# The Curious adventures of one chic **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Journals\ **Created:** [January 9, 2008, 12:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145 "2008-01-09T00:22:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2008, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/61 "2008-04-16T20:33:55Z")
I got another date tonight with the boy of the moment. Been seeing him for about 3 weeks now. Hmmm do I wear pheros to our conservative dinner and make him Pine?! Oh I think so…perhaps some LAM and MX135 with TUTH added later for me… ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 5:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/62 "2008-04-20T05:45:52Z")
Update: Date went well. Wore 2 drops EoW(wrists), 3 sprays IS/A(chests & wrists), 3 sprays IH (back of neck and back of hands), 3 IS to hair. PHERO LOADED…Date went well, he was a lil more touchy and forward then normal. Added TUTH when we got back to my place, WOWSER! Had a couple amazing rounds! ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 5:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/63 "2008-04-20T05:51:07Z")
Tonight I was going to watch a playoff hockey game with work friends (sigh, we lost). Decided to give [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) another chance-3 sprays to chest and neck area. added 4 sprays of IH togo (3 to back of neck one to hair). Noticed moments after that I started to get a very nervous flip flopping feeling in my stomach. At the game, group was generally jovial and quite outgoing. Very fun affair. The guys were even more forward then normal (especially ones who have seemed to perhaps have an interest, were showing it more. This was very nice.) Lil more touchy feely then normal (nothing overtly sexual though) i had to noteably hold back. I would say P83 helped keep the mood jovial and a lil playful and silly at times. Didnt notice the IH effects at all. This one has stumped me a bit. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 8:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/64 "2008-04-20T08:39:19Z")
> [@Curiouschic](#): > > I got another date tonight with the boy of the moment. Been seeing him for about 3 weeks now. Sorry curious, that’s almost on the verge of becoming a relationship, and nearly 1/2 as long as my longest “relationship” in the 10 years since my second divorce. Am I screwed up in the head? Yeah probably! I don’t know whether it’s because I’ve been dating the wrong women, or because I push them away, but I have not had a relationship last more then 2 months in the last 10 years. And, I am always the one doing the breaking up because I don’t trust them. Then I usually hear about them being in another commited relationship within a week or 2, or married within a couple of months. ---
**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 6:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/65 "2008-04-20T18:57:13Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > Sorry curious, that’s almost on the verge of becoming a relationship, and nearly 1/2 as long as my longest “relationship” in the 10 years since my second divorce. > > Am I screwed up in the head? Yeah probably! > > I don’t know whether it’s because I’ve been dating the wrong women, or because I push them away, but I have not had a relationship last more then 2 months in the last 10 years. And, I am always the one doing the breaking up because I don’t trust them. Then I usually hear about them being in another commited relationship within a week or 2, or married within a couple of months. Just part of the dating game Mark. Sometimes it just doesn’t work. If they found someone else right away, the connection probably just wasn’t there between the two of you. Plus people have to cover up their wounds right away. No sense in looking back or trying to explain it. It keeps you in a debilitating loop of is-it-me? As for the trust thing. Yah, some people are constantly unhappy or have low self esteem and have to always prove their desirability among the opposite sex by cheating, and some are really just dating in search of the one. Just make sure you’re breaking up with them based on proof and not fear. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/66 "2008-04-20T19:49:31Z")
> [@sugarspice](#): > > Just make sure you’re breaking up with them based on proof and not fear. 🆒 Thanks for the nice comments. I never worry about trying to explain why a relationship didn’t work, or why they cheated though. I always put 100% into a relationship, and if that’s not enough, then there was nothing more I could do anyway. I am just about the most trusting person you could ever meet, and always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. But, I’ve also learned that when I feel that nagging instinct that something isn’t right, it’s time to move on. I also realize that if I am starting to have trust issues, then something is missing or gone for me too, and I’d just rather be alone than to stay with a girl just to have someone. Staying with someone just for companionship isn’t fair to them or me. I do have a nasty habit of attracting and being attracted to women with low self-esteem though, and for whatever reason, I guess I feel the need to be the rescuer. I think that probably explains a lot. ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 8:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/67 "2008-04-20T20:32:57Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > Sorry curious, that’s almost on the verge of becoming a relationship, and nearly 1/2 as long as my longest “relationship” in the 10 years since my second divorce. > > Am I screwed up in the head? Yeah probably! > > I don’t know whether it’s because I’ve been dating the wrong women, or because I push them away, but I have not had a relationship last more then 2 months in the last 10 years. And, I am always the one doing the breaking up because I don’t trust them. Then I usually hear about them being in another commited relationship within a week or 2, or married within a couple of months. Hey Mark, Perhaps I havent told enough of my track record…the word “relationship” FREAKS me out. So even though it has been awhile, we are only SEEING eachother 😛 . I am very good at f\*\*\*ing up relationships. Most of mine are very short term as I am worried that eventually the person will leave me, so instead i leave them…go figure ☹ . So if you are screwed up..I DEFINETLY am 🙂 but I like to have fun and both parties have a good time so its ok…for now. I am lil worried about my situation with this current guy. The sex is AMAZING but I think I am supplementing it for any true emotional connection…oh dear I analize ALOT:o I figure all in good time I will figure out what I want… ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 8:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/68 "2008-04-20T20:42:21Z")
> [@Curiouschic](#): > > I am lil worried about my situation with this current guy. The sex is AMAZING but I think I am supplementing it for any true emotional connection…oh dear I analize ALOT:o > > I figure all in good time I will figure out what I want… If you’re both having fun, and not expecting to much from what you have, then I’d say you really don’t need to worry or analyze. But, by the same token, I’d say that if you really are worrying and analyzing, then just maybe that emotional connection is already there, or at least starting to develop. 🙂 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/69 "2008-04-20T21:30:31Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > If you’re both having fun, and not expecting to much from what you have, then I’d say you really don’t need to worry or analyze. True, but I am not certain of his thoughts.. > [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > But, by the same token, I’d say that if you really are worrying and analyzing, then just maybe that emotional connection is already there, or at least starting to develop. 🙂 😉 Ooooh…your good! 🙂 In denial - CC ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 10:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/70 "2008-04-20T22:30:19Z")
> [@Curiouschic](#): > > Ooooh…your good! 🙂 > > In denial - CC Not really, that’s kind of a given. You don’t think much about something or someone that doesn’t matter to you. 🙂 Time to maybe sit down with him and have a talk? 😉 OK, here’s an easier way. Buy him a little gift of some sort. Nothing fancy or expensive, but something that he will like and can use. Give it to him and tell him that you were out shopping, saw it and had to get it for him. Then see how he reacts. ---
**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 3:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/71 "2008-04-21T15:58:47Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > OK, here’s an easier way. Buy him a little gift of some sort. Nothing fancy or expensive, but something that he will like and can use. Give it to him and tell him that you were out shopping, saw it and had to get it for him. Then see how he reacts. What can you tell from his reaction? ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 4:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/72 "2008-04-21T16:53:16Z")
Well, a big heart felt smile with a kiss or hug, and maybe including a slight blush would say that he likes that you’re thinking about him when he’s not around, and that he probably thinks about you too. A grimmace, downcast eyes, forced thank you, or other look of discomfort says that he doesn’t feel the same, and might feel that you’re getting more serious than he’s comfortable with. He would probably try to mask any look, but body language is hard to hide. Not a 100% guaranteed of course, but you should probably be able to get some sort of idea where his mind is. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 6:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/73 "2008-04-26T06:42:29Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > _ **You don’t think much about something or someone that doesn’t matter to you.** _ 🙂 😉 …you’ll figure it out CC…in the mean time…relax a little…and try not to shoot yourself in the foot, mkay? 😛 ---
**Author:** ![ponderu](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ponderu/32/465_2.png) [@ponderu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ponderu)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 7:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/74 "2008-04-26T07:07:04Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > I do have a nasty habit of attracting and being attracted to women with low self-esteem though, and for whatever reason, I guess I feel the need to be the rescuer. I think that probably explains a lot. Ditto, I do the same thing, I tend to be really good at fixing things so by the time they break up or I break up with them. Then they are ready for a relationship with someone else and they tend to get in the next relationship and it works. Were about the same age, divorced but you have me beat… I have my ex living in my house and have not had a relationship for over a year already other than occasional visits to friends for mutual tension relieving sessions. Hang in there you will find what your looking for and hopefully so will I. Ponderu ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/75 "2008-04-26T19:21:31Z")
> [@Bella](#): > > 😉 …you’ll figure it out CC…in the mean time…relax a little…and try not to shoot yourself in the foot, mkay? 😛 😃 Oh BUT I am sooo good at shooting myself in the foot 😃 Things are going really well with the new guy, because of that I almost allowed myself to go f\*\*\* it up this weekend :o But I am being good! Suprising 😃 Tested up TUTH on him, 2 sprays 😮 Oh it was good! I will have to test more to see if I prefer it on him or on me 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![FantasyAngel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantasyangel/32/952_2.png) [@FantasyAngel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FantasyAngel)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 3:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/76 "2008-04-29T03:42:49Z")
Hi, Curiouschic! I just became addicted to your journal LOL! I can relate to you…definitely see some of myself in you 🙂. Thanks for sharing your adventures with us! ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 3:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/77 "2008-04-29T03:49:10Z")
> [@ponderu](#): > > Hang in there you will find what your looking for and hopefully so will I. > Ponderu Well, I’ve been going door-to-door all over British Columbia looking for Curiouschick, but so far I ain’t having any luck. 😮 🙄 😉 ---
**Author:** ![FantasyAngel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantasyangel/32/952_2.png) [@FantasyAngel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FantasyAngel)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 4:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/78 "2008-04-29T04:01:36Z")
> [@Kitten](#): > > Race doesn’t usually make much difference. Except that I still haven’t found anything that really shakes up asian guys. That’d be cool. Hey, Kitten! I’m a newbie that is planning my first pheromone purchase. I’m also very curious about what “shakes up” Asian guys. My theory is that pheromones may have the same effects on Asian guys as on guys of other races, but due to more conservative traditions of some Asian cultures, they might be less inclined to act on it immediately. I know this only applies to some Asian guys, because I personally know some Asian guys that are very direct once they feel a sexual attraction. I’m an Asian woman myself, and there’s a certain Asian guy that I’ve had my eye on for a while. Can any of you lovely ladies help me out? He is a Korean man in his late 20’s, and he is of average height (about 5’10"), kind of on the slim side, and not even that good-looking, yet he’s always surrounded by female friends (I know he’s single though)! Maybe he uses pheros too…hmm… Anyway, I never get a chance to talk to him because he works in a different department. I swoon every time he passes by…he makes me feel like a lovesick, high-school girl again hahaha 😛. There’s a formal event I know he’ll be at in a few weeks, and I’ll be there too. I definitely want to take that chance to catch his attention. Any suggestions on which products I should order? I’m hoping for something with not too much of a sexual undertone…so far, I think I might get Instant Sexiness, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Shine, MX135, and maybe Instant Honesty. Sorry for the long post 🙄, but I will appreciate any help! ---
**Author:** ![ponderu](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ponderu/32/465_2.png) [@ponderu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ponderu)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 4:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/79 "2008-04-29T04:21:40Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > Well, I’ve been going door-to-door all over British Columbia looking for Curiouschick, but so far I ain’t having any luck. 😮 🙄 😉 You need to look around sports arenas where they play hockey, now that really does not narrow it down much in Canada. I am betting you can find her close to one however. Ponderu ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 6:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145/80 "2008-04-29T06:22:51Z")
Well Ponderu you ARE good! That clue shall help in your search Mark 😃 HOWEVER I am off to Mexico for a week so searches in the next week and a bit will have you coming up wanting 😉 Welcome FantasyAngel, glad you are enjoying my journal, unfortunately I havent been adding to much new stuff as of late. Most of my experiments seem to be ones I have tried b4 and found to be true and great. As well I am having quite the feast of opportunities now that I am thinking of getting a lil more serious with the man of the hour so…will power is what I am experimenting with. The items on your list to order look PERFECT for a first order. I am actually quite excited to see the fun that you could have. I think you will get a nice feel for what the products can do with that array. Start with the togo bottles and then you can see what you like and what has great effects on those around you. Try each problem one at a time starting with one spray. If you havent already check out the stickies in the ladies forum. With regards to the asian gentleman, I havent had any experience so I cant help, but am excited to see what you find he is open too. Here is a little advice to all: triple vodka red bulls + LAM, IS/B = CRAZY NIGHT, men, men men men men men MEN! I somehow came out with dignity…However the morning texting came close to getting me in trouble. OH and it doesnt help that a certain guy has reapeared whom I have a soft spot for…☹ I NEED A VACATION SO THAT I STAY GOOD AND STAY AWAY FROM ALL THE YUMMY BOYS FALLING AROUND ME!😮 Isn’t spring fun…😃 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145.md?page=3) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curious-adventures-of-one-chic/8145.md?page=5)