# Southern US **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 20, 2008, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458 "2008-01-20T00:48:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Elleshopper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/elleshopper/32/242_2.png) [@Elleshopper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Elleshopper)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2008, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458/1 "2008-01-20T00:48:44Z")
New here, and not sure where to start. Have been browsing the forum and find it all very interesting. I would like to find a thread where people attest to success with these products. I would like to attract men…one in particular and increase my social life in general!:o ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2008, 12:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458/2 "2008-01-20T00:56:32Z")
Welcome. Look around these forums and you’ll find lots of threads of the sort you’re looking for. Let us know a little bit about yourself, your personality, your ways of relating to people, and what you would like to get from [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2008, 1:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458/3 "2008-01-20T01:01:21Z")
Welcome Elle 🙂 [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) for women is a great way to attract man and to appear more sexy. You will also be more confident and have a great mental effect on yourself. Instant openness and instant honesty will make you more sociable. Others will want to talk to you. Tell us a little more about your situation, and we will give you some more specific advice! ---
**Author:** ![LizzieM](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lizziem/32/218_2.png) [@LizzieM](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LizzieM)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2008, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458/4 "2008-01-20T01:21:20Z")
Hey Elle! 😃 I’m Liz, and I think it’s time a girl gives you a proper welcome 🆒 In this forum, you can not only find threads attesting to which products work, there are also threads where unsuccessful uses with pheromones are reported (even for competitor products). It’s an honest forum here, and by looking at people’s successes AND mistakes, you can be sure that your phero-adventure will be a knowledgeable one and not simply a hit-or-miss! I would love to have simply given you a phero suggestion and have your social life be up and running in no time, but for that to happen, you need to tell us a little more about yourself, age, where do you live and just something about yourself and your surroundings so we can have a good idea on what products might work and might not work. Mockingbird is right, [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is an awesome way to attract men. It’s got self-effects to me too, and the pheromones help others to see you as sexy. However, there are 2 versions of Instant Sexiness, A and B. A will make you appear a stronger version of sexy, more authoritative if you like, while B will make you more girly and sweet-femme, and make guys want to protect you! Depending on your personal characteristics, either one can make a huge impact on how others see you! ---
**Author:** ![Elleshopper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/elleshopper/32/242_2.png) [@Elleshopper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Elleshopper)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2008, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458/5 "2008-01-20T01:37:07Z")
Thanks! Ok…I’m 41, mostly introverted, a lot of people think I’m a mystery. This is why, I think,I don’t get a lot of attention…(you SAID I could be honest here!) I look 10 years younger than I am and have a very attractive face and figure. I have transplanted to the south where I don’t really feel I fit in, …people aren’t very social even after 8 years. It’s not me, that’s the general consensus. Pre-ovulation I’m very revved but w/out much outlet. Marriage is iffy at best. I’ve been hurt a lot by life and I think I project a protective distrusting wall that I’d like to knock down but don’t know how. My exposure to the public includes the part-time waitressing job I hold and the trips to town to run errand: shopping, P.O., etc… I hope I’ve answered all your questions, and THANK YOU so much for responding. Thanks too, for the suggestions so far…on the order page, I don’t see where you can specify A or B. ??? ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2008, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458/6 "2008-01-20T02:30:52Z")
Hi Elleshopper! Instant Sexiness comes in A by default, and the To-Go size only comes in A. Most people prefer A, anyway. B is a custom order (you’d indicate B in the comments box) which you’d be eligible to order after posting a certain amount of product feedback on the forum. I’ll second mockingbird’s recommendations of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty for you. IO is fun and relaxing, for more general, light social contact; IH for when really want to open up and build more intimacy with someone. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2008, 2:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458/7 "2008-01-20T02:53:02Z")
Hello Welcome to the forum 🙂 The forum is full of people talking about the poducts here and learning to use them. Take a look around and jump right in and ask questions. We look forward to your participation. 😉 Your GC will be sent to your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Elleshopper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/elleshopper/32/242_2.png) [@Elleshopper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Elleshopper)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2008, 4:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/southern-us/8458/8 "2008-01-21T04:03:19Z")
Thanks Everybody! I can’t wait to join you! I have been so engrossed in reading posts and learning a LOT. You wouldn’t believe how clueless I am about all this! I can’t wait for the GC so I can order and get started! What a fantastic group you are too…!