# Swing dancing!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/swing-dancing/6037>\
**Category:** Lounge\
**Created:** [October 15, 2007, 9:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/swing-dancing/6037 "2007-10-15T21:29:13Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![gitsmw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/85e7bf/32.png) [@gitsmw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gitsmw)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2007, 9:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/swing-dancing/6037/1 "2007-10-15T21:29:13Z")

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I swing dance. I used to go every monday last year(which is when they have it at my university). I haven’t gone at all this year mainly because I think my ex still goes.

So I met this chick from work, number closed, and three weeks later(which was yesterday) finally called her for a short coffee before I had to meet my friend for studies. I learned that she used to swing dance the same style I do(though she is mainly a hip-hop dancer). I figured cool, I’ll take her swing dancing next.

Well, it’s the day after the coffee. Today. **Should I take her dancing today or next week?** My main concern is overloading her and/or coming off as needy/too-invested. Which I’m not. =)

(she is very clearly digging me, if that has any influence in the matter O\_o)

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**Author:** ![The\_Dutchess](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_dutchess/32/1279_2.png) [@The\_Dutchess](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_Dutchess)\
**Post date:** [October 15, 2007, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/swing-dancing/6037/2 "2007-10-15T21:37:57Z")

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What I would do in your situation is wait until next week, unless she asks about going tonight. However be sure to keep some contact with her so she won’t assume you’ve changed your mind. Best of luck gitsmw. Let us know how it goes.