# Soon to be divorced Man Nervous about dating **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 12, 2008, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394 "2008-09-12T21:22:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bmroberts](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmroberts/32/524_2.png) [@bmroberts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmroberts)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/1 "2008-09-12T21:22:44Z")
Hmm, I am actually fixing to be 26 on the 13th of September, Male, from Tennessee! I found all of this to be interesting, I am going through a divorce from my highschool sweetheart. So will be dating soon and was just curious about this, I am not sure what I need though lol… Hopefully I can get some info! Well hope to get to know some of you! Have a great day! Brent ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/2 "2008-09-12T21:26:32Z")
Brent, Welcome aboard. Sorry to hear about the divorce that’s rough to go through. We are a supportive bunch here. So being back in the dating scene…are you excited or nervous or both 😃 Check out Instant Shine for starters and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is a great chatty pheromone that gets people talking. What are some of your phero goals to start with? That will help everyone suggest certain products. I love what phero’s do and have had some interesting experiences with them. Welcome!!! ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/3 "2008-09-12T21:27:52Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! Why don’t you tell us a little more about what you’re trying to achieve and we can give you some pointers to the right direction 🙂 Have you ever tried [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) before? Anyways, have fun and you’ve definitely arrived in a fantastic community!! ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/4 "2008-09-12T21:32:45Z")
Hey roberts, Welcome. Tell us a little bit more about yourself, and what you are interested in achieving with pheromones. This will help us tailor our assistance to your situation. ---
**Author:** ![bmroberts](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmroberts/32/524_2.png) [@bmroberts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmroberts)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/5 "2008-09-12T21:37:40Z")
Yea, Divorce is rough not something, I ever dreamed I would have to go through! But, as far as dating, I think I am real nervous but excited at the same time. I was with my wife or soon to be ex for 9 yrs (TN law we have to wait 60 days for it to be final) so I won’t start dating until its final! Not sure what my goals are but, I know I am a tad bit on the shy side and not to big into “clubs” so, I dont’ want anything overbearing! I can’t wait to try this out!! ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/6 "2008-09-12T21:42:11Z")
Well, what’s done is done. Keep looking forward. Ammunition, and the socials are what you want (like IShine). Stay away from A314, and TUTH for now, imho. Especially if you don’t want anything overbearing, and if you are just easing your way back into dating. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![bmroberts](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmroberts/32/524_2.png) [@bmroberts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmroberts)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 9:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/7 "2008-09-12T21:54:49Z")
Thanks Tenant, I was actually thinking the same thing! I have been reading alot on the forums! Seems like a good bunch of people! Thanks for your help! ---
**Author:** ![bmroberts](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmroberts/32/524_2.png) [@bmroberts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmroberts)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 10:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/8 "2008-09-12T22:01:38Z")
Yea this will be my first time, I mean if it helps it helps~ got nothing to lose, I am on the quiet side, I guess just need something to help ease the tension! And added attraction would be nice on the side! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/9 "2008-09-12T22:38:12Z")
Hello Brent, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 So sorry about your divorce. Its tough to get back out there. Mones can help you ease your way back into the dating scene. I suggest you take a look at AMMO Ishine and CTTM AMMO is a sexy interesting attractive mix. Ishine is a charismatic uplifting warm mix CTTM will help draw them in and break the ice. If you have questions just let us know. **Your GC will go out shortly** 😃 Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![bmroberts](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmroberts/32/524_2.png) [@bmroberts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmroberts)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/10 "2008-09-12T23:21:31Z")
Thanks for the GC, have a great day! ---
**Author:** ![lightray](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/51bf81/32.png) [@lightray](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lightray)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2008, 11:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/11 "2008-09-12T23:27:31Z")
Hi BMRoberts, welcome to the forum and H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y 😃 (well it’s already 13-Sep here in London) Good luck. From my experience, no matter how bleak things may seem when relationships break down there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Wishing you better times ahead. ---
**Author:** ![bmroberts](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmroberts/32/524_2.png) [@bmroberts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmroberts)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/12 "2008-09-13T01:02:43Z")
> [@lightray](#): > > Hi BMRoberts, > > welcome to the forum and > H A P P Y B I R T H D A Y 😃 > > (well it’s already 13-Sep here in London) > > Good luck. > From my experience, no matter how bleak things may seem when relationships break down there is always light at the end of the tunnel. > Wishing you better times ahead. Thanks so much, praying for better times lol… ---
**Author:** ![bmroberts](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmroberts/32/524_2.png) [@bmroberts](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmroberts)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 1:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/13 "2008-09-13T01:07:38Z")
thanks, praying for better times ahead lol… Hell if I was in London I could already be drinking damn! ---
**Author:** ![Im4Vikes13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/858c86/32.png) [@Im4Vikes13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Im4Vikes13)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2008, 1:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/14 "2008-09-13T01:34:07Z")
Sorry to hear about the divorce. I know the feeling. I can’t help you with any advice on pheromones because I am new, too. I was married for 8 years, though. The best thing I can say is to take all the time you need to recover. Friends are a big help. Happy birthday, too. It’s already 4:30 am on 13Sep, here in Mosul, Iraq. Take care. ---
**Author:** ![jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ac91a4/32.png) [@jim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jim)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/15 "2008-09-14T16:34:06Z")
Hi I find the concept of pheromones extremely interesting but have to say that as I have not yet used them I’m still a little sceptical about how good they are. Can they really attract sexual interest from a woman who otherwise wouldn’t give you the time of day ? ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2008, 4:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soon-to-be-divorced-man-nervous-about-dating/19394/16 "2008-09-14T16:56:56Z")
> [@jim](#): > > Hi I find the concept of pheromones extremely interesting but have to say that as I have not yet used them I’m still a little sceptical about how good they are. Can they really attract sexual interest from a woman who otherwise wouldn’t give you the time of day ? Hi there Jim and welcome. You should start yourself a new thread in the section to qualify for the free $15 Gift Certificate I will be sending out.