# Telling friends about pheromones!? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 23, 2009, 3:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932 "2009-11-23T15:48:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/41 "2011-06-19T18:38:52Z")
> [@Astrea](#): > > As a matter of fact, an Oz insult - guaranteed to stop a guy in his tracks - is being called “a big girls blouse”. I don’t actually know precisely what this means, but who, apart from a big girls blouse; wants to be called one? Ha! That’s a common enough Scottish insult too! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/42 "2011-06-19T21:09:02Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > Ha! That’s a common enough Scottish insult too! 😃 😃😃😃 That’s where it came from!!! So, explain it please. 😕 So totally never understood it, and it’s the funniest thing to come out of a mouth with a thick Greek accent! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2011, 10:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/43 "2011-06-20T10:40:20Z")
Its having a dig at someone for being weak and inneffective/indecisive. Ya big Jessie is another in the same vein.😃 ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 5:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/44 "2011-06-21T05:50:39Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > Its having a dig at someone for being weak and inneffective/indecisive. Ya big Jessie is another in the same vein.😃 That’s funny . . . considering the person I heard it from most was a hard core physicist to a hard core mathematician . . . But at least Jessie gets to live her ineffectiveness down, in Oz. Never heard that one. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![OutreDame](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ed8c4c/32.png) [@OutreDame](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OutreDame)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 7:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/45 "2011-06-21T07:57:52Z")
I havn’t yet started…tomorrow hopefully will be my big day after my package arrives 🙂 But I already know that I will not tell anyone. I guess for the same reason I dont tell what perfume Im wearing (I always say its a gift) or what makeup I use..or even that Im wearing any at all if someone compliments me on my skin, or announce that I wear hair extensions… I see this as another secret in my tool box so to speak, that I will keep to myself! I realize at this point, Im being optimistic and hopeful seeing how I have no idea if or what effect using pheromones will have, but if it gives me an edge, then yeah Im going to be selfish and not share my secret! lol ---
**Author:** ![magus808](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b19c9b/32.png) [@magus808](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magus808)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 12:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/46 "2011-06-21T12:50:20Z")
I wont tell anyone because right now my buddies think I’m the man. Little do they know… ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/47 "2011-06-21T23:10:33Z")
> [@magus808](#): > > I wont tell anyone because right now my buddies think I’m the man. Little do they know… And what do you think other ‘the man’ does for an edge? Anything legal that works. So, in the overall pic, I’d say you’re still ‘the man’. Use what you know, for the best results. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![hletchworth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/71c47a/32.png) [@hletchworth](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hletchworth)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2011, 2:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/48 "2011-06-22T02:19:53Z")
Told my better dude friends, some came up here. Not gonna tell the guys that already have all the girls. ---
**Author:** ![dorfmeister](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dorfmeister/32/5188_2.png) [@dorfmeister](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dorfmeister)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2016, 5:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/49 "2016-03-18T17:13:54Z")
You tell certain friends and try to get them into it if you think they’ll be open. But I make it clear that it is a special club and not to be discussed outside of that special club. The first rule of Pheromone Club is: You do not talk about Pheromone Club. The second rule of Pheromone Club is: You do not talk about Pheromone Club. ---
**Author:** ![chrisepz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d07c76/32.png) [@chrisepz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chrisepz)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2016, 5:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/50 "2016-03-19T05:41:27Z")
Pheromones are something I will only tell best friends and family about. If others discovered I am using pheromone mixes around them, the results would be highly un-desirable. How can I expect the mones to be effective if they know I’m wearing it? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2016, 8:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/51 "2016-03-26T20:56:52Z")
I told some friends and i did regret it mainly .. few are now mones enthusiasts as well . . .. but with most guys i did badly regret it that i tryed to help them to have more options in their life .. do only tell it to somebody when you can be sure that he really ticks the same way like you do .. better start a discussion about the stuff and that you want to try it out .. and ask if when would be in for a group buy and to test it .. or say you buy some and give him a sample .. but be careful .. i paid my dues .. and i learned it the hard way cheers Pago ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [March 30, 2016, 12:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/52 "2016-03-30T12:03:38Z")
> [@Pagodeiro](#): > > I told some friends and i did regret it mainly .. > > few are now mones enthusiasts as well . . .. but with most guys i did badly regret it that i tryed to help them to have more options in their life .. > … > i paid my dues .. and i learned it the hard way What exactly happened? It sounds like you suffered for it somehow, as opposed to just not having it work out the way you expected. Did they laugh at you? Did they start ripping on you somehow? Did pheromones fail to work for them, rather than you? That said, I don’t plan to tell my friends, either. Two reasons: (1) They’re quite conservative about things like this, will just tell me I “need to be more confident” or some other platitude; and (2) None of them are single, so we wouldn’t even be in the same boat when it comes to using pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![dsouza](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dsouza/32/840_2.png) [@dsouza](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dsouza)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2016, 12:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/53 "2016-04-10T12:11:04Z")
It’s foolish to tell friends, or even women you’re dating… people don’t understand pheromones, they think you’re manipulating them if they find out and like Gegogi said the threat of lawsuits may be there.. Besides we live in a dog eat dog world.. Why give away the one advantage the few of us have right now? ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2016, 2:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/54 "2016-04-10T14:55:56Z")
My collection has got to be really big and I just can’t hide it anymore and takes up half the counter in my bathroom which is a 72 inch countertop. I have essential oils to next to them. So when people ask I just say they are cologne and essential oils which I am not lying about. I just don’t tell them about the molecule part. If one of my friends want to try I usually use IS for them to test or P74 in FF21/[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) scent something like this. I just say I am into cologne and different scent is all. I wait 10 minutes and ask them what they think of the “scent” and see what they tell me. ---
**Author:** ![adventure](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/7feea3/32.png) [@adventure](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/adventure)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2016, 3:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/55 "2016-05-07T15:47:45Z")
My husband knows about them. I don’t think it’s anyone else’s business. I think that people are more aware of pheromones than they were when I started using them years ago. I can also smell them more often on people, so I know more people are wearing them. I definitely don’t want people smelling them on me though, I think it might ruin the natural response the pheromone would have on them. ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2016, 6:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932/56 "2016-05-11T18:05:13Z")
I actually think about this often, as I like to share things that I like with my friends. Try this restaurant. Try this beer. This store has great deals on fishing gear. Etc. This old thread caught my eye today as I actually thought about telling someone this morning, but I talked myself out of it. Maybe the right person, at the right time, in the future I will tell them, but for now it is my secret. My edge. My thing… Sounds selfish, I know. But its not. All my -mone secrets (well most of them) are out there for the world to see…right here on Pherotalk. They just have to find it…🆒 CP [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/telling-friends-about-pheromones/189932.md?page=2)