My last GF liked to meet guys in chat rooms and call them for phone sex. I just couldn’t figure what the hell that was about. If it was me, I’d never admit something like that to my lover…
I presume thats why she was your LAST GF.
It’s ok to sit quietly and let the dust settle. As the air clears, sometimes the way before you becomes more clear.
She didn’t admit it to me. I’m the tech guy between the two of us, and when her computer was acting up one day, she asked me to have a look at it. So, thinking she may have a virus, I went through and looked at recent downloads to see if anything was infected, and did a general search for malware. I ended up discovering pictures that weren’t exactly professional, nor were they of me. This prompted further poking, where I turned up pictures of her that I’d never seen before. By this point, I was in full on investigation mode, so I checked chat and IM logs, and hacked her email account to discover all sorts of cybersex, photoswapping, cam evidence, etc. She never made any plans to have any sort of rendezvous with anyone, but I still felt betrayed. Ironically enough, I was the one who could have pursued divorce, but I chose instead to forgive her and move on. So when she dropped the d-bomb on me the week of our anniversary in July, I was a bit taken aback to say the least.
Anyway… yeah… I’ve gone in a direction I never intended to go here, so I’m-a drop it. We ARE in counseling, so we’ll see how that plays out.
-D4
… you clearly didn’t read my post on Mexican strip-clubs 
I’ll get nekkid and dance for 20 bucks and a shot.
One of the lines I pulled on a stripper on Friday night almost got me in trouble. She walked up to me and asked me if I wanted a dance, and I said “Sure… Now, for $30 you have to sit on your hands and watch, but for $60, you can touch me any way you want.” She said “I’ll take the $60 dance then.” My bluff called, I had to think of something quick…
Me: “You know, I actually did that once. Came out of the club $60 richer.”
Her: “Oh really? How was it?”
Me: “It was okay at first, but then I realized suddenly that he had a kung fu grip that made me squeak. I got home and my girlfriend was like ‘you look stressed. Want a massage?’ I just said (whiny voice) ‘Uh… no… I’m just gonna have a shower, a Tylenol, and go to bed…’”
She laughed and had a seat. Got to chat for about 10 minutes before she sold me on a dance. Ah… good times. I wonder if I COULD pull that off for real. It’d be hilarious, but I’d have to be drunk first.
-D4
Actually I was a bit shocked but forgave her. At least I knew she was as big a perv as me. We broke up because her husband found out about us and now she blames me for her divorce.
well that’ll teach her. not the brightest crayon in the box, eh, Gegogi?
I’m no expert on this yet, but I don’t think a strip club is the best place to test these very high quality products out seeing as how most of the women that work in these places (including HOOTERS) are trained and skilled at manipulating their customers no matter what who they might be.. I’m not saying that your info is wrong, I’m just saying be careful about getting the false advertisement seen in these kinds of places with actual results..
Remember it’s all about making money…
I would, however, suggest using such techniques at places you wouldn’t think of dating or flirtation as a huge thing. Like the grocery store, just walk up and down the isles and see what kind reactions you get, and then tweak your mixture a bit and keep doing that until you get the reactions you want.
Another really great place to try this out is the mall or any dept. store even the libraries.. All I’m saying is first get your suit perfected and then go back to the strip clubs and then tweak your reactions based on that..
Stay Fresh and live it up..
Omni-
any environment where you can have plenty of intereractions over time and it’s consistent enough that you can get some sort of sense for what is normal and what is unusual is fine, I think. the advantage of a strip club - if that is what you like - is you don’t need to approach and they have to come talk to you but obviously you need to have some idea of how to behave once you are talking and how to distinguish between real interest and fake iois.
unless you are starting conversations at the grocery store, i don’t know if it’s an ideal place to refine mixes - at least if you are in a big city where there are some barriers to engaging random strangers socially. there is a difference between a novelty mix that allows you to amaze your friends with fun and freaky hits and something genuinely useful that you can use as a social lever. so most of the time i have found it better to wear, forget and analyse later than to go ‘hit-spotting’, fun as that may be.
the exception is when you go out now and then specifically with the intention of enhancing your social radar - best to have a super socially-savvy female friend to help you do this.
I wanna take Jasmin. I think she’d be about the best hit spotter on the face of the planet. Either her or Tisha.
Strips clubs are simply novelty territory when it comes to mones. While I did find myself getting a little caught up in the illusion they offer, the main objective here was to see what happens with heavy applications. Between this thread and others before it, it’s pretty much proven that a little game and a lot of mones will at least give you great service.
-D4
this isn’t very good, but it’s maybe a pointer in right direction. not my scene, but maybe others can suggest.
Stripper Approaches Neil Stauss Style Pick Up Artist PUA - Seduction Dating Advice The Game
Thank you snook. Its true the opposite sex is the best hit spotter for you. My best friend is male and he is my spotter as well. He will notice things I dont, not that much gets by me. 
Then he will chase them off LOL.
My husband often gets hit on and he has no idea. I will always notice it and I think its so funny that he dosnt. I will tease him about it alot.
Tisha
Exactly. I have a few mixes that get wild responses, but theyre unreliable and not socially usable. Im guessing the reason why i get nothing special out of MX177 is that its a wild mix instead of something you can count on.
I think Jasmin offered to go spotting for someone on the board a while back. If youre near her, maybe you should hit her up.
Uhmmm I think she’s a bit too busy for that at the moment. Check out her post in the Store Announcements forum.:o
God help me, I’m going again. Hehe. I invited the wife. She told me to “have fun”.
Goal tonight is a email close. I’m also going to look out for a stripper who sucks at approaching on the hustle and teach her how to do it right with a little NLP that I’ve never used before. They say those who don’t know how teach, right? Let’s see how well I can barter.
Planned duration: 1.5 hours. Pheros used: All of my arsenal. Heavy on the -none, medium on the A314, IFM, and Shine, light on the IO. Planned $$ outlay: Cover charge + 2 drinks and drink tips. Appx $30.
-D4
Eh. I changed my mind. Ended up going to a friend’s house and hung out. Strip clubs are a waste of time. He asked me “Dude, what the F— are you wearing?” regarding my aroma. Kinda funny.
-D4