# Test results with instant openness and instant honesty. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 14, 2008, 5:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/test-results-with-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22887 "2008-11-14T17:57:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![johnny\_v](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c67d28/32.png) [@johnny\_v](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/johnny_v)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 5:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/test-results-with-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22887/1 "2008-11-14T17:57:08Z")
Hey guys just wanted to share my results with instant openness and instant honesty. basically it works. but in my situation it had more of an effect on me the wearer than the other person. i have this female friend that i’ve known for a while, not gonna lie but i have the hots for her but she has a boyfriend so i’ve never done anything about it. the relationship i have with her has always been very flirty and there is alot of sexual tension, we have never really talked seriously about it but we both know that she has a boyfriend and our relationship would not go beyond flirting. i’ve tried other pheros before, turn up the heat and a314. with 2 sprays of turn up the heat i get great reactions from her. i decided to go a bit more social and used instant openness and instant honesty. 2 sprays of each-openness my neck and honesty on my hair. also 1 spray of instant shine on my wrist. well that was what i did on wensday. before you can unstand how much i screwed up i have to tell the full story, so i’ll get back to the pheros in a bit. Back to the girl. a few weeks ago once i started using the none pheros she was very very flirty with me, everyone around asked what the hell was going on. then the following week she completely stopped and i dont think its because i od on the none. i think its because she realized the amount of flirting that was going on and remembered she has a boyfriend. so i just let it be and that was that. On monday i saw her and asked how she was doing, one look at her and i could tell something was wrong, she i asked what was wrong, she said nothing, i said something is wrong i can tell, she said she cant talk about it because she was going to cry, she was already crying by the way. i didnt want to be too pushy so i hugged her and told her im here when ever you need me. later she sent me a text saying she broke up with her boyfriend the night before. so i tried to console her a best as i could, (dont mean to sound like a jerk but deepdown inside i was happy, well i was upset too because she was really hurting). the next day i saw her, she said she talked to her boyfried and they are not back togehter but trying to work things out but she dose not know. i said ok well give it time and im sure whats meant to be will happen. we talked for a bit more just trying to cheer her up. now back to the pheros., 2sprays ins.openness, 2 sprays instant honesty and 1 instant shine. right after i finished talking with her, i went and phero-ed up. its works great, everyone was really chatty and telling me the strangest things. about an hour after i put the pheros on, i was sitting having a burger and out of no where the stranges urge came over me to tell my female friend that i like her and if things dont work out with her boyfriend i want to take her out for a drink(not being the rebound guy of course). logically i know this is the last thing i should do. for one they just broke up a day ago and are now trying to work things out, second, she has been with this guy for about 5yrs its highly unlikley that they will remain broken up. and the timing is all wrong for me to tell her i like her. i know i should not have done it but for some reason (pheros i guess) could not say no to my urge. i called her and told her. welllll, i’ve known this girl for 5 years or just about and we have never had an akward moment up until now lol. it was freaking horrible lol. she handleded it pretty well i must say but i could tell she did not expect that at all. the following day a saw her and she said hi but i could tell our relationship was not the same, i asked if she was ok she said yes but could not look at me in the eye or even look at me. i asked if she was sure, she said yes, she asked if i was ok, i said yes but we knew it was not. eventually later i asked to talk to her she did not want to do it face to face, so i wrote out a long explanation tyring to salvage our friendship lol. at the end it worked out or so i assume, before she left she came out and things seem to be back to normal but however only time will tell. now i think i scrwed any chances i may have had with her because now she knows, i thinks it should have happended naturally but i couldnt keep my big mouth shut lol. she’ll probably get back with her boyfriend anyway. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2008, 10:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/test-results-with-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22887/2 "2008-11-14T22:01:59Z")
Hmmmm. I see. Sorry to hear that you spoke up at the wrong time and created an awkward situation. Please remember that the social products do have self-effects and that you may need to watch what _you_ say. ---
**Author:** ![awesom\_o](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/awesom_o/32/2138_2.png) [@awesom\_o](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/awesom_o)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 12:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/test-results-with-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22887/3 "2008-11-15T00:28:03Z")
damn i hate falling for hotties with boyfriends. makes me be a bad guy or the shy guy. and sometimes both is bad. better luck next time. awesom o out. ---
**Author:** ![perronec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/perronec/32/1280_2.png) [@perronec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/perronec)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 4:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/test-results-with-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22887/4 "2008-11-15T04:41:44Z")
In some situations you need to go out and claim what you want. however as this course of action may cause friction in your life, i will not endorse it. also, awesome-o, great name, do you sign off every post like that? gave me a chuckle. ---
**Author:** ![johnny\_v](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c67d28/32.png) [@johnny\_v](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/johnny_v)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2008, 5:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/test-results-with-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22887/5 "2008-11-15T05:41:45Z")
well at least now there is no doubt that the pheros work. as for things between myself and her, i think it will be fine. she seemed back to normal the last time i saw her. just caugh her by suprise i guess. however in her response to me, she never said that she did not think of me in that way, all she said was she was trying to work things out. she also said she didnt want to talk to me face to face because she was still red from what i said. she couldnt even look at me when approached her the day after lol. this tells me there r feelings on her side too. so maybe there is hope after all but im not gonna wait around for her to breakup with her boyfriend. im gonna get all pheroed up and move on lol. ---
**Author:** ![MrDalton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e47774/32.png) [@MrDalton](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrDalton)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2008, 7:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/test-results-with-instant-openness-and-instant-honesty/22887/6 "2008-11-19T07:57:50Z")
My friend I have been in your position far too many times. You are in what they call The Friend Zone. Think of it as a maximum security prison. Not impossible to get out of but not likely to happen. It may be hard to accept but if you value your friendship with her you should consider leaving it the way it is. I had a female friend in high school who I really liked and we became very close but nothing more than friends. I was her “shoulder to cry on” kind of friend. We kept in touch for years after high school. After almost a decade of friendship we get together after not seeing each other for a while. One thing leads to another and we end up having sex. Things just got too weird after that. The good news is, you seem like a nice guy and there are plenty of girls out there looking for a guy like that. And it seems like you have a special friendship with this girl. if it does turn into something more, great; but if not cherish what you have with her.