# Soothing any cultural differences. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 12, 2009, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019 "2009-02-12T21:32:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2009, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/1 "2009-02-12T21:32:18Z")
Hi, My name is Grant, a Canadian about to begin construction on a hotel in Central America. I was thinking perhaps that the [Pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) might be helpful in developing trust while working in quite a different culture. Not that I’m untrustworthy at all, I’d just prefer to get past the awkward part until they settle in. And of course I’m curious enough to want to try one or two others as well. Any suggestions? ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2009, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/2 "2009-02-12T21:36:55Z")
Hello Grant Good to have you in Pherotalk so welcome on board 🙂 I see you have an interest in pheros there, that’s great 🙂 Ok for your situation i will highly recommend A314 for you as this phero is specially make for that trust effect & work great in a work environment 🙂 A314 also give the user high status & respect effects too 🙂 Try it with IO for better results based on feedback from users here 🙂 Hope that helps & see you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2009, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/3 "2009-02-12T21:37:21Z")
Hi Grant I am very new myself, but am learning in leaps and bounds, through reading through this forum, and through friendly, helpful experienced users. Pheromones are not only for attracting and getting dates. They also have a great number of uses, depending what you wish to accomplish. For example, I wish to accomplish: Respect at work, financial bargaining power, and making my idiot bf sorry he was disloyal to me. Different pheromones, either used alone, or in various combinations, can help you achieve your desires and goals. Of course, they cannot do it all alone, such accomplishments require effort from you as well. These pheromones help to bring out what is there inside you already, to make more visible to others the things you already know about yourself. My first order is for: [Instant Sexiness](https://a314.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), MX 300 and MX 135. Though I am still quite new, I will try to help you as best I can, as a “fellow newbie”. I will be posting my experiences here in the forum, and I look forward to reding about yours as well, if you should choose to share them 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2009, 9:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/4 "2009-02-12T21:41:06Z")
Hi Grant, I see Phatsounds has already recommended A314, it is truly an awesome product that you would be mad to ignore. Having said that, it needs a little care in it’s use. Read up on it well before purchase. We could do with knowing a llttle more about you, in the new user’s section, there is the “how do I get the $25 gift certificate thread” can you have a read of that, then drop back on here and give us a little bit about your personality etc? ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2009, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/5 "2009-02-12T23:03:37Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > Hello Grant > > Good to have you in Pherotalk so welcome on board 🙂 I see you have an interest in pheros there, that’s great 🙂 > > Ok for your situation i will highly recommend A314 for you as this phero is specially make for that trust effect & work great in a work environment 🙂 A314 also give the user high status & respect effects too 🙂 Try it with IO for better results based on feedback from users here 🙂 > > Hope that helps & see you 🙂 Thanks for that, Diamond. I’ll definitely be ordering some A314 now. I’ll also check out more about IO is as soon as I send this off. Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2009, 11:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/6 "2009-02-12T23:18:43Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hi Grant > > I am very new myself, but am learning in leaps and bounds, through reading through this forum, and through friendly, helpful experienced users. > > Pheromones are not only for attracting and getting dates. They also have a great number of uses, depending what you wish to accomplish. > > For example, I wish to accomplish: Respect at work, financial bargaining power, and making my idiot bf sorry he was disloyal to me. > > Different pheromones, either used alone, or in various combinations, can help you achieve your desires and goals. Of course, they cannot do it all alone, such accomplishments require effort from you as well. > > These pheromones help to bring out what is there inside you already, to make more visible to others the things you already know about yourself. > > My first order is for: [Instant Sexiness](https://a314.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A, Instant Shine, MX 300 and MX 135. > > Though I am still quite new, I will try to help you as best I can, as a “fellow newbie”. > > I will be posting my experiences here in the forum, and I look forward to reding about yours as well, if you should choose to share them 🙂 Hi Sillykitty, Yes, I’ve been exploring the threads as well and find them fascinating. Have you tried any of those you ordered yet and are designed more for women? I’d like to know how they work because what makes one woman sexier than another (given a somewhat equal playing field) has always been something of a mystery to me. I suppose the answer lies in [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), and I’ve been an unwitting but willing victim to them more than once. I’m not in a desperate situation but feel the edge will do me well. I’d be interested in something like Instant Sexiness also (just going by the name!) but also don’t want to take advantage of any situation. It’s a matter of balancing needs with respect. Sometimes that balance has been difficult to keep as it is. Do get over your BF. There’s still a lot of good men out there left to be explored. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2009, 11:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/7 "2009-02-12T23:20:29Z")
What is your age or approximate age? for professional use, A314 is about the best product for getting trust and respect, in about any situation. Adding [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) seems to only help, IH will as it adds to the trust and respect a aura of honesty. When you ask questions people tend not to waffle as much and provide more correct answers. Also consider adding Instant Shine, as it will be a quick mood lifting experience for you and those around you. Kind of like a kid getting out of bed on Christmas morning. Also if you are outside actually doing the construction work, remember your sweat carries the pheromones off your skin, so they will not last very long and in wind or other harsh elements pheromones will carry away very quickly. ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/8 "2009-02-13T00:06:12Z")
I’ll be adding that to my list for sure, Woofie2, as honesty is often hard to come by down there. Not that they lie but sometimes they don’t want to tell me bad news and would rather skirt issues, which can often lead to further difficulties. I’d like them to feel comfortable enough that they be direct with me. I won’t be working outside very much but I’ll be outside often. Thanks for the advice and I’ll certainly keep it in mind!. It seems you’ve had nothing but good from your experience. Cheers! And sorry about the wrong name Phatsounds, in case you’re reading this. Still trying to get used to the system. ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 12:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/9 "2009-02-13T00:52:23Z")
Another Newby! The things we do for 25 big ones! I’m a Canadian who’s been spending a lot of time in Costa Rica for the past 15 years and am now finally realizing my dream of building a smallish boutique hotel there (15 rooms, pool and bar). I’m a middle aged guy who wants to get my dreams done before I reach the drooling stage. I’m definitely going to try A314, probably [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and perhaps something that will make me even more irresistible!🙄 Some fascinating threads here! Have been following Diamond enjoying it a lot, and there might be more. Cheers to all and good luck. Grant ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/10 "2009-02-13T00:55:09Z")
Hello and welcome! Glad to hear your finally at your dreams! Costa rica must be nice! Tell us about your personality, how you found pheromones, and what your goals are of them. From there we can help you more and also help you get qualified for the $25! Look forward to hearing back! ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 1:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/11 "2009-02-13T01:08:22Z")
Thanks for posting back, but starting a second thread is not a good idea in the Welcome section, you can edit your original post or post information later in the thread- > [@Soothing any cultural differences.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019): > > Hi, My name is Grant, a Canadian about to begin construction on a hotel in Central America. I was thinking perhaps that the [Pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) might be helpful in developing trust while working in quite a different culture. Not that I’m untrustworthy at all, I’d just prefer to get past the awkward part until they settle in. And of course I’m curious enough to want to try one or two others as well. Any suggestions? ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/12 "2009-02-13T01:23:37Z")
> [@MikeMan22](#): > > Hello and welcome! > > Glad to hear your finally at your dreams! Costa rica must be nice! > > Tell us about your personality, how you found pheromones, and what your goals are of them. > > From there we can help you more and also help you get qualified for the $25! > > Look forward to hearing back! Thanks MikeMan! I’m a Canadian (Vancouver) with (usually) an outgoing personality, am quietly confident, amicably separated and discovered pheromones in a newspaper article, I believe, and then later looked it up on the internet, finally stumbling across this very interesting site. My main interest is to gain the confidence from those who will be working and acting for me. I have to be very careful about any sort of sexual goings on because I’m in an area where there is poverty and I don’t want to take advantage of anyone. Women (and men) tend to think I’m a rich gringo which, in comparison, I probably am. They feel I can be an answer to their dreams as a result, and I don’t want any hint of that. The local men wouldn’t like it either and I want to live and do business there. Nonetheless, there will be social occasions where I probably wouldn’t mind testing the waters and gauging the reaction. Don’t drink or don’t smoke anymore, and am reasonably well read and well traveled. And that’s all I have to say about that! Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 1:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/13 "2009-02-13T01:35:18Z")
> [@woofie2](#): > > Thanks for posting back, > > but starting a second thread is not a good idea in the Welcome section, you can edit your original post or post information later in the thread- > [Soothing any cultural differences.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019) I had to get help just finding my way to the right thread, Woofie2. I’d be happy to do as you suggest but don’t have the savvy to carry it through. If it’s a nuisance I certainly won’t mind it the thread is removed. ---
**Author:** ![wilks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/f475e1/32.png) [@wilks](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wilks)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 4:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/14 "2009-02-13T04:41:19Z")
Irresistible? Try TUTH. It’s my favorite by far. So far, I’ve had 3 girls make out with me at the onset. I had 3 girls peacocking for me at the same time at a bar. It drove my current g/f nuts 13 hours after putting it on. I was BEGGED for “it” the other night. Give that one a try. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 8:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/15 "2009-02-13T08:10:16Z")
Hello Grant, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I see you started your own thread, great this will make it easier for you keep track of your info. So you have relocated and want something to help make the transition easier. Can you tell us about your personality and how you interact with others now ? This will help us suggest products for you as well as get you qualified for you GC. I look forward to your reply Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 2:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/16 "2009-02-13T14:46:24Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hello Grant, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > > I see you started your own thread, great this will make it easier for you keep track of your info. > > So you have relocated and want something to help make the transition easier. Can you tell us about your personality and how you interact with others now ? This will help us suggest products for you as well as get you qualified for you GC. > > I look forward to your reply > > Tisha > Hostess/Guide Hi Trisha, I really don’t know what to add that I haven’t said already. I am confident in social situations, friendly, outgoing, though I also need my alone time as well, perhaps an hour or two a day to read perhaps or just go for a walk.. I’m mainly interested in something that will encourage trust and confidence among those who’ll be working for me. I’ll be dealing with contractors, architects, workers, bankers etc. all in a foreign country, so I’d like some added edge. This is a rather big project for me, not having ever built a hotel before, so i want to use everything I can to make it run as smoothly as possible. I already have a small staff of a housekeeper, gardener and there have been many others working for me who have done odd jobs and i feel i’ve gained their respect. They certainly have mine. I’m in Canada right now while my housekeeper is running my B and B and I have abolute confidence in her, and I believe that to be reciprocal. But it took a while to gain that trust. Because I’m on a time limit I want that trust to move along more quickly. As to anything sexual, I’d only be intersted in using that occasionally with women of my own culture. And it would be more from a point of interest than in trying to seduce women. I’m not a man who’s ever had any real difficulties in this area, and I hope that doesn’t sound conceited, and am not desperate. I’m older now so more selective in who I’m interested in sexually, but perhaps if there is someone special an edge would help. I’m also curious as to its effectiveness. Perhaps I’m not comfortable talking about myself so if there is anything specific you need to know that I haven’t said already, why not ask? Thanks, Grant ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/17 "2009-02-14T02:14:04Z")
Hi Grant, Sorry I am late I had to run over to the mall and pick up my kids You did fine talking about yourself. 🙂 I suggest A314 for work to up your status and give a strong Alpha leader vibe. Ishine for a charismatic charm and maybe one of the socials like IO or IH to increase interaction but those can wait if you just want to try two at first. If you have any questions or need help just ask. **Your GC is on its way to your email** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 4:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/18 "2009-02-14T04:11:07Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hi Grant, > > Sorry I am late I had to run over to the mall and pick up my kids > > You did fine talking about yourself. 🙂 > I suggest A314 for work to up your status and give a strong Alpha leader vibe. > > Ishine for a charismatic charm and maybe one of the socials like IO or IH to increase interaction but those can wait if you just want to try two at first. > > If you have any questions or need help just ask. > > **Your GC is on its way to your email** 😃 > > Tisha No worries, Trisha, Kids always come first! I’ll get the A314 for sure, the Ishine also, and is “social” a euphemism for sexy?? I’d like to try that under the right circumstances . I was telling a friend of mine about this over dinner and was thinking of trying it with my housekeeper. I know she won’t try anything, we are very respectful of each other and friends also, but I could tell by her body language and eyes what she’s feeling. Is that a dirty trick? I was only suggesting her because I know her more intimately (in a non sexual way!) and can see the results more clearly. Anyway, thanks for your response and I wish you and your family all the very best, Grant ---
**Author:** ![Smelly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smelly/32/918_2.png) [@Smelly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Smelly)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 4:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/19 "2009-02-14T04:57:30Z")
> [@Grant](#): > > I’ll get the A314 for sure, the Ishine also, and is “social” a euphemism for sexy?? I’d like to try that under the right circumstances . Hey Grant, Nope. “Social” actually means social. Non-sexual (at least not directly so), non gender specific, and acceptable in work situations. The “socials” increase interpersonal fluidity, so Instant Openness helps to break the ice and get conversation flowing, while Instant Honesty encourages people to tell you what they’re really thinking and feeling. > [@Grant](#): > > I was telling a friend of mine about this over dinner and was thinking of trying it with my housekeeper. I know she won’t try anything, we are very respectful of each other and friends also, but I could tell by her body language and eyes what she’s feeling. With regard to the socials? Fine idea. With regard to a more sexually oriented product like [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) or Ammo? Terrible idea. Surely you’ve lived long enough to know that unreciprocated sexual feelings can wreak havoc in professional relationships?! You mess with that, you’re playing with fire. ---
**Author:** ![Grant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a5b964/32.png) [@Grant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Grant)\ **Post date:** [February 14, 2009, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019/20 "2009-02-14T05:18:27Z")
> [@Smelly](#): > > Hey Grant, > Nope. “Social” actually means social. Non-sexual (at least not directly so), non gender specific, and acceptable in work situations. The “socials” increase interpersonal fluidity, so Instant Openness helps to break the ice and get conversation flowing, while Instant Honesty encourages people to tell you what they’re really thinking and feeling. > > With regard to the socials? Fine idea. With regard to a more sexually oriented product like Turn Up the Heat or Ammo? Terrible idea. Surely you’ve lived long enough to know that unreciprocated sexual feelings can wreak havoc in professional relationships?! You mess with that, you’re playing with fire. Thanks for that Smelly and I’ll certainly follow your advice. I’m not familiar with these products yet and am obviously unaware of their possible potency and consequences. I certainly won’t risk a solid and respectful relationship just for an experiment if there is any real danger. It seems the idea was impulsive and poorly thought out. G. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/soothing-any-cultural-differences/26019.md?page=2)