# the curse of being shiny **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 28, 2007, 10:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271 "2007-02-28T22:53:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 10:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/1 "2007-02-28T22:53:07Z")
okay before reading i would like you to note that i view this curse as a display of proof; so it has this gift attached to it. curse sounded more compelling than “gift with a down-side” [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/love0084.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/love0084.gif) okay, so i have to go to the school to bring in doctors notes and pick up my sick child that _swears_ he could not last another 2 hours in school [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/indifferent0001.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/indifferent0001.gif) i walk in and the woman at the front is on the phone. i wait a a minute or two, and distract myself by listening to her phone call as i wait. holy boring. cluck cluck cluck, tell her _this_ haha i said _that_, cluck cluck… it occurs to me that im wearing instant sexiness B in chocolatini, and unfortuantly for the world ALOT because im out of H molecule and im wanting _nice_ today. i am also wearing instant shine, which was sprayed slightly more recently. still the cluck. i begin wafting the smell to her while on the phone, i figured if the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) dont make her nice (or _considerate_ ?) atleast the chocolate will wake her up!!! ahhhhh eye contact!!! yay! more clucking. hmmmmm… _waft waft_ so now i hear this slam behind me, its the door after a mom walks in to get her child early as well… ms cluck looks up and says to her pal on phone “okay,yup,buh bye” looks at the recent visitor- HI! CAN I HELP YOU??? okay so now im pissy. was i not patient? newer mom leaves; she turns to me: yes? i tell her " for a minute i thought i left my invisibility mode on! you know _super-moms_…" shes not amused. “okay well while you were chatting my son has been sitting in the clinic. im here to pick him up and drop these off.” [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/love0084.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/love0084.gif) she then proceeds to call over the speaker for my son to come out of the clinic- by another name. okay,well ,it sounded _sort_ of like his name [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/mad0244.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/mad0244.gif) suddenly she _ **has** _ to correct me where i put my name on a piece of paper,literally one line under where it belongs ( **okay lady** , did i cut you off in traffic and didnt realize it? did i kick your dog on the way in here? NEED A TAMPON?) okay,one more look at me **up and down** and its “have a nice day” you too,love [http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/mad0248.gif](http://www.smilieshq.com/smilies/mad0248.gif) lesson learned: no matter how much shine you put on, there are going to be catty-meow-bitchy people that want to let you know your pheromones are way to shiny for their taste. or dont wear chocolate scented _anything_ near a pms’ing woman? ---
**Author:** ![alseides](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alseides/32/1039_2.png) [@alseides](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alseides)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 11:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/2 "2007-02-28T23:02:43Z")
O\_O Ouch, Lor. Maybe all the “niceness” made her think she could walk all over you? I was planning on test-driving my TAH tomorrow, 10mcg per spray. How much did you wear? Could “A LOT” mean you OD’ed? You know, those “Am I invisible?!” ODs I’ve heard about… and been deathly afraid of. But, ha ha, you’re right - there are always people who will tell you when you’re too shiny for 'em. Maybe it wasn’t phero-related at all. She sounds like a witch. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [February 28, 2007, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/3 "2007-02-28T23:16:40Z")
OD on smell maybe, but you wouldnt know it by the way she kept gabbing. i make it a point to wear the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) specifically,even in high amounts (high to me 3 sprays of chocolatini. have you smelled it?😃 ) on the inside of my shirt during the day, then i do the shirt-flutter if i want it wafted. no additonal TAH, there was H in the sexiness B. and cops. additional instant shine. to get walked on you have to play the part; its not just pheromones. no one can blame getting walked-on on pheromones or TAH unless they are _already_ mousey or quiet. shoot, i have to wear TAH to soften my edges _eek_ my opinion is since she was sweet as sugar to mommy #2, i must have rubbed her the wrong way from the get-go. and witch,by the way, is a compliment 🙂 what she was, was _not nice_ _pout_ ---
**Author:** ![deanie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8dc957/32.png) [@deanie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/deanie)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/4 "2007-03-01T00:44:09Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > okay > > no matter how much shine you put on, there are going to be catty-meow-bitchy people that want to let you know your pheromones are way to shiny for their taste. Oh, Lor, what a scary thought! I ordered (still waiting for it to arrive) the shine, liquid shine, TAH thinking I’d wear them when dealing with my residents when they move out. (I have a particularly “witchy” one in mind). No matter how nice they are throughout their residency, for some reason when they move out they turn totally “bitchy” so, what WOULD you suggest I wear to get some niceness on move out days? Of course, I would have to make sure I was interacting with them in person, within the range of scent. I don’t think I’ll wear any instant honesty or instant openness in this situation, as I’m afraid the bitching will go on and on… do you think? Something else I wondered. If you where sprays on your chest, when you waf your shirt you’re getting some of the effects, and so are others, is that correct? Who is usually affected the most? ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/5 "2007-03-01T01:12:55Z")
> [@deanie](#): > > Oh, Lor, what a scary thought! I ordered (still waiting for it to arrive) the shine, liquid shine, TAH thinking I’d wear them when dealing with my residents when they move out. (I have a particularly “witchy” one in mind). No matter how nice they are throughout their residency, for some reason when they move out they turn totally “bitchy” so, what WOULD you suggest I wear to get some niceness on move out days? Of course, I would have to make sure I was interacting with them in person, within the range of scent. I don’t think I’ll wear any instant honesty or instant openness in this situation, as I’m afraid the bitching will go on and on… > do you think? > > Something else I wondered. If you where sprays on your chest, when you waf your shirt you’re getting some of the effects, and so are others, is that correct? Who is usually affected the most? its hardly scary, i have had over a year of almost daily experimentation, and this is the first nasty i got. for some reason, the sexiness i think provoked it. doesnt matter what you look like, if you smell like _the idea_ of sexy and the gal sniffing you out does NOT feel sexy, she will see you as a threat. so in essence its somewhat of a success. so what would i wear if i were you? definately instant shine. like right on my shoulders (are there ever any hugs?) and id use TAH like a cloud. mist it in my hair. yes its going to affect you, and yes,thats a good thing. 🙂 your last question was whether or not spraying it inside the shirt affected myself, and who it affected the most … i wear it this way to affect myself on purpose. [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A makes me uber-confident, while B makes me nice. it affects everyone else as well,probably equally. now i dont wear IH on the inside of my shirt ever,lol, but i do wear IO in my hair. that does attract ,however, indeedly doodly. you really cant go wrong with instant shine , i wouldnt sweat that. but pair it up with instant sexiness and cops, and although you WILL stand out, any chick feeling less confident will let you know it 😉 ---
**Author:** ![ReaderGrrl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/readergrrl/32/2170_2.png) [@ReaderGrrl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ReaderGrrl)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 2:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/6 "2007-03-01T02:07:26Z")
Lor, bummer on being dissed by the secretary/gorgon. I just got my [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) 2X today, and I can’t wait to test tomorrow. . . .hopefully no meanies! ---
**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/7 "2007-03-01T02:17:32Z")
What are the attributes of wearing TAH? I don’t find it has a descriptive bubble like many of the other mones do. THANKS! April ---
**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/8 "2007-03-01T02:23:26Z")
Nevermind on my TAH question. I just saw the “TAH Magic” thread. All the best! April ---
**Author:** ![deanie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8dc957/32.png) [@deanie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/deanie)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 2:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/9 "2007-03-01T02:33:56Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > its hardly scary, > > so what would i wear if i were you? > > definately instant shine. like right on my shoulders (are there ever any hugs?) > and id use TAH like a cloud. > mist it in my hair. > yes its going to affect you, and yes,thats a good thing. 🙂 Thanks, Lor, wearing it on the shoulders is a GREAt idea! And yes, there are many unexpected hugs that are tucked in my memory. (I pull them out when I need a hug.) And oh yes, I want it to affect me too–to keep my cool. Luv the smileys, especially the one with the finger! hahaha ---
**Author:** ![saraunne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/saraunne/32/193_2.png) [@saraunne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/saraunne)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 4:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/10 "2007-03-01T04:13:56Z")
I LOVE the finger smiley. Kind of reminds me of the last part of the shoes video: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYnn51C3X\_w](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYnn51C3X_w)) That’s how I’d be if she treated me like that… (on the inside, of course 😃 ). ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 11:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/11 "2007-03-01T11:59:39Z")
_lmao_ at that video. that’s classic - i had to go paste it around. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/12 "2007-03-01T14:33:13Z")
> [@saraunne](#): > > I LOVE the finger smiley. Kind of reminds me of the last part of the shoes video: > > [YouTube - shoes](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYnn51C3X_w) > > That’s how I’d be if she treated me like that… (on the inside, of course 😃 ). that was sooooooo “kids in the hall” !!! anyone know who they are? LOL ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/13 "2007-03-01T14:36:25Z")
> [@ReaderGrrl](#): > > Lor, bummer on being dissed by the secretary/gorgon. I just got my Instant Shine 2X today, and I can’t wait to test tomorrow. . . .hopefully no meanies! _ **never** _ a meanie with just shine. wear a “holy sheet im sexy” mix, and you might meet one lol ---
**Author:** ![alseides](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alseides/32/1039_2.png) [@alseides](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alseides)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 7:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/14 "2007-03-01T19:34:24Z")
I thought I was the only one around here who knew about that video! Hilarious, in my opinion. Reminds me of Liam Lynch, but I have no idea who it actually is, though I’m tempted to look it up. > [@Lor](#): > > _ **never** _ a meanie with just shine. > > wear a “holy sheet im sexy” mix, and you might meet one lol I can attest to this. Same thing happened to me today, but I was wearing IS/A and TAH. It was an almost identical situation, but I was not pointedly ignored - I was given attitude. I had to see someone about a painting I’m doing for them, and this guy was nowhere to be found, so I asked his secretary… who made a big production of dealing with everyone else in the room first. TAH may have kept me from saying anything nasty. I was in a great mood all day, even afterward (hooray for TAH). The thing I found funny was that she was the only one who seemed to have an adverse reaction. Even people who normally don’t speak to me or act like I exist were chatting with me, and I did receive a fair amount of compliments from men and women alike. It was only that one woman; something sure did seem to rub her the wrong way. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/15 "2007-03-01T19:39:11Z")
> [@alseides](#): > > I can attest to this. Same thing happened to me today, but I was wearing IS/A and TAH. It was an almost identical situation, but I was not pointedly ignored - I was given attitude. …Even people who normally don’t speak to me or act like I exist were chatting with me, and I did receive a fair amount of compliments from men and women alike. It was only that one woman; something sure did seem to rub her the wrong way. I’m beginning to wonder if this has to be due to the subject’s time in her “cycle”. Not everyone would be in the same point, therefore not effected. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2007, 11:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/16 "2007-03-01T23:35:13Z")
yes Mtnjim, im beginning to suspect the same! also, i just want to note that insecurity at any time in the cycle will manifest only one of 2 ways- the chick wants to get to know you better to figure out what it is about you (this is usually me during an insecure moment) and she might ask what your wearing or whats going on in your life that you are glowing… or she gets bitchy. when you get the latter , say something uplifting. that usually clears up the infection ,lol. i once told a gal she had beautiful eyes; they were bright green and NOT contacts. i was floored by them. she blushes and said thank you, but then looked at me funny, like i might ask her out 😃 oh well. ---
**Author:** ![unknown\_user88](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown_user88/32/842_2.png) [@unknown\_user88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown_user88)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2007, 2:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/17 "2007-03-02T02:22:11Z")
i reckon its to do with her feeling intimidated by your sense of humour plus the effect of instant shine giving that “friendly/fun person aura” made here feel competetive therefore being a little mean.. ---
**Author:** ![saraunne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/saraunne/32/193_2.png) [@saraunne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/saraunne)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2007, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/18 "2007-03-02T03:11:57Z")
“…I had the pear dream again…” ---
**Author:** ![deanie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8dc957/32.png) [@deanie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/deanie)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2007, 12:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/19 "2007-03-02T12:25:49Z")
> [@saraunne](#): > > “…I had the pear dream again…” Refresh our memories on the pear dream??? ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2007, 12:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-curse-of-being-shiny/2271/20 "2007-03-02T12:25:50Z")
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