# Sun-Shiny Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 3, 2008, 11:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422 "2008-11-03T11:37:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Gabriel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de0a6/32.png) [@Gabriel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gabriel)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 11:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422/1 "2008-11-03T11:37:47Z")
Hey Everyone, I’m Gabriel. I’m a 26 year old American boy upon whom the sun always shines, for whom the birds always sing, and for whom life is a grand and happy affair. 😉 I stumbled on this forum by accident and my curiosity was snagged. One of my most serious hobby topics is self-improvement and I found my way here through the the pick up artist forums. I have enjoyed reading a lot of your stories and I’m looking forward to playing with these products and seeing what kinds of reactions I get. Cheers! 'Gabriel ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 11:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422/2 "2008-11-03T11:42:40Z")
Hi Gabriel, Welcome to the forum To give a good recommendation, please allow us to know what kind of effect you are looking for in using pheromones. Who are your target? If you just want to try pheromones, I suggest IO. It can make people want to talk to you. It open up people and you will enjoy lotds of conversation. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is good to boost vconfidence. It will also lift your mood and the people around you. Good luck in trying. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 11:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422/3 "2008-11-03T11:43:37Z")
Hello Gabriel, Great to have you in Pherotalk so welcome on board 🙂 It is good that you found this forum by accident & i’m sure this forum together with the pheros will aid you there especially self improvement 🙂 Btw tell us what kind of goals you hope to achieve by using pheros here so that we can help you better 🙂 I will be waiting for your reply 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gabriel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/9de0a6/32.png) [@Gabriel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gabriel)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 12:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422/4 "2008-11-03T12:08:35Z")
Hey to JamesBonded and PhatSounds, thanks for the welcome! As for what I want out of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/)… I don’t know yet, but I have a philosophy. I read in someone’s signature here that “You can do it without pheromones, but pheromones cannot do it without you.” and I like that mindset. I have several “problem” areas but I’m pretty set on using anything outside of myself as an aide to make better what is already good. As an example, I have a lot of approach anxiety. When I see a pretty girl I often talk myself out of starting a conversation with her. I realize that this is a problem with my own mindset and confidence. I am determined to conquer this problem in my head, because the girls are not the problem, my fear is the problem. Because of this I don’t even like to have a drink before I approach, because I don’t want to depend on the “liquid courage”. However, once I’m past the initial introduction and starting conversation, I carry myself pretty well. I did not always, I had to learn the hard way to keep a conversation running, and I had to learn to take the leap and try for holding hands, asking for a number, kissing, and any of the natural escalations from there. Now that I’ve gotten past the crippling part of the fear of those interactions I know that I’ve won in my head. And now I would have no problem using an “aide” like pheromones to give me the extra edge. I’m going to spend a few more hours browsing through the forums and what others have said before I really know what I want out of the site and these products. That said, I really am interested in experimenting and finding out for myself that this actually works. I’ve traditionally been of the mindset that they don’t, but I would love to be wrong! 'Gabriel ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 12:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422/5 "2008-11-03T12:11:05Z")
Welcome Gabriel! So you are the sunshine boy, huh? I guess Instant Shine will be your thing. Instant Shine will also help tone down that anxiety. Ammo can help you be sexier to women, which in turn helps with confidence. If you just want to experiment, why not buy all the togo’s and see what they do? There is also [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Honesty that make your conversations smoother and more effective. Turn up the heat is really for the bedroom, so you might want to keep that for a second order. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422/6 "2008-11-03T18:43:10Z")
For getting overyour approach anxiety, IO and SHine will be a good choice. To make the conversation longer lasting, IH is the choice. It can make the conversation deeper and people will feel like knowing you for long time. It can create the bonding between you and the people you talk to. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422/7 "2008-11-03T21:30:49Z")
Hello Gabriel Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > [@](#): > > I’ve traditionally been of the mindset that they don’t, but I would love to be wrong! I am so glad you would love to be proven wrong because thats about to happen 😃 😉 Its OK to be a skeptic, we all were at some point, its only natural. Just be sure to read “what mones can do and what they cant do” the link is in my signature below. This will give you a better understanding so you know what to expect. I understand your still looking around trying to get a feel for things and what you want from mones. Thats cool take your time. I do suggest you look into all the basic consumer products first. There are alot of test mixes with number names like [MX200](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/mx200/) or P84 and it can be overwhelming. Start with the basics. I would suggest AMMO IH and Ishine. Look forward to your participation in the forum and if you need help just let me know. **Your GC is on its way 😃** Tisha ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2008, 10:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sun-shiny-hello/22422/8 "2008-11-03T22:23:32Z")
Ok Gabriel, i have read about your situation there & this is what i can think of to help you there\> i highly recommended you try out Instant Shine(a big boost to your confidence & make you & the people around feel more cheerful & good) + [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)(for better,easier & smoother conversations thus the icebreaker in conversations) + AMMO(for sexual attraction)🙂 It is better you try them one at a time first & know how each one of them work for you then after that try using them in a combo 🙂 Hope that helps. See you 🙂