quite cute and close enough to get some pheros in the couple minutes she was there. I did not get any eye contact during this period. I waited my turn and after about 10 min she came out and called my name, this was good start as would be able to see if my mix had any effect. Once in cubicle she went over my notes and explained about the injection, i had done my research on this and was aware of my condition so had no questions. What did happen was that she began to give me more and more eye contact, not the sort you would expect in this situation. She held eye contact for long time, in fact at first i looked away as was not expecting it but soon held her gaze and looked into those lovely brown eyes. Next came the once over to check that i indeed did have a problem, this required my shirt to come off. Although in mid forties and have not been to gym in years i am not in bad shape, no six pack but no pot belly. Now my problem is with my shoulder and the check requires some movement tests which require hands on from her. Now this is where is gets interesting because although she was professional her touch was not what i have got from other females physios. She kept her hands on me for longer that would be expected and while standing behind me she was stroking my shoulder gentle, at one point she as remove her hands she slowly ran her hand down my arm nearly to my wrist 😮 Never had that before in physio. Check confirmed she went off to get injection sorted, this took about 10 min but she pop back to tell she would not be long. When she arrived with injection it was another woman, as she explained the situation she again put both hands on shoulder and gentle stroked it. The injection was actually two, one was a local anaesthetic and the other the cortisone, all the time she was checking i was ok and again that gentle stroking touch. I did not have eye contact here as she was behind me, but after i again got the eye contact. From her slight accent and name i think she maybe Italian. I have follow up in 4 weeks and look forward to that 🙂 Mix was 2x half spray of MX292 B8 front side of neck 1x IO front of neck 2x IS front back of hair 1x IH back of neck 1 drop A314 under chin This was all very subtle but more than you would expect in this situation. ---
**Author:** ![tfrankz](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfrankz/32/468_2.png) [@tfrankz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfrankz)\ **Post date:** [April 15, 2009, 3:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sometimes-it-s-the-small-things-you-notice/28010/12 "2009-04-15T15:45:18Z")
Well on Saturday I missed a call when I was out at a club. Got home and had a voice mail and it was some girl that I guess I gave my number to a few weeks back. I wish I could remember who that was and what I had on so next time if I see her I can really leave a good impression. It has to be 3-5 weeks and this girl calls me up! Phero’s do leave an good impression on people! I have been seeing it more and more with friends and people I see out.