# special mission **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 10, 2010, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/special-mission/38497 "2010-05-10T23:16:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![plasma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/6de8d8/32.png) [@plasma](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/plasma)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2010, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/special-mission/38497/1 "2010-05-10T23:16:06Z")
Hello everybody, This is my first message to these forums, so allow me to qualify for the gift coupon by writing the longest and most boring introduction ever. šŸ˜®šŸ˜› I am a 44-year old male living near Frankfurt, Germany, whoā€™s just about to get divorced. Therefore Iā€™m quite talkative again, so please bear with me if this is too long-winded. What type I am? Iā€™d say, very laid back and relaxed, at least since last year, having gone through a kind of ā€œparadigm shiftā€ in my life. I consider myself a risk taker, within reasonable limits. Someone who likes change and new challenges, or else might get bored after some time. I tend to be a perfectionist who doesnā€™t like people just bragging or showing off. Hence Iā€™m rather selective about who I consider my friend, as I value true friendship a lot. I know, that sounds horribly romantic, but itā€™s due to lessons learnt.šŸ™„ First I heard about (human) [pheromones](https://a314.com/) maybe 10 years ago. I thought, OK, well, might work, why not, in the end itā€™s a natural thing and such - and forgot about them. A few months ago I became really interested and started reading up on the topic, also reading as many relevant research papers as I could find on the internet. I always like to find published claims of anything backed by peer-reviewed double-blind studies on large, statistically significant sample groups. OK, in lieu of that Iā€™m willing to accept other peopleā€™s individual experience arrived at with less than scientific rigour. šŸ˜‰ **Why I am here** : Iā€™m on a ā€œspecial missionā€, namely winning a particular ladyā€™s heart. Weā€™ve met a few times last year (living in different countries) and, while she had high hopes in the beginning, after some time she told me she feels our relationship is not going to work out and the only thing she can offer me isā€¦you know itā€¦ _friendship_. Now that makes a man happy! ā˜¹ Not easily disheartened, Iā€™ve embarked on a long-term strategy. In first place this means learning her language (which I bare spoke last year) as this is the only way for us to communicate with each other. Then trying to understand what her inner beliefs and desires are and I hope to have found a key to that as well šŸ˜ƒ (_hint_: sheā€™s a _great_ romantic). That lady is a divorced mother of a son, being single for several years. Her looks certainly arenā€™t the problem in finding a partner. One thing she said was she needs a ā€œreal man who stands by his word and bears responsibility for his actionsā€. My main short-term goal is just to win her trust. Itā€™s not about having sex or such (on a second thought - it is, but _slightly_ later). There will be another crucial meeting in June for a few days when I want to let her decided whether we should try to develop that relationship or separate for good since I donā€™t need any half-baked ā€œfriendshipā€. Now, what are your suggestions - what product or combinations thereof should I look at? Or should I just give up all hope and drown myself in alcohol??šŸ˜• Thanks for your patience and input (donā€™t worry, I wonā€™t publish my memoirs on this forum šŸ˜ƒ), Henry. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2010, 11:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/special-mission/38497/2 "2010-05-10T23:28:38Z")
Hey plasma, it sounds to me like youā€™re a Gemini! Iā€™m the same as you when it comes to being selective of friends and getting bored easily. Anyway, it sounds to me personally like IH and IG (or A314) would be great for you. It seems like you too donā€™t have a problem with communication so IO wonā€™t be needed. What you need is for her to feel comfortable with you and be able to trust you and that my fiend, is what IH does. IH will make her feel like she can trust you, will give her the feeling of feeling comfortable around you, while also making her seem like she can tell you anything thanks to the things IH does. IG will add an even more sense of masculine comfort, it will also make you seem like you will be a good provider (especially paired with IH.) A314 will do the same, but this one is just a tad bit more serious, so it can intimidate some people but paired with IH will be great and give it a romantic vibe. Iā€™d also suggest some AMMO which is a cologne strength scented attractant which serves as a jack of all trades type of [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/). Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2010, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/special-mission/38497/3 "2010-05-11T00:30:40Z")
Mikoto has nailed it. Definitely give IG a go, its a really great product. ---
**Author:** ![plasma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/6de8d8/32.png) [@plasma](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/plasma)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2010, 11:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/special-mission/38497/4 "2010-05-11T11:42:56Z")
> [@mikotorocks714](#): > > Hey plasma, it sounds to me like youā€™re a Gemini! Iā€™m the same as you when it comes to being selective of friends and getting bored easily. Hi Mikoto, that was a close call! I narrowly missed being a Gemini - by just a few days (Iā€™m a Cancer). Anyway, many thanks for the feedback, you really _rock_. šŸ™‚ Now I hope those magic potions youā€™ve suggested also rock that lady and are available soon in the first place. šŸ˜® I think Iā€™ll go for IG, IH and probably [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), but consider A314 (for job interviews) as well. **One more question:** does Ammo blend in well with _eau de parfums_, specifically oriental types (Boucheron Jaipur homme)? Cheers, Henry. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2010, 12:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/special-mission/38497/5 "2010-05-11T12:11:33Z")
Hello there, Welcome. I recommend you try AMMO and IH. IH will make her closer to you. It can make her talk deeper and more personal with you. It can help to enhance relationship. AMMO can help to make her attracted to you. It can give you some sexual attention too. God luck ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2010, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/special-mission/38497/6 "2010-05-11T21:19:26Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too šŸ™‚. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. Iā€™m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too šŸ™‚. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.