# Strong phero combo at a club, a cold reaction from one girl and no other hits **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 31, 2008, 3:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544 "2008-08-31T03:45:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 3:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/1 "2008-08-31T03:45:27Z")
So yes unfortunately i fail damn badly on getting to know that portuguese girl better or even taking a photo of her on my clubbing last night ☹ And yes my phero combo failed on their part as i know i did my very best effort there to get to know her i repeat again my very damn best. My phero combo was a strong one btw but i’m sure my phero combo was not close to Oding but still it failed ☹ I’m utterly sad & disappointed about this as not only did my phero combo make that portuguese girl feel terrible toward me, i did not get any reaction whatsoever from other people there ☹ And that girl attitude toward me was terrible, she was talking to me but not facing toward me which is rude & she did not feel like talking to me there if you know what i mean ☹ And the crowd there was terrible too ☹ And i did not enjoyed myself there in fact my last night clubbing sucks that bad ☹ To river & renny if both of you are reading this, i’m sorry that i did not use either one of your phero combo recommendation & i blamed myself for that & for what had happened last night. I will be making a report out of what happened\> Day 24 report soon but i will need time to do it & honestly speaking i don’t feel like doing it at all in fact i’m feeling utterly miserable, sad, disappointed & blaming myself for what happened there now ☹ My mood level drop down -100 ☹ Man why damn it!!! Argh!!! ---
**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 3:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/2 "2008-08-31T03:57:17Z")
Oh mate, I feel for you. Like you say though, the crowd was terrible and the club generally sucked. And it is unrealistic to expect one guy to elevate the mood of an entire club full of people however many pheros he is wearing. If the overall vibe was poor, it was poor, and there’s nothing you could do about that really. So don’t blame yourself too much, if it was truly a bum night then the girl can’t really have been too receptive in such an environment. ---
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/3 "2008-08-31T06:49:19Z")
hang in there dude. if i had luck with this stuff then you will too. that’s a fact. ---
**Author:** ![Eldros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eldros/32/279_2.png) [@Eldros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eldros)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/4 "2008-08-31T07:41:18Z")
I think you should also wear a pair of [sporty sunglasses](http://www.decormyeyes.com/Shades/ProductImages/37/flakjacketjetblack.jpg) when you go clubbing. Serious looking people are taken seriously. And when you do get their attention and go into the comfort building zone, you can use them to help build comfort by simply taking them off and putting them on your target 🆒. ---
**Author:** ![smiling\_ray](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smiling_ray/32/1314_2.png) [@smiling\_ray](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smiling_ray)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 8:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/5 "2008-08-31T08:30:05Z")
There are successes and there are failures. Don’t be hard on yourself and blame it on it. As you said the club sucked, so there was nothing you could do to change it. Some days you are lucky, some days you aren’t. You are alive right? There’s always a next time. ---
**Author:** ![Hirogen](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hirogen/32/1219_2.png) [@Hirogen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hirogen)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/6 "2008-08-31T09:46:00Z")
> [@smiling\_ray](#): > > You are alive right? There’s always a next time. Damn right. You should write that into your sig. ---
**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/7 "2008-08-31T10:09:43Z")
hey phat, long time no see hows it hanging, damn that night club experience sucks, oh well next time, loojking forward to your report, cheers 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 8:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/8 "2008-08-31T20:00:01Z")
> [@Eldros](#): > > I think you should also wear a pair of [sporty sunglasses](http://www.decormyeyes.com/Shades/ProductImages/37/flakjacketjetblack.jpg) when you go clubbing. Serious looking people are taken seriously. And when you do get their attention and go into the comfort building zone, you can use them to help build comfort by simply taking them off and putting them on your target 🆒. I wouldn’t recommend this. Sure all the goofs in Hip Hop videos wear them at night time and inside clubs in music videos. But let’s look at reality shall we? People that actually do that aside from famous people are and few between. Famous people do it in hopes of not being recognized, don’t want to go blind from being photographed by idiots, and in some cases obscure the fact that their eyes are bloodshot cause they’re fucked up on drugs. Rappers do it well, mostly for bling status. Also cause the real dark shades come off as intimidating. Which is exactly what you don’t want to do when approaching a gal. Intimidation bad. It’s ok to have 'em resting ontop of your head, but in most cases I would not actually wear them beyond sunny outdoors places. If you’ve really nice designer sunglasses and get them with prescription transition lenses you can wear them anywhere. This offers the bling factor, and functionality when it’s actually sunny. I made another eyeglasses related rant again. Damnit. ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2008, 8:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/9 "2008-08-31T20:21:03Z")
Hey PS! Go to the lounge, find some of Mark-In-Dallas’s funny jokes. Have a laugh, get some rest and try again. Don’t beat yourself up. If portugese girl doesn’t think your an adorable Phatsounds you’ll just have to keep going till you find someone who does. You rock buddy! And tell us your combo. It as important to know what didn’t work as what did. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 3:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/10 "2008-09-02T15:15:49Z")
My thanks to all who have replied to this thread plus your advices as well 🙂 I appreciate all you guys have said there very much 🙂 Well for now i know i have to keep on going but i’m still sadden about that night & it hurts to do the report about it ☹ How do you feel to get rejection from a girl in front of your friends? How do you feel to be humiliated like that? Yes that portuguese girl humiliated me in front of my friends ☹ And i give up on that girl already as she is not worth it. I’m sorry to say that my Day 24 report will be delayed or cancelled due to my hesitation to do it ☹ For now i’m thinking of other things & making myself busy rather than to think about it. So like this if you guys see the report being posted then it has been posted if not you know what i mean. See you all 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 6:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/11 "2008-09-02T18:33:36Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > And i give up on that girl already as she is not worth it. You’re right Phat…she’s NOT worth it! As you’ve said before, she’s hot, hot, hot and in my experience, people that are that hot, know they’re hot, and think their sh\*t doesn’t stink, and have the personality of a cardboard box. So don’t get all down on yourself, you’re not responsible for someone else acting like a jacka$$. Big hugs to ya, babe! ~~River ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 7:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/12 "2008-09-02T19:43:13Z")
> [@river](#): > > You’re right Phat…she’s NOT worth it! As you’ve said before, she’s hot, hot, hot and in my experience, people that are that hot, know they’re hot, and think their sh\*t doesn’t stink, and have the personality of a cardboard box. So don’t get all down on yourself, you’re not responsible for someone else acting like a jacka$$. > > Big hugs to ya, babe! > > ~~River My thanks for replying & for the hugs river 🙂 & yes you are absolutely right on what you have said there 🙂 It was 100% correct 😉 She is like what you have said there so i have make the right move to give up on her. Well i will keep on going for now & make myself busy on other things/matters instead of thinking about that night. Hugs to you back ((((((((river))))))))🙂 ---
**Author:** ![GuySajer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/guysajer/32/446_2.png) [@GuySajer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GuySajer)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/13 "2008-09-02T23:05:19Z")
Forget about her. She’s just a hot piece of ass, good for screwing and that’s it. You tried, just like many other guys and you got rejected, just like many other guys. Girls who think that they can coast by on their looks while having an awful personality won’t have jack shit when they lose their looks. They become cat ladies. You on the other hand, your market values increases as you get older, as long as you stay on the right path, which you’re doing. You’re out there trying. Did she just have a dismissive attitude or was she flat-out insulting? Regardless, that’s probably the worst that you’ll get. You just experienced that, you know what it’s like and now you know the worst case scenario. 99% of your future interactions will be better than that, and you know what to expect in the worst case scenario. That right there just made your skin alittle bit thicker. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 11:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/14 "2008-09-02T23:31:51Z")
Jeez I want to be not hot you guys are harsh on hot people LOL 😛 Everyone and I do mean everyone has a “Hot person” inside just waiting to be unleashed. I am serious. Look at some actors who are considered hot and have girls chasing them down the street. They are not classically good looking but end up with beautiful women. Before you say “well they have money” All three of them have been with extremely rich women who dont need there piddley money. Adrian Brody for instance [http://ia.media-imdb.com/images/M/MV5BMTIwNTQ1NDU1NV5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTYwNDIzMTQ1.\_V1._CR0,0,267,267\_SS100_.jpg](http://us.imdb.com/media/rm2265225984/nm0004778) David Spade [http://ia.media-imdb.com/images/M/MV5BMjA1NzQwNTkyN15BMl5BanBnXkFtZTYwMTIxNjQ3.\_V1._CR0,0,450,450\_SS100_.jpg](http://us.imdb.com/media/rm162633984/tt0120917) Larry the cable guy, I think he’s hot LOL 😛 [http://www.larrythecableguy.com/images/larryface1.jpg](http://www.larrythecableguy.com/images/larryface1.jpg) Hottness is in the eye of the beholder. Dont let it get to you when you get shot down. Her behavior is more a reflection on her then it is on you. There are people who think I am hot and some who dont. Mones enhance attraction but they are only one factor in a larger picture which includes visual preference and compatibility. Phat, When the right girl comes along you will be ready. Just think of these others as Batting practice because you deserve someone who will treat you with love and respect. Cheer up (((((PHAT))))) Tisha 😉 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2008, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/15 "2008-09-06T22:11:48Z")
> [@GuySajer](#): > > Forget about her. She’s just a hot piece of ass, good for screwing and that’s it. You tried, just like many other guys and you got rejected, just like many other guys. > > Girls who think that they can coast by on their looks while having an awful personality won’t have jack shit when they lose their looks. They become cat ladies. You on the other hand, your market values increases as you get older, as long as you stay on the right path, which you’re doing. You’re out there trying. > > Did she just have a dismissive attitude or was she flat-out insulting? Regardless, that’s probably the worst that you’ll get. You just experienced that, you know what it’s like and now you know the worst case scenario. 99% of your future interactions will be better than that, and you know what to expect in the worst case scenario. That right there just made your skin alittle bit thicker. Well you are right on you have said there GuySajer, i have to forget her. I have tried my best & got rejected so i should move on. And yes franky speaking i agreed with you on these girls who coast their looks while have an awful personality will eventually won’t get what they want after they lose their looks when they aged 🙄 Well she have a dismissive attitude GuySajer. Well you are right that my future interactions will be better after that unfortunate encounter with her. At least i know what to expect next time. My thanks for your advice GuySajer 🙂 > [@tisha23](#): > > Jeez I want to be not hot you guys are harsh on hot people LOL 😛 > > Everyone and I do mean everyone has a “Hot person” inside just waiting to be unleashed. I am serious. Look at some actors who are considered hot and have girls chasing them down the street. They are not classically good looking but end up with beautiful women. Before you say “well they have money” All three of them have been with extremely rich women who dont need there piddley money. > > Adrian Brody for instance > > David Spade > > Larry the cable guy, I think he’s hot LOL 😛 > > [http://www.larrythecableguy.com/images/larryface1.jpg](http://www.larrythecableguy.com/images/larryface1.jpg) > > Hottness is in the eye of the beholder. Dont let it get to you when you get shot down. Her behavior is more a reflection on her then it is on you. There are people who think I am hot and some who dont. Mones enhance attraction but they are only one factor in a larger picture which includes visual preference and compatibility. Phat, When the right girl comes along you will be ready. Just think of these others as Batting practice because you deserve someone who will treat you with love and respect. > > Cheer up (((((PHAT))))) > > Tisha 😉 Sorry Lady Tisha but now i have some hatred toward hot people that acted like that girl but not you or my friends just the other hot people that acted like her. Btw cool guys pics there, thanks for showing to me there 🙂 And i understand your advice there & btw i think you are hot on my opinion 🙂 Oops back to the topic, well yes i get it about visual preference(how the girl decide on my looks) & compatibility(how me & the girl character, attitude & preference suit each other) & yes i will take all these others as battling practice befor i get the girl that i desire. Thanks for the advice plus the pics Lady Tisha. Some hugs to you ((((((Lady Tisha)))))) from me phat. Note: Btw to all in Pherotalk i will tell you guys/ladies the combo i used on the fateful night\> (Instant Gentleman, Instant Shine 2X, P93, TUTH, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) 4X & MX275) but for the report i can’t do it as it bring bad memories which i don’t wish to remember. So Day 24 report is cancelled. ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2008, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/16 "2008-09-06T23:01:07Z")
Sorry to hear that phatsounds, hopefully your more recent experiences are positive! Do you have some ifm? Maybe this can work and make people more relaxed and less arrogant 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2008, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/17 "2008-09-06T23:10:03Z")
> [@mockingbird](#): > > Sorry to hear that phatsounds, hopefully your more recent experiences are positive! > > Do you have some Instant Female Magic? Maybe this can work and make people more relaxed and less arrogant 🙂 It is ok buddy thanks for your concern there 🙂 I do hope like what you have said there 🙄 I got Instant Female magic, a 30ml bottle btw, hmm so you said that it will make people more relaxed & less arrogant ok i will add that in my combo on my next tests. Thanks my good buddy 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Eldros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eldros/32/279_2.png) [@Eldros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eldros)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 6:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/18 "2008-09-07T18:36:44Z")
> [@My attraction do's & don't's list](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-attraction-dos-donts-list/13126/1): > > - Make her laugh (have I gotten this point across yet?). Tell her you like her ear rings for example. Maybe if you are sitting next to her you could put an arm around the chair or something. If she clearly does not want you… give up. You will be made fun of by every single girl if she doesn’t like you and dumps you in front of everyone. If you want to ask her out,do it in private, people spread rumors. > ([Hightail](http://download.yousendit.com/EEF8E62F09A6471A)) ^true story? ---
**Author:** ![Eldros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eldros/32/279_2.png) [@Eldros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eldros)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/19 "2008-09-07T18:43:18Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > Note: Btw to all in Pherotalk i will tell you guys/ladies the combo i used on the fateful night\> **(Instant Gentleman, Instant Shine 2X, P93, Turn Up The Heat, Instant Honesty 4X & MX275)** but for the report i can’t do it as it bring bad memories which i don’t wish to remember. So Day 24 report is cancelled. Dude, I can’t believe that no one has commented on your mix. In my eyes, that’s one hell of a messy mix. What were you thinking? There’s like 1769238471962384 contradictions within that mix. There’s like 10 different pheos in that mix, way to many to be used without careful calculation. Remember KISS. Keep It Simple, Stupid. If you notice in most people’s successful mixes, they use maybe 6-7 pheros max. In my more successful mixes, it’s about 6 max (IO + IH + [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) + Dirty (maybe)). I don’t mean to sound negative, but I think that you’re head got inflated too much too quick and then got popped when you weren’t expecting. ---
**Author:** ![Eldros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eldros/32/279_2.png) [@Eldros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eldros)\ **Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544/20 "2008-09-07T18:44:19Z")
> [@My attraction do's & don't's list](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-attraction-dos-donts-list/13126/1): > > - Make her laugh (have I gotten this point across yet?). Tell her you like her ear rings for example. Maybe if you are sitting next to her you could put an arm around the chair or something. If she clearly does not want you… give up. You will be made fun of by every single girl if she doesn’t like you and dumps you in front of everyone. If you want to ask her out,do it in private, people spread rumors. > ([Hightail](http://download.yousendit.com/EEF8E62F09A6471A)) ^true story? > [@PhatSounds](#): > > Note: Btw to all in Pherotalk i will tell you guys/ladies the combo i used on the fateful night\> **(Instant Gentleman, Instant Shine 2X, P93, Turn Up The Heat, Instant Honesty 4X & MX275)** but for the report i can’t do it as it bring bad memories which i don’t wish to remember. So Day 24 report is cancelled. Dude, I can’t believe that no one has commented on your mix. In my eyes, that’s one hell of a messy mix. What were you thinking? There’s like 1769238471962384 contradictions within that mix. There’s like 10 different pheos in that mix, way to many to be used without careful calculation. Remember KISS. Keep It Simple, Stupid. If you notice in most people’s successful mixes, they use maybe 6-7 pheros max. In my more successful mixes, it’s about 6 max (Instant Openness + [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) + Ammo + Dirty (maybe)). I don’t mean to sound negative, but I think that you’re head got inflated too much too quick and then got popped when you weren’t expecting. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/strong-phero-combo-at-a-club-a-cold-reaction-from-one-girl-and-no-other-hits/18544.md?page=2)