# Summer Time, Greeting time!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [June 3, 2011, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576 "2011-06-03T01:44:48Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 12\
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**Author:** ![LovingBear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@LovingBear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LovingBear)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2011, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/1 "2011-06-03T01:44:48Z")

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Hello PheroTalkians,

Hi, my name’s Todd and I’m living it up in the SF Bay Area! 21 and legal to drink! 😉 It’s summer time, party time! My girlfriend has recently broken up with me so I’m gonna go decide on mingling this time around! I’ve heard about pheromone’s and how they’ll boost my chances with girls at parties and I’ve been reading around this forum and everything seems pretty legit to me!

I’ve stumbled upon this website by googling up Pheromones that attract women! Haha I know it may sound silly but I was watching TV and there was a show talking about Pheromones attracting pigs and other animals so I was wondering if there were any that actually affects humans I guess there are! Everything here seems pretty legit! But How legit is it?

I got two questions though;

1. Which Pheros are good for partying

2. Which phero/Phero combo would help me win back a girls heart who left me because of a player got her on hold but then he’s losing grip of her now?

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**Author:** ![ScienceStudent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/839c29/32.png) [@ScienceStudent](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ScienceStudent)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2011, 3:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/2 "2011-06-03T03:14:04Z")

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What kinds of girls do you like? Whats your personality like; what do you like to do (besides party)?

And not to be harsh, but would you really want someone back that has left you for another (and is therefore likely to do so again)?)

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**Author:** ![LovingBear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@LovingBear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LovingBear)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2011, 3:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/3 "2011-06-03T03:18:23Z")

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Personality wise, Nice and caring. Appearance wise, Asian probably. HAHA

And yeah I’d want to get back with a girl like her even tho she’s the exact opposite of what I like. BUt I just have this special feeling for her, ya know? She’s not really perfect looking and she has low self-esteem and is easily manipulated and thats why she left me.

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2011, 11:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/4 "2011-06-03T11:28:33Z")

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Hi Todd - Welcome to Pherotalk.

Good you have decided on getting out and mingling - Its not good to dwell on failed relationsgips and this will help you get your head and priorities straight, also you may well meet someone better.

To this end and as you are only 21, a small amount of Ammo, a well balanced socail/sexual/confidence boosting mix, and the social pheros [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), IO, IG and IH will probably be your best friends:

IS - Gives a happy and good to be around feel to you and those around you.  
IO - Promotes flowing conversation. IO and IS are both great icebreaker pheros.  
IG - gives a light suave/status effect that helps make you stand out in the crowd.  
IH - promotes closeness and bonding. Useful when you have met someone then want to get a lot closer.

Don’t discount the attraction value of the socials - they help create the good impressions and feelings that can trigger a stronger sexual attraction in women.

Ammo needs a little work to find the most effective dose. Read the start of this thread for links to all the info you need to get going:

> [@Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/updated-androticsdirect-pheromones-for-newbies/39802):
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> AD offers a wide array of pheromones out there. There’s been more and more new users asking about products and what not. To start off here are some basic guides for pheromones. This is a great writeup by Steve O to test pheromones out that you receive. [How to find your sweet spot… - PheroTalk Pheromone Research Forum](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-sweet-spot/55943)[http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-today/introduction-](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-the-introductions-new-users-say-hello-category/189702)[pheromones-names-size-strength-use-46373.html](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012) Here is also a guide to the molecules by toilofd…

For your ex, well if it is worth it, pheros can help. A little better idea of her personality, demeanour and what has turned her on in the past might give us a better idea but A314 is a great one for raising status and marking yourself out as a “catch” in many womens eyes. However, if she is a flighty/party/good-times type, the socials above may be more useful. Also, TUTH is good for enhancing an existing sexual relationship, so if you are revisiting it may be worth using a little of that? Keep it till you are very near the bedroom though, otherwise it can come-on too strong in general socialising.

Have fun and good luck! 🙂

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**Author:** ![LovingBear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@LovingBear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LovingBear)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2011, 4:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/5 "2011-06-03T16:49:20Z")

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How many sprays or dosage of the A314 do you think is needed to “Mark myself out as the catch?”

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2011, 5:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/6 "2011-06-03T17:48:01Z")

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As you are in your early 20s, probably less rather than more.

I would suggest you do a bit testing before you go meet your ex, start with one drop/spray and work-up till you notice a marked change in the people around you. eg, for normal work situations I am fine with 2 or 3 srops but when going out, I’ve recently developed a fondness for higher doses. - four and five drops produced a remarkable response from an ex of mine on two different occasions but a fair bit of alcohol was also involved! 😉

Personally I’d prefer the oil over the spray in almost any circumstance but it is true that the spray is much more present, which can be useful in social situations.

Other people here have found that a very small amount of A314, alongside [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and the likes of IO/IS can also work well - it all depends on the wearer and the subject!

Another thing with A314 is that it may take a little while to come to terms with your new signature, so again a bit of testing will help - you need to be quite congruent to get best results.

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**Author:** ![LovingBear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@LovingBear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LovingBear)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2011, 5:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/7 "2011-06-03T17:51:40Z")

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Haha. mobocaster, You seem like a master in the arts of [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/).

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [June 3, 2011, 7:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/8 "2011-06-03T19:53:53Z")

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Nope - Always learning and always eager to learn! 🙂

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**Author:** ![LovingBear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7c8e57/32.png) [@LovingBear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LovingBear)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2011, 12:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/9 "2011-06-04T00:31:41Z")

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Oh mobocaster, you asked about a little more info about her personality type and such. Well, she’s really chill and laid back sometimes. She gets really emotional out of the blue but idk why. she is VERY EASILY INFATUATED. And you’re sure A314 would do the trick or A314 + a mixture?

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**Author:** ![ScienceStudent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/839c29/32.png) [@ScienceStudent](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ScienceStudent)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2011, 4:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/10 "2011-06-04T16:40:58Z")

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> [@LovingBear](#):
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> Oh mobocaster, you asked about a little more info about her personality type and such. Well, she’s really chill and laid back sometimes. She gets really emotional out of the blue but idk why. she is VERY EASILY INFATUATED. And you’re sure A314 would do the trick or A314 + a mixture?

Personally, I’ve experienced the “really emotional out of the blue but idk why” too. Mine’s exacerbated by my ADD, but chances are _she_ doesn’t really know either. Or it’s the proverbial straw and camel – one tiny thing added to a whole pile of little things that are too overwhelming to sort out _especially_ in the middle of the mess. Hold her and be happy about it. Don’t assume it’s you – wait until she’s recovered to even ask. Tell her you’ll listen if she wants to talk about anything, but you only want her to feel better. Better yet, when she’s _not_ emotional, ask if there’s any way you can help her regain her balance. (For me, it’s making me laugh and holding me – and I tell this freely.) Then again, I will usually _state_ “I don’t know what the reason is,” and _truly_ mean it if I say “It isn’t you.”

As far as the infatuation, this may depend more on her personality – for me (and I recognize it, so it rarely causes trouble) it’s someone who truly cares about me and is willing to show affection, even in public, but is not completely deferential.

Good luck.

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2011, 5:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/11 "2011-06-04T17:35:53Z")

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> [@LovingBear](#):
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> Oh mobocaster, you asked about a little more info about her personality type and such. Well, she’s really chill and laid back sometimes. She gets really emotional out of the blue but idk why. she is VERY EASILY INFATUATED. And you’re sure A314 would do the trick or A314 + a mixture?

You can’t be sure of anything where ex’s are concerned as there are so many other issues that can be involved but it is the case that A314 is a phero that communicates many of the qualities that support an LTR and convey the sort of status that can make an ex snap right round and take another look at you. Of course you also need to have done the work on yourself and attended to the negative issues that damaged her attraction for you in the first place - if you don’t, things may work for a while and then fail for exactly the same reasons again.

You also need to consider if an LTR is really what she wants - You don’t mention her age but IME, at around 21, many women are not in a place where they are ready for that yet.

As for what to use, there are a wide variety of options based on A314 but it is the lynchpin and you should try to mix/moderate it as little as possible. Maybe a little more none, or a social like IS/IH but don’t overpower A314’s subtlties.

Try reading some of the past threads on A314 and ex’s - there are quite a few strategies discussed there.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [June 7, 2011, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/summer-time-greeting-time/50576/12 "2011-06-07T21:35:58Z")

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Welcome to pherotalk Lovingteddy!

My team is great but am more than impressed with the advice and pheromone recommendations they have given you.

It may not make sense to you but take some time to digest what is being said and realize that persons love this forum not only for the products but for the rich information and experienced members who are willing to use their experience and expertise to assist others.

Good luck with everything.

**Your gc was issued! 😉**
