# Sweet Jesus Christ and the three awesome possums. WOW **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 30, 2008, 3:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571 "2008-09-30T03:22:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Jessefrom213](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cc9497/32.png) [@Jessefrom213](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jessefrom213)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2008, 5:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/21 "2008-10-01T17:23:52Z")
Ok, so I got some questions that I would like to have answered, especially from women. First of all, I want to admit something. I’m starting to fall for my ex again, big time. Which is not good, I want her to fall for me, not me for her. I am wondering if there is something to keep me from not falling for her again. So, the thing is, after we had sex, she took a quick shower to rinse off. As she was getting ready to leave, she asked, "Is this ok? Should we be doing this? Is this healthy? I mean, we are not together anymore, and it wouldn’t be right to get back into a relationship. I said, “Well, we are just having fun, right? I like having sex with you, and I don’t really want to look for it somewhere else.” She said, “But you got to be able to move on. What if I start having feelings for you again? What if I start wanting more? As soon as I start having feelings for you, you are going to dump me. Would we stop if I do?” I didn’t respond right away, I didn’t know what to say, she was right, but at the same time I didn’t want things to change. Then I said, “Well, I dont’ know, we’ll just have to see when the time comes, you’ll let me know right?” She said yes. After a while when we were getting dressed after a quick rinse, she asked, “I mean, what are we?” I replied back, “We’re just having fun, why can’t we just keep it how it is, nothing serious, but not being just friends?” She said “Yeah, you’re right, I guess this is alright.” I called her that night, and we just chatted for a little bit. I asked her if she was cool with our arrangement, she said yeah, she was fine. The next day she didn’t call me at all, I wanted to talk to her, but I wanted her to do it. I know the game, and I know I shouldn’t be the one showing too much interest. So I texted her saying hi, she replied much later. No call though. I didn’t call her throughout the day, but she never called. I was about to go to sleep, and I still wanted her to call me, but she didn’t. So I caved in and called her, we chatted for about 10 minutes and then she said she was tired and she was going to sleep. I’m still not too familiar with weird female behaviour. What is she doing? Why is she being this way? Not too long ago, she was calling me often. But now, I’m the one doing it. I feel like she is pulling away. Can anyone offer me some answers? ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2008, 12:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/22 "2008-10-02T00:58:30Z")
If I may 🆒 … No one here can give you THE ANSWERS, just their ideas. 🙄 > [@Jessefrom213](#): > > I called her that night, and we just chatted for a little bit. **I asked her** if she was cool with our arrangement, she said yeah, she was fine. First mistake … she knows you care. > [@Jessefrom213](#): > > The next day she didn’t call me at all, **I wanted to talk to her** , but I wanted her to do it. I know the game, and I know I shouldn’t be the one showing too much interest. She’s a woman … most women know before men even think it. > [@Jessefrom213](#): > > So I texted her saying hi, she replied much later. The same as a call, but somehow you convienced yourself it wasn’t. :o > [@Jessefrom213](#): > > I didn’t call her throughout the day, but she never called. I was about to go to sleep, and I still wanted her to call me, but she didn’t. **So I caved in and called her** , we chatted for about 10 minutes and then she said she was tired and she was going to sleep. Ha! Ha! She won~! > [@Jessefrom213](#): > > I’m still not too familiar with weird female behaviour. What is she doing? It’s only weird when you don’t pay attention. She’s doing what YOU ARE doing … only she’s better at it. 🙄 > [@Jessefrom213](#): > > **Not too long ago, she was calling me often. But now, I’m the one doing it.** I feel like she is pulling away. Can anyone offer me some answers? She’s not pulling away … she’s backing off 'cause she **KNOWS**. And you’re doing the calling 'cause she slapped you with her WUSSappeal! **You are NO LONGER a challenge.** **Game over**. 😮 ---
**Author:** ![iamstretchypanda](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/iamstretchypanda/32/1228_2.png) [@iamstretchypanda](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/iamstretchypanda)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2008, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/23 "2008-10-02T03:06:06Z")
Basically i think what m&m is saying is to play it cool. Don’t call or text her for awhile. Maybe a week. How long do you guys usually go without talking? I know my X and i call or text every day but we are best friends so its not weird there. After that if she hasn’t called you she is either EXTRA nervous to follow through (not good) or isn’t interested (not good if your trying to pursue). In the latter case you should do what you feel is right but i say move on. I’ve noticed that women will push you away the next day if their comfort levels aren’t 100% and you wear -none (TUTH) around them. Especially if this turns to sex (good or bad). A similar encounter i had did not turn up well after the TUTH session. It sounds like from your chat that she was only 50-70% committed to the encounter but the TUTH made it OK for her to have sex. It sounds to me like she wants some space and time. If you do call you can do what i do when i’m setting up a day 2 and say “hey i just [heard a song, saw a movie/billboard, had a convo] that reminded me of you. I gotta do [this errand] in a couple minutes but i just wanted to see whats up.” End the conversation in 2-5 min. Good plausible deniability. She knows you care but it’s not TOO much TOO soon. Hope this helps. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Jessefrom213](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cc9497/32.png) [@Jessefrom213](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jessefrom213)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2008, 6:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/24 "2008-10-02T06:44:06Z")
> [@M\_M](#): > > And you’re doing the calling 'cause she slapped you with her WUSSappeal! **You are NO LONGER a challenge.** **Game over**. 😮 NOOOOOO!!! I know, and that’s exactly what I’ve been trying to avoid. I have been such a big challenge for other girls, but with her, I can’t bring myself to do it. It’s like a drug and I can’t quit it. Damn it. I do have a tendency to addictions. But you and panda are right, for my sake I should stop being the one calling her and tough it out. BTW, this brings me another question. Is there anything in these pheromones that are causing my feelings for her to increase? I’m pretty sure they do, because if they cause an effect on her they must cause an effect on me. Is this a double edged sword? My feelings for her weren’t this strong, and we were having sex before I got my pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2008, 9:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/25 "2008-10-02T09:15:53Z")
Okay, I’m confused. You’re starting to have feelings for her and she just told you she’s afraid of having feelings for you again (which means she is having feelings for you again but won’t admit it) and that is a problem? What is wrong with you loving the person you are f\*cking? Seems to me it just adds a really nice depth to it all. 🙄 Diane ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [October 2, 2008, 3:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/26 "2008-10-02T15:19:40Z")
> [@Jessefrom213](#): > > NOOOOOO!!! > > I know, and that’s exactly what I’ve been trying to avoid. **I have been such a big challenge for other girls, but with her, I can’t bring myself to do it. It’s like a drug and I can’t quit it. Damn it. I do have a tendency to addictions.** But you and panda are right, for my sake I should stop being the one calling her and tough it out. > > BTW, this brings me another question. Is there anything in these pheromones that are causing my feelings for her to increase? I’m pretty sure they do, because if they cause an effect on her they must cause an effect on me. Is this a double edged sword? My feelings for her weren’t this strong, and we were having sex before I got my pheromones. Keep your head up! You are doing EXACTLY what billions of men have been doing since this big round ball has been turning (I’m included). Tis what exactly what 99 per cent of the men do … treat’em differently (sex in the car, sex behind the bar, do it in the yard, do it nice and hard, pull the hair a bit, slap’em with your stick, bite’em on the butt, role play and treat’em like a slut, BUT ONCE they become yours, all that goes out the window. BIG MISTAKE! It’s tuff HAVING to PLAY the game, but that’s the way God wired them/us. There’s a reason that there are millions of books out there that falls under how to treat a woman, and they’re selling like hot cakes! Society has changed their mindset, and it has complicated the hell out of things. What happened to telling someone you’re attracted to them without consequences? Now you can get fired for that! Geez! Who would have thunk it!?!? Hang in there. I promise you that if it doesn’t work out the way you want it to work out … YOU WILL LIVE. 😉 Now back to the regularly scheduled program … A314, TUTH, and P79. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Socrates](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3bc359/32.png) [@Socrates](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Socrates)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 4:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/27 "2008-10-05T04:34:59Z")
> [@Jessefrom213](#): > > Wow, I’m not washing the pussy smell, I’m going to my MMA class. More to cum > > [http://www.pheromonetalk.com/mens-pheromone-advice-tricks-tips/images/smilies/biggrin.gif](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/mens-pheromone-advice-tricks-tips/images/smilies/biggrin.gif) > > . YAYYY!!! > [@Jessefrom213](#): > > I just want people to smell me and think, “Mmm, this guy had some good pussy today”. Also, some guys are kinda gay there, and when we do some “close encounter” moves, I want them to think “Is that pussy I smell? Me no like pussy, I better switch partners”. **So did you get any hits from the natural pussy smell in the end?😛** Not just in your MMA class but anytime after or before you went to the class - I would particularly be interested in knowing whether any women were affected by this scent (don’t forget your confidence level would have been super after all that fun so keep that in mind if you report any natural pussy smell hits 😛 )… ---
**Author:** ![perronec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/perronec/32/1280_2.png) [@perronec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/perronec)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 5:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/28 "2008-10-05T05:53:00Z")
here is the plan, don’t call her, and set no ‘date’ to call her, but figure you’ll call her “in a while”. Set it and forget it. Go out, talk to some new girls give yourself some options. that is the only cure for the one-itis. don’t sit at home and just think about her. that just makes everything worse and her seem like a stronger and stronger drug. ---
**Author:** ![vinylsound](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vinylsound/32/2003_2.png) [@vinylsound](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vinylsound)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 4:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/29 "2008-10-05T16:01:26Z")
nice story and I especially like that she came over for the vacuum------right! I will keep your mix formula and give it a whirl 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 4:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/30 "2008-10-05T16:37:22Z")
> [@Jessefrom213](#): > > Ok, so I got some questions that I would like to have answered, especially from women. > > First of all, I want to admit something. I’m starting to fall for my ex again, big time. Which is not good, I want her to fall for me, not me for her. I am wondering if there is something to keep me from not falling for her again. > > So, the thing is, after we had sex, she took a quick shower to rinse off. As she was getting ready to leave, she asked, "Is this ok? Should we be doing this? Is this healthy? I mean, we are not together anymore, and it wouldn’t be right to get back into a relationship. > > I said, “Well, we are just having fun, right? I like having sex with you, and I don’t really want to look for it somewhere else.” She said, “But you got to be able to move on. What if I start having feelings for you again? What if I start wanting more? As soon as I start having feelings for you, you are going to dump me. Would we stop if I do?” > > I didn’t respond right away, I didn’t know what to say, she was right, but at the same time I didn’t want things to change. Then I said, “Well, I dont’ know, we’ll just have to see when the time comes, you’ll let me know right?” She said yes. > > After a while when we were getting dressed after a quick rinse, she asked, “I mean, what are we?” I replied back, “We’re just having fun, why can’t we just keep it how it is, nothing serious, but not being just friends?” > > She said “Yeah, you’re right, I guess this is alright.” > > I called her that night, and we just chatted for a little bit. I asked her if she was cool with our arrangement, she said yeah, she was fine. The next day she didn’t call me at all, I wanted to talk to her, but I wanted her to do it. I know the game, and I know I shouldn’t be the one showing too much interest. So I texted her saying hi, she replied much later. No call though. I didn’t call her throughout the day, but she never called. I was about to go to sleep, and I still wanted her to call me, but she didn’t. So I caved in and called her, we chatted for about 10 minutes and then she said she was tired and she was going to sleep. > > I’m still not too familiar with weird female behaviour. What is she doing? Why is she being this way? Not too long ago, she was calling me often. But now, I’m the one doing it. I feel like she is pulling away. Can anyone offer me some answers? It seems she has been straightforward and clear with you. She is most probably available to you if you want to commit to a deeper relationship. My suggestion would be to respect her wishes. ---
**Author:** ![Jessefrom213](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cc9497/32.png) [@Jessefrom213](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jessefrom213)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 10:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571/31 "2008-10-05T22:22:49Z")
\*\*Visionary: So did you get any hits from the natural pussy smell in the end? \*\* Nope, only guys there, after class I was just covered with man sweat, uggh, and came home, took a shower, and scrubbed hard. **Perronec:** Yeah, I know what to do, it’s just sometimes difficult because I like her a lot, but I’m doing it. After last night I’ll keep my distance until she calls me. That reminds me, I got a new real story from last night, not as wild as the last time, but this was much more erotic and sensual. So far it was the best sex I’ve ever had. I’ll post my mix at the end of this post. **Gone with the Wind:** Yeah, I know what you mean, I don’t know, I think I may give her another chance, I don’t know, our situation seems great right now, maybe exclusivity works for us but not commitment. Ok, so I’ll post the details later because I’m simply too drained. But either way my mix was great. First of all, [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) is a God-send, wow, that thing works miracles. Instant shine is great too, and so is Ammo. I actually got an Indian-Irish woman (older than me) to agree to go out with me for a cup of coffee while I just met her on the train. I gave her my number and she called me within minutes. Anyway, so last night my ex had agreed that she was going to shave and let me eat her out (and when I eat, I eat everything 😃 ). She doesn’t really like to be eaten out, she enjoys it for a while but not much. So she called me to give me directions to this house where there was going to be a BBQ. I had agreed to go, and after that we were going to my place and get my dessert. But she told over the phone that she had a long day, and she was tired, plus we were going to go out to the BBQ. Then I mentioned, “Well, bring your stuff so you could shave at my place”. I didn’t even ask how her day went, I went straight to the sex (Yes, I’m an asshole, I got it from my father). She then told me she would call me later, she sounded upset, I thought at that moment, “Now what, why is she pissed all of a sudden?” Most of the time I don’t even know what the fuck I’m saying. Like the other day I told my coworker/competition that I had a bad dream the other night and I almost cried. I dreamed that I was losing my hair and I was going bald. My coworker had lost a lot of his hair from the top, he just sat quiet and didn’t say anything. Anyway, here was my formula: 1 drop of A314 on wrists. Buttload of Instant shine on arms, chest, neck, face and hair. Buttload of Instant Female Magic on arms and wrists. (yes I felt a little bit down, but more like slightly drunk down, soothing) 3 sprays of P79 on chest, and neck. 3 sprays of Turn Up The Heat on chest, neck, and privates. 3 sprays of Instant Honesty on arms, and neck. A little smear of Ammo. So I came to the BBQ and she was there talking to some man (old man). I greeted everyone and her, got my plate of BBQ chicken (damn good chicken btw), and sat down. Little did I know that it was actually a fund raiser, and I had to pay $6. No one said anything, I got tricked. I joined the conversation which my ex was participating, and I stole her thunder by immediately turning the conversation to me and the old man, she sat quiet until she got up and went to talk to someone else. We were there for about an hour, my instant shine was giving me such a social vibe, making great conversation, and usually my ex would get pissed at me for stealing her thunder but she didn’t seem upset. We left, and as soon as we were driving away I asked her “Did you bring your ‘stuff’?”. Can I be any more assholish? She then let it out. “You know, I don’t think we are going to do anything tonight. I don’t even know if I want to have sex with you anymore”. I said, “Mmmkay, what’s wrong?” (still didn’t get it). “I had a long stressful day, and all you keep thinking is about sex, is that what I’m only good for? You didn’t even asked me how my day went.” “Oh, I’m sorry, I didn’t know it bothered you, I was just excited for what we were going to do tonight. But you’re right, I should have asked you how your day went”. An old friend of hers, whom she had hooked up before we started dating, asked her if she wanted to have sex. She thought about it, but she declined because she promised herself that she would never do anything with that guy again. He ignored her since then. He has done that too many times to her, she already got the pattern. But she was bothered by that because she thought that men only wanted her for sex, including me. She said she was emotional and wasn’t sure if she wanted to have sex. She said she was kinda horny, but she was sad and angry at me. Eventually, she told me what her problem with me was, which never ever in our whole time that we’ve known each other has she ever done. She usually keeps quiet and tells me to take her home. But we spoke honestly and straight forward. Our communication was fantastic. I told her I feel like she does right now when she comes to me and bitches and whines and cries a lot, and I’m left like a chump rarely having sex. I told her, it’s a give and take, I listen to her, and I have sex, she gets what she wants and I get what I want. I used to be her confidant before we hooked up, she would talk to me about her issues (especially from that friend of hers), and he would get the sex. I told her what was wrong with that scenario. Wow, for someone that said was drained, I sure wrote a lot of detail. I’m not trying to vent or anything. I’m just trying to give an example of what my mix did in my situation. This story wasn’t just about sex this time, it was about me being an asswipe, her being pissed off and how she calmed down, and eventually had awesome sex. I attribute my outgoingness to IS, Instant Female Magic to her not being so pissed at me and calming down, and Instant Honesty for opening us up for a deep conversation. When we got home, she went to the restroom. I had bought her a pink rose (she loves flowers, and I and anyone hasn’t given her flowers in a very long time), and I sprayed it with TAL and Instant Sexiness. I sat in front of the bathroom door while she was taking a dump, we kept talking. She came out, and I extended my arm to give her the flower. She was swooned, and smelled it. “OMG, this smells so good, what does it have?”. I said, “Oh, it’s a special flower, there is a flower place in Downtown that sells flowers with ‘special’ fragrances. Here, smell it, it will calm you down and make you feel nice. It’s an aromatherapy thing”. She took good whiffs at the flower, and then she said “Wow, I feel sexy, I mean, this smells sexy”. I said, “Did you just said you feel sexy?”. “Yeah, it actually does make me feel sexy too, I don’t know why I said that, I must have thought about it”. I even went as far as shoving the rose into her face under her nose, that way the pheromones would rub on to her upper lip. SCOOOOREEEEEE. So she was all smiley and stuff. We kept talking, and our conversation turned more fun. “I do want to have sex, but I just have too much on my mind” she said. I replied, “Really, last time I checked there wasn’t much there”. She just giggled and got her head to rest on my chest. She sat back into position again, and kept talking. I tried the Mirroring technique for most of our conversation. I leaned back to lay on my couch, and she leaned to lay on top me. We gave each other pecks on the lips, we kept small giving each other small kisses. The kisses turned more wet, more open, more sensual. We made out for like 30 minutes, we were slobbering each other, tongue wrestling, biting lips and tongue, I blew into her mouth once on purpose, you know to keep it playful, but that didn’t turn her off either (YESS!! right on track). We kept licking, kissing all over our necks, ears, shoulders, faces for a while. She started humping me and was moaning. She then took off her shirt and bra, and I turned off the lights leaving the TV on. We kept kissing while I grabbed her breasts and touched her nipples with my thumbs (awesome tits). Our foreplay began since our conversation, so we were turned on big time by then. She got up, took off her pants and left her panties on, she got on all fours on the couch. I took my clothes off and rubbed my cock on her ass while she had her panties on. I pulled them down, and she told me to rub it on her clit. I did it for a while and she was soaking wet, I put it in, did her for a little bit, took it out, rubbed it on her clit, and put it in again. I did this for about 10 minutes. She then said “Let’s go to the bed, I want you to do me from the front”. I was fucking her nicely. Not too fast not too slow, good steady pace, and I was really hard. Now, I’m not trying to brag, but I’m kinda big, so I was feeling her pussy walls big time. The sound of me going in and out was awesome. We started in missionary, but then I moved into the snake position (legs down and closed, bodies front to front, can’t be done if you have a small dick). She likes that position because she feels it nice and tight inside, plus she gets clit stimulation. “Keep fucking me, fuck me harder, harder” she screamed. I did. “You feel so good, I’m cumming, I’m cumming” she said. She kept cumming for a good while again. After that, she kept rubbing her face and forehead, she got stupified. I said to her, “You look like I just hit you with the dumb stick”. Which I did, but she didn’t laugh, she was still turned on. After that, I just did her from behind, but she was too raw and it was kinda hurting her a little bit. I turned her around again, and did her in missionary. I was still really hard, and I felt like my dick filled her up. Eventually, I came, not as extreme as the last time, but I still came hard. We got up, took a quick shower, and watched the two last episodes of Fringe which she had not seen. That show is awesome, I love LOST too though. We went to sleep, she only slept with a shirt on, no undies or bra. Before I went to sleep, I put on some Instant Female Magic and TAL (I had taken a shower) so that she would feel nice and comfortable while she slept. In the morning, she woke up and got a craving for a turkey sandwich because she dreamed it. Funny, I also had a dream about eating a hamburger, which I didn’t eat in the morning ☹ . So, here is a small report. Instant Female Magic and TAL makes you dream of foods with bread and meat (hmmm, buns and beef, may it was a sexual dream after all). We rolled around in our bed for a little bit, she massaged my ‘thingy’ as she calls it when she is being cuddly and I massaged her awesome butt. We got up, and went to eat at a place where we have not gone in a very long time. Our little hole in the wall cafe that serves great food. It’s our place. I had a roast beef sandwich, she had a turkey sandwich. LOL I took her home, and I came back home. Now, I was supposed to go out with that Indian-Irish chick, but I’m not too sure now, too tired. I think I’ll blow her off. Damn this post is long. Hope you don’t get too bored. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sweet-jesus-christ-and-the-three-awesome-possums-wow/20571.md?page=1)