# Super Confused and Mixed signals **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 14, 2012, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864 "2012-06-14T18:40:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2012, 6:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/1 "2012-06-14T18:40:44Z")
So I have been talking to this new girl from about an hour away from me since Monday night. Things were going great, by the end of the night we had planned to go on a date(all via text of course). So talked to her Tuesday night she had seen a picture of me from a couple years ago a while back but was begging me to take one and send it, told her my face hasn’t changed and I didn’t really want to, I eventually grabbed one of my PC from a year ago and sent it to her, it was around midnight when I sent it so no reply wasn’t out of the ordinary. Text her “Whats up?” around noon Wed no reply so again at about, 7 just joking around I sent “So you get a picture and stop talking to me, I see how it is.” again nothing so at this point I figure she didn’t find me attractive so I let it go, about 11 that night I get a text from her which is a picture of her tits. I send “Wtf, I was sleeping” and she replies almost instantly “huh”. So I said “I’m so confused right now, nevermind” (Keep in mind she woke me from a dead sleep so I was out of it.) She replies “K”. So I decide to text her “What’s up with you not texting back all day?” didn’t get a reply and didn’t text her today because I am so confused of what the fuck is going on. Major mixed signals here, any suggestions guys or ladies? ---
**Author:** ![Misein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Misein](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misein)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2012, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/2 "2012-06-14T23:16:38Z")
It’s only about 24 hours you’re talking about. She was probably just teasing you and then sent you a pic of her goddamn tits but you lost your shit completely because her response hadn’t been instant. ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/3 "2012-06-15T00:05:57Z")
> [@Misein](#): > > It’s only about 24 hours you’re talking about. She was probably just teasing you and then sent you a pic of her goddamn tits but you lost your shit completely because her response hadn’t been instant. Lol I have lost anything actually just didn’t know what to take away from it, not sure whether or not I should continue talking to her or if she is bat shit crazy. Just wondering why she is being so random that’s all, I’m the type of guy that would rather have a girl tell me to fuck off then leave me in the dark. Based on the fact she told me she gets attached super easily and has had tons of guys screw her over/lead her on, so I am assuming she is bat shit crazy and like you said Misein is probably just teasing me. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/4 "2012-06-15T00:18:51Z")
Thats the problems with communicating by texting, If people dont hear back right away they make assumptions as to why. Messages are short and confusing to. There could have been a million reasons she didnt text back immediately. OK so you text her at midnight with a picture of yourself possibly waking her out of a dead sleep. She doesn’t reply all day, possibly because she is working or busy. Maybe she was sleeping because she was up looking at your picture all night. Maybe the battery on her phone died. Could be anything… Then at 11 pm the next night she wakes you out of a dead sleep by sending you a picture of her boobs. You respond with what can easily be construed as a rejection. “WTF I was sleeping” Just what a girl wants to here when they show you there boobs. She is not responding now. I think you need to pick up the phone and talk to this girl. Use your voice. I don’t think the mixed signals are coming just from her. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Misein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Misein](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misein)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/5 "2012-06-15T00:30:29Z")
> [@ballzan](#): > > Lol I have lost anything actually just didn’t know what to take away from it, not sure whether or not I should continue talking to her or if she is bat shit crazy. Just wondering why she is being so random that’s all, I’m the type of guy that would **rather have a girl tell me to fuck off then leave me in the dark.** Based on the fact she told me she gets attached super easily and has had tons of guys screw her over/lead her on, so I am assuming she is bat shit crazy and like you said Misein is probably just teasing me. “Better to accept what you cannot change, the less the pain”. Get used to it, most likely won’t be the last time you’ll feel this way with a girl. PS. A little trick to remind you of correct grammar when choosing between then/than: I’d rather cuddle then have sex. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tahat2012](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/57b2e6/32.png) [@tahat2012](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tahat2012)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 4:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/6 "2012-06-15T04:09:14Z")
hmph… if everyone already DONE her, I don’t see the big loss. If you ask me, a good reply to her boobshot is a dickshot 🙂 but it’s just me lol if she’s so easy, don’t torment yourself so much…go with the flow… doesnt reply? fuck it! reply? fuck it!!! take it easy man… and USE A CONDOM rofl 😃 ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 9:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/7 "2012-06-15T09:35:05Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Thats the problems with communicating by texting, If people dont hear back right away they make assumptions as to why. Messages are short and confusing to. There could have been a million reasons she didnt text back immediately. > > OK so you text her at midnight with a picture of yourself possibly waking her out of a dead sleep. > > She doesn’t reply all day, possibly because she is working or busy. Maybe she was sleeping because she was up looking at your picture all night. Maybe the battery on her phone died. Could be anything… > > Then at 11 pm the next night she wakes you out of a dead sleep by sending you a picture of her boobs. You respond with what can easily be construed as a rejection. “WTF I was sleeping” Just what a girl wants to here when they show you there boobs. > > She is not responding now. > > I think you need to pick up the phone and talk to this girl. Use your voice. I don’t think the mixed signals are coming just from her. > > Tisha Haha yea that probably was the last thing she wanted to hear but I was still half asleep and hadn’t heard from her all day so I was caught of guard. I know what you mean about the text thing and have been meaning to call her just kept getting busy with crap and the replying to a text when ever I have time is easier. > [@Misein](#): > > “Better to accept what you cannot change, the less the pain”. Get used to it, most likely won’t be the last time you’ll feel this way with a girl. > > PS. A little trick to remind you of correct grammar when choosing between then/than: I’d rather cuddle then have sex. Yea probably not, lol. I see with the grammar thing, sometimes I get lazy or in a hurry and forget. > [@tahat2012](#): > > hmph… > if everyone already DONE her, I don’t see the big loss. > If you ask me, a good reply to her boobshot is a dickshot but it’s just me lol > if she’s so easy, don’t torment yourself so much…go with the flow… doesnt reply? fuck it! reply? fuck it!!! > take it easy man… and USE A CONDOM rofl I don’t know how many people have done her, she said she has been fucked over a lot not fucked a lot, lol. But yea random boob pictures to a guy you just met 2 days before I am kind of getting the easy vibe. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 9:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/8 "2012-06-15T09:44:44Z")
Remember that a lot of girls love sexual attention (and attention in general) when they are able to step back from it easily but will behave very differently when face to face. However, if she is sending you naked pics, that does look good - just don’t be too diligent about replying and don’t make it a big deal - Stop worrying and don’t let her think she’s got you on the hook by it. ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/9 "2012-06-15T10:08:44Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > Remember that a lot of girls love sexual attention (and attention in general) when they are able to step back from it easily but will behave very differently when face to face. > > However, if she is sending you naked pics, that does look good - just don’t be too diligent about replying and don’t make it a big deal - Stop worrying and don’t let her think she’s got you on the hook by it. Well the last I talked to her was Wednesday night but that’s just because I’ve been confused on what to do but that’s great advice. ---
**Author:** ![andromun](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/andromun/32/365_2.png) [@andromun](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andromun)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 11:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/10 "2012-06-15T11:28:36Z")
> [@ballzan](#): > > So I have been talking to this new girl from about an hour away from me since Monday night. Things were going great, by the end of the night we had planned to go on a date(all via text of course)… Text her “Whats up?” around noon Wed no reply so again at about, 7 just joking around I sent “So you get a picture and stop talking to me, I see how it is.” again nothing so at this point I figure she didn’t find me attractive so I let it go, about 11 that night I get a text from her which is a picture of her tits. I send “Wtf, I was sleeping” and she replies almost instantly “huh”. So I said “I’m so confused right now, nevermind”…She replies “K”. So I decide to text her “What’s up with you not texting back all day?” didn’t get a reply and didn’t text her today because I am so confused of what the fuck is going on. Dude - the mixed signals came from you! She sent you a pic of her boobies and you texted her something along the lines of ‘leave me alone’. I don’t mean to sound like a jerk but your texting skills need to be polished. I kid you not texting a girl requires just a little more finesse than just speaking to her. You really didn’t flirt with her via text (which is what she wanted) and sending a women texts like: “WTF” and “What’s Up” doesn’t really help. ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 1:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/11 "2012-06-15T13:10:32Z")
> [@andromun](#): > > Dude - the mixed signals came from you! She sent you a pic of her boobies and you texted her something along the lines of ‘leave me alone’. I don’t mean to sound like a jerk but your texting skills need to be polished. I kid you not texting a girl requires just a little more finesse than just speaking to her. > > You really didn’t flirt with her via text (which is what she wanted) and sending a women texts like: “WTF” and “What’s Up” doesn’t really help. Ill give you that, I’m came here for advice and help so your constructive criticism of my poor texting skills is fine so how about some tips, lol. Normally I wouldn’t send something like I did but not hearing from her all day and texting her twice with no response, the last thing I expected was to be awoken by a boobie picture. I figured by the huh response I got after I send wtf that she might have sent it to the wrong person but that’s kind of hard to do with pictures, or atleast with my phone. ---
**Author:** ![latorrin82](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/f08c70/32.png) [@latorrin82](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/latorrin82)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 2:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/super-confused-and-mixed-signals/55864/12 "2012-06-15T14:19:30Z")
Yeah saying something like “I don’t usually like being woken up from being dead asleep, but those are an exception.” was probably the best response lol. just tell her that when first waking up, you tend to be groggy and unaware, and you should be okay.