# Teen Dilemma, call for advice (lengthy) **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 16, 2009, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/teen-dilemma-call-for-advice-lengthy/33345 "2009-10-16T02:23:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 2
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 7:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/teen-dilemma-call-for-advice-lengthy/33345/2 "2009-10-16T07:16:29Z")
OK Zan my advice: 1: It’s your reality my friend. Sitting on top of a desk, doing those little things we do is what makes us, us. If you take notice and think its imature to her, you are projecting that you are embarrassed by potentially immature behavior. It’s only embarrassing if YOU are embarrassed by it, not if she is. I cannot emphasize just how ALPHA it is to NOT care what others think of your behavior. Believe in yourself that the world is entirely made up by whatever is in your eyes view of said world. My world didn’t exist to you, until by you bringing my existence into your world. If YOU didn’t bring me into your world you would have lived your entire life and never, not one nanosecond would I have existed to you. I say this because in your own words its just something you do and you don’t take notice to it, but today you did. You were about to, or are thinking of altering your behavior for a person that only exists because you, and you alone, choose to have her exist in your reality. It is EXTREMELY attractive to a woman when a man is in complete control of his self and simply does not care what others think of his actions. Now before anyone says–but everyone needs to care about there actions because every action has an equal and opposite reaction. That’s 100% correct and is exactly why knowing this law is why in your reality you strive to have control over those things. You don’t dress nice to get the girl. You dress nice because you like to dress nice for yourself. You educate yourself not to get a job, but because in your passion for your life you strive to create the very best reality for yourself. I have a friend and the best quote he ever said to me was “I don’t care if I make a good or horrible impact, as long as I make an impact!” Make an impact, but do it for YOU! > [@](#): > > She apologized for what happened after Philosophy class, saying she was just having a bad afternoon. I told her it was nothing to be sorry about, these things happen LOL, next time stop appeasing her because you like her. She can get that from the 50 other guys that orbit her saying nice things and buying her stuff because they want to get inside her 😉. Come back with something witty that says all the right things like: "Oh I totally understand these things happen…I have that effect on women…I’ll let you make it up to me 😉. Whether in person or SMS it screams I am ALPHA and you want me. The whole thing about the peer review was her way of saying she wants you. OK let me yell at you for a second and excuse the cursing before I get started: STOP FUCKING LOOKING AT HER LIKE SHE’S A SEX TOY FOR YOU TO PLAY WITH MAN!. Get over it already, there are millions upon millions of hotties in the world. You’re presenting her as if she has a fucking halo on her head. She is giving YOU every opportunity and practically bending over the desk assuming the doggie style position for you to mount her and all you can say is: > [@](#): > > Unfortunately I had to tell her that I wasn’t the one that reviewed her essay, as much as I wish I had. Zan, my friend, please you are blowing it! The only reason it was unfortunate was because you didn’t get to drop roses at her feet while bowing down saying I’m not worthy. I wish I could be your lap dog 🙄. Next time take a cocky/funny stance, again that is going to SCREAM ALPHA and say: "It’s really is unfortunate I didn’t get the chance. You think you had a bad day the other day? …pause… (I’ll explain the importance of pauses in a second) …nah I’m just kidding, I wouldn’t have made you cry…pause…well not too bad anyway…pause… Then look her right in the eyes and crack a BIG smile. When she gets that OMG no he didn’t and gives you a shot in the arm, grab her hand and hold it and pull her just a little closer to you. All the while keep the eye contact and a slight grin, shit eating. I like to think of how the woman will be screaming as I go to town with my tongue on her pussy while I pull her ever so gently into me with only her hand, slightly pulling in with my body. {It’s called sending and if you visualize eating her and having her screaming with orgasm after orgasm all the while grasping the back of your hair with her hands pulling you in deeper into her, wrapping her legs around you as if she is attempting to pull your entire face into her, juices dripping down your mouth over your chin, her face a contorted picture of pure ecstasy, bliss! My example is the way I picture it in my mind and its very vivid because with my sly grin and my eyes I am sending her that very image} Just when we are getting closer I stop, take her hand in my one hand and throw it back at her, again very gently and day—oooohhhhoohah, you are baaaad! Then get a BIG smile again like you know she just tried to seduce you. This is SteveO’s “patented” take me into the back room, closet, backseat of your car, just fucking take me NOW game 😛, shared for the first time with you, well every other person who comes along and reads this too 🆒. OK this girl wants you to ask her, not just to the dance, but anything at all. Unless you’ve already gone to far and kissed her feet along with the hundreds of other guys who already ORBIT her like a moon orbiting their planet, she wants you. Remember it’s reality! If [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) were out of the picture it’s your decision whether they are in the picture. Next time you see her, disqualify yourself to her. You read that right…let her know that you could never go out with her. say to her after some additional witty banter: We could never date…pause…it would always end in a fight…pause…and I would always win! If she is like every other human being she has an ego. She will say blah blah blah, no I would win, blah blah blah. More banter, then say in a not overly friendly, but still some semblance of friendliness a statement of interest: “I like you” and then hand her your phone and say put your number in there. Don’t ask, hand and tell her. When she is doing it and she will, tell her "you should come to the dance with me (very matter of fact) and pause. Wait for her response. If she says yes, great, I’ll call you and tell you when I’m picking you up. Then leave it at that. It lets her know that you are in control of everything. On the other hand if she says no, I have herpes, a date with a yak in Taiwan, joining the Army so they ship me off to Baghdad to hopefully die so I never have to see your stinking ass again:o, drop to your knee’s and grovel, beg, plead, cry and whimper all the while rolling around on the floor ending in the fetal position. OK that last part was kind of a joke, but whats the worse that can happen? Especially to the only guy with BALLS enough to ask her in the middle of class without any type of embarrassment. Smile and say, “I understand, you probably couldn’t handle it anyway…pause…smile, I’ll keep you on the list for next time I have an opening”. Don’t walk away defeated. You didn’t lose here. YOU WON, by letting every guy and girl that you are the man with balls and you are going to be legend. Don’t be awkward, don’t stop talking to her, make sure you give her a call. Ask me about my amazing phone game another time. Tying up the loose ends: Pauses with slow speak is very hypnotic and says I am a man and I am completely in control. People listen to me and I therefore think and speak clearly and slowly so that you can comprehend every word I am saying. You’re used to people being on the edge of their seats waiting for what you have to say–its your reality. When you go and pull her hand towards you and if she resists at all, you’ll know what that feels like, then drop her hand right away and say, you’re naughty and crack a smile. It just means your calibration is off and somewhere you didn’t build enough attraction. If she refuses the number in the phone trick, say you do have a phone right? Make it seem like its just a phone number and recalibrate to build attraction. If these things are happening keep building attraction until you have it then proceed to the next step. Remember to never make her feel uncomfortable because you mis-calibrated. It’s your reality so take full responsibility for your reality and make it happen. It’s late and I was out drinking some beer so if any of this doesn’t make sense my fellow forum members should step in and clarify for me. Most of what you should say is on the cuff for the sake of having words to write. Words here in this post and words from my mouth are usually very different. You’ll have to adapt to what fits you, but I think they project enough definition to the picture to create depth. Enjoy and call if you need 🙂 --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/teen-dilemma-call-for-advice-lengthy/33345)._