# TAH Men or TAL men, no short ones here.

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [August 22, 2008, 4:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032 "2008-08-22T04:19:57Z")\
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**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\
**Post date:** [August 22, 2008, 4:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/1 "2008-08-22T04:19:57Z")

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If your man is a TAL man and your a TAH girl what do you do?

Are there certain ‘types’ of men who are TAH? Like a man’s man or a more alpha male?

And what about TAL? What ‘type’ of man prefers this?

What have you noticed?

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**Author:** ![bubblyblonde](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bubblyblonde/32/491_2.png) [@bubblyblonde](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bubblyblonde)\
**Post date:** [August 22, 2008, 4:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/2 "2008-08-22T04:32:07Z")

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Hmmm… very good questions…  
I’ve actually been wondering the same thing and just been doing a lot of testing with that, but haven’t quite figured out the answers.

I’m more tah, but I date tg’s that are both and would like to know which would be better for each type of guy. For me personally I like guys that are protective and fawning all over me, and I seem to get that when I use tah, but maybe it’s better to go with tal so they see me as stronger and more of a challenge.

Glad you asked and am curious to see what the others have to say.

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [August 22, 2008, 7:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/3 "2008-08-22T07:35:27Z")

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Kitten has an excellent explanation of this topic here:

> [@IS/A or IS/B for a confident female to attract an alpha-ish male?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/8):
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> Hiya Confident, slight_smile I’ve found that there are two types of Alpha Males. There’s the type who is an alpha due to his status and position–or his looks. And then there’s the type who is alpha in personality, not position. For the status alpha, TAL (IS/A, MX134) works great. Sometimes it works better to wear a mix of TAH (IS/B, MX135) and TAL. Depends on the guy. But generally, these types get turned on when you stand up to them a little. In a playful way of course. For the perso…

I’d have to say she is correct. My husband and I are both personality alphas and tend to bump heads comfortably. Excess tal or [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A sets both of us off and I become more difficult to deal with. I annoy myself wearing a lot of tal.

Tah melts him with a plainly visible relaxation of his facial features and his eyes become love heavy with a response that can only be compared to early stage relationship adoring. I’m also softened, more relaxed and it just works like no other for both of us. I love my tah!

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**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2008, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/4 "2008-09-01T21:09:40Z")

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I like Kitten’s post..it is very good.

So if your man is a TAL man what results do you see in him to know it…is he LESS cuddly, less protective?

I think it is interesting that I love MX274 which has TAL and [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) in it…but I also love TAH…I have not yet found if I have a favorite yet?

Did you know instantly which was a favorite for you?

Do they have a Mix with P74 and TAH? Like the OTHER version of MX274?

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 10:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/5 "2008-09-02T10:53:24Z")

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A couple of posts that may interest you on this subject.

> [@Tailoring -mone usage to your subject](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tailoring-mone-usage-to-your-subject/722):
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> Well, as many of you know from a previous post, I am back out on the dating scene (in a big way) and I am having so much fun with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/)!!!smiley This is a cute story (a little on the lengthy side) that I haven’t had time to sit down and write until now. I wasn’t going to bother with “yet another hit report”, but after I told the tale to my mother, she got so tickled by it that she insisted that I post it. Mainly because it was not a date that got “heated”…it was a “friend” who turned int…

> [@More "Tailoring"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/more-tailoring/879):
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> Ok, after my last experiments, I have decided to do more tests on the effects of tailoring my pheromone usage to my intended “victim’s” personality. These experiments were based mostly on TAH and TAL… First, I tried to think about the men I have been dating, and I picked two out of my black book, each who are very different, and like very different things in a woman. On both, I used a base of Essence of Woman on each side of the neck and in the cleavage (never leave home without it smiley ), …

In my opinion it all depends on the man and his taste in women. Both TAH and TAL will attract or cause a reaction but usually they will react better to one or the other depending on there preference and emotional needs.

Its not something you can put in a box and analyze really because everyones preference in a SO comes from more then just personality or status but from past life experience.

Some Alpha men are attracted to high powered Alpha women while other Alpha men go more for the more softer female who needs a strong alpha male to “take care of them”

Tisha

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**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 2:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/6 "2008-09-02T14:15:25Z")

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Those were great links…thanks, Tisha.

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**Author:** ![Mystrys](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mystrys/32/2013_2.png) [@Mystrys](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mystrys)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/7 "2008-09-02T18:12:56Z")

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\*\*\*Sometimes I think I am soooooooo smart..🙄  
My tg and myself are very much Leos…strong willed, stubborn, fierce and loyal to the teeth. I’d say we’re both pretty Alpha so I figured he would appreciate the heavier TAH products that softened me some but MAN!  
As of late we have fought like two wild lions when I wear anything heavy in TAH or strangely when I now mix heavy TAH and cops.

All I can say is : I’m CONFUSED!!  
LOL. I’m going to lay off the TAH and try for better luck in some TAL products. So much for second guessing even when a man says he loves strong women! Just not too strong 😉😛 Whatever!  
It’s all relative to individuals anyway so…onward I travel into this heady world of pheros. I WILL post some of my experiments soon — I promise…I know my reporting has slowed but it’s only due to extra time consumption trying to be where I need to be right now. I hope everyone understands where my priorities lie and why.

~M~

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**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/8 "2008-09-02T18:29:55Z")

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> [@Mystrys](#):
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> _ **Sometimes I think I am soooooooo smart..🙄** _
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> _ **My tg and myself are very much Leos…strong willed, stubborn, fierce and loyal to the teeth. I’d say we’re both pretty Alpha so I figured he would appreciate the heavier TAH products that softened me some but MAN!** _  
> _ **As of late we have fought like two wild lions when I wear anything heavy in TAH or strangely when I now mix heavy TAH and cops.** _
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> _ **All I can say is : I’m CONFUSED!!** _  
> _ **LOL. I’m going to lay off the TAH and try for better luck in some TAL products. So much for second guessing even when a man says he loves strong women! Just not too strong 😉😛 Whatever!** _

hiiiii \<3

i actually did the very same thing. me and my old tg are very alpha. ppl in my school call me the.. dominant hypersexual asian. and ppl say that he must be really secure with his masculinity to date me. so i thought maybe ill make him happy and wear a lot of TAH.

my very first shipment: [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) and 20mcg TAH. yaaa.. a bad bad idea. nobody seemed to appreciate my well thoughtout plan and my TG just plain ignored me.

a little while later, i wore a lot of IS-A and it worked really really well. so i think some alpha guys really do prefer strong dominant women who can match up to them. sometimes i wear TAL with EST and it has never ever failed me. i mean, my old tg and i didnt work out but he still likes me a lot and whenever i hang out with him, i wear that combo to drive him crazy 😛

so yaa ur right, strong.. but not TOO strong 🙂

\<3

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [September 2, 2008, 7:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/9 "2008-09-02T19:30:37Z")

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This is not uncommon of TAL and TAH especially when using it around your Husband or BF.

Your strength (TAL) or your softness (TAH) is what attracted them to you in the first place so it would be better to lean towards the one that matches your personality. I am a Alpha and I feel more natural and get better reactions from TAL but I have learned to wear TAH effectively as well. You just need to offset one with the other a little

For instance Instant sexiness A and B both have TAL and TAH in them. A is just TAL heavy and B is TAH heavy. If you work with them both as raw [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) go for balance or tip the ratio one way or the other to match your personality so it can enhance you without changing your natural vibe much.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [September 3, 2008, 5:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tah-men-or-tal-men-no-short-ones-here/18032/10 "2008-09-03T05:43:32Z")

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darn it, I learned something.. now what did I forget this time.

TAL- stronger more assertive  
TAH- softer more feminine