# Stimulate Me **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 9, 2009, 6:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163 "2009-10-09T18:37:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MindCandy999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mindcandy999/32/477_2.png) [@MindCandy999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MindCandy999)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 6:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/1 "2009-10-09T18:37:42Z")
Greetings! I’m Mercedes aka MindCandy999. I have 35 years so far and I am currently in “Everything’s Bigger In” Texas. I also travel to Florida as much as possible; at least eight times a year since moving to the DFW area. I found this site by surprise while looking for a cheaper Iso E Super since the price of my usual Molecules 01 and Escentric 01 can get a bit costly as much as I use it. I’ve had an interest in [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) since HS, but that was before the 'net and the products I tried were too commercial or generic or just didn’t work for me. I’ve been a long-time lurker of forums be they about guns or roses, but never thought I would join one. I usually get bored/annoyed pretty quickly, but not with this site so I had to become a member. With so many positive and knowledgeable posts I was easily swayed. Music has always had the power to influence my every mood/thought/feeling and I look forward to moving past my auditory stimulation to my phero stimulation. I do want to eventually be a Master Mixtress of Mones, but as a girl on the go who definitely burns her candle in the middle, I’m immediately looking to the tried and true mixes like 135/235, 134 (granted I’m allowed) and the Instant Series until I can jump in completely. I’ve already started a Hanukkah wish list and welcome any advice on things I should move to the top to start my kit and let the experimenting begin! If you’ve read this far you’re a trooper! Don’t forget to send me starter suggestions. Yours, MindCandy ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 6:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/2 "2009-10-09T18:53:36Z")
Nice MindCandy - I get the impression you are going to be a great addition to our community. Straight up - you sound like a confident person with a very strong personality… the kind of girl who sometimes ends up pushing guys around. It’s actually really hard to make a suggestion on IS/a or IS/b simply because I think IS/a would match your personality, but IS/b would give you a softness that would be pleasant for you. Definetly try out IS… instant shine is my favorite molecule, pure happy sauce! Let me know if I’m right in my observations and happy pheroing! ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/3 "2009-10-09T18:54:39Z")
:DHello MindCandy and welcome to the forum! I’m glad you’ve finally joined us and I’m sure you won’t be disappointed with what you find here. PheroTalk is probably the only forum I can think of that doesn’t have any trolls(people that start up controversy). Anyway, I’m not a woman obviously 😉 but my mother uses [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) and she gets great results from it like more attention and friendlier people so that’s a good product to start with right there. I’m sure some of the lovely ladies here will be here soon to give you more advice but I’d also recommend not using any of the MX’s yet until you’ve tried a few of the main line products. PS: Report your results and you can become a reporting user and get discounts off MX’s!😉 ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/4 "2009-10-09T19:39:56Z")
Welcome!!! as they’ve already said you will not be disappointed by the products here. The forum is great and we all have a lot of information to share, it can be a bit much at times 😛 I’ve heard the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) (a and b) are both very good choices for women, and the instant line like IO and IS are great for anyone! let us know how things go! have fun ---
**Author:** ![MindCandy999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mindcandy999/32/477_2.png) [@MindCandy999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MindCandy999)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 8:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/5 "2009-10-09T20:25:57Z")
Thanks for your reply. I hope to one day help the newbies so I can pay it forward. Confident. Me? Not at all. I do make being a wise-ass an art form and my dark, dry sense of humor is a plus. It’s when I’m quiet, which is most of the time since I’ve been painfully shy since… forever, that I get into the most trouble. People always think I’m mean or a bitch. That perception is what I want to counter. You’ll never see me pushing guys around. That’s not cool esp. if you believe in what goes around comes around. Apparently I was quite a dick in my last life so I’m paying for it now by being the pushover, but I like to take care of people; just my nature. Thanks for the suggestion. I think I’ll try the IS/B first. It wasn’t on my current list of stuff to try right out of the gate, but I’ll be buying both of course! ---
**Author:** ![MindCandy999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mindcandy999/32/477_2.png) [@MindCandy999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MindCandy999)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/6 "2009-10-09T20:46:16Z")
K-Train thanks for the tip on holding off on the mixes. I’ll be ordering a few of the instants this weekend! ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/7 "2009-10-09T20:51:59Z")
> [@MindCandy999](#): > > K-Train thanks for the tip on holding off on the mixes. I’ll be ordering a few of the instants this weekend! No problem, let us know how it goes! [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is one of my personal favorites and it’s _very_ good at creating _quality_ conversations. If you have a significant other it can really bring you two closer together. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/8 "2009-10-09T21:03:05Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/9 "2009-10-09T21:09:58Z")
> [@MindCandy999](#): > > Thanks for your reply. I hope to one day help the newbies so I can pay it forward. > > Confident. Me? Not at all. I do make being a wise-ass an art form and my dark, dry sense of humor is a plus. It’s when I’m quiet, which is most of the time since I’ve been painfully shy since… forever, that I get into the most trouble. People always think I’m mean or a bitch. That perception is what I want to counter. > > You’ll never see me pushing guys around. That’s not cool esp. if you believe in what goes around comes around. Apparently I was quite a dick in my last life so I’m paying for it now by being the pushover, but I like to take care of people; just my nature. > > Thanks for the suggestion. I think I’ll try the IS/B first. It wasn’t on my current list of stuff to try right out of the gate, but I’ll be buying both of course! I would watch out with IS/a if you consistently perceived as “mean” but don’t come across as confident. That incongruence with IS/a will only heighten that perception of meanness. However, it might be good for when you are feeling social, it will help your confidence moreso than IS/b (IS/a has an “incharge” kind of self-effect). ## IS/b gives you an approachable sexiness… definetly good if you are sometimes perceived as unapproachable because of your shyness. On a final note, to become a reporting user simply start a journal and post whenever you apply - just a quick account of anything that seemed unusual during the day/how you were feeling. * * * Ok, really a final note - If you are an “in your own head” kind of person you will likely find yourself being even moreso that type of person if you focus too much on trying to feel/see phero effects. Do not try to see the phero’s working while you are socializing (you will inevitably find you either create the effect you were looking for by changing how you act, or that you spend so much time in your head that you create space between you and those whom you are socializing with). Leave your observations for the end of your day (which is why it is important to post to your journal every day, so you don’t forget) Holy crap… I think I got sidetracked there ---
**Author:** ![MindCandy999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mindcandy999/32/477_2.png) [@MindCandy999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MindCandy999)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2009, 10:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/stimulate-me/33163/10 "2009-10-09T22:03:56Z")
> [@Wrlprchnx](#): > > I would watch out with IS/a if you consistently perceived as “mean” but don’t come across as confident. That incongruence with IS/a will only heighten that perception of meanness. > However, it might be good for when you are feeling social, it will help your confidence moreso than IS/b (IS/a has an “incharge” kind of self-effect). > > ## IS/b gives you an approachable sexiness… definetly good if you are sometimes perceived as unapproachable because of your shyness. > > On a final note, to become a reporting user simply start a journal and post whenever you apply - just a quick account of anything that seemed unusual during the day/how you were feeling. > > * * * > > Ok, really a final note - If you are an “in your own head” kind of person you will likely find yourself being even moreso that type of person if you focus too much on trying to feel/see phero effects. Do not try to see the phero’s working while you are socializing (you will inevitably find you either create the effect you were looking for by changing how you act, or that you spend so much time in your head that you create space between you and those whom you are socializing with). Leave your observations for the end of your day (which is why it is important to post to your journal every day, so you don’t forget) > > Holy crap… I think I got sidetracked there OK I guess I should clarify. I’m basically a walking contradiction. I say I’m shy. Those that really know me agree. To many I’m Hell on Heels. Ha! The sex kitten thing works a little too well naturally without trying so I’m definitely going to give the IS/B a go first, though and will be journaling along the way.