# the extent of others' conscious awareness? **URL:** \ **Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\ **Created:** [March 5, 2007, 12:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354 "2007-03-05T00:52:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![kingcrimson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed8c4c/32.png) [@kingcrimson](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kingcrimson)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2007, 12:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/1 "2007-03-05T00:52:27Z")
Are other people aware that they’re treating me differently? relationships with others I might’ve had for years even, suddenly they’re treatig me totally different… to what extent are they aware of this? and if so, what do they chaulk it up as? ---
**Author:** ![HeinzHummer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/heinzhummer/32/941_2.png) [@HeinzHummer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HeinzHummer)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2007, 1:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/2 "2007-03-05T01:01:26Z")
I have tried wearing A314 Mutant (white cap, no longer in stock) around my parents before and I got some weird reactions. It was like i was their long lost chum. Also I accidentally wore some instant honesty directly on my face one time, and i spilled the beans on what my dream woman would be…to my parents. Let us just surmise that it was quite explicit, with my stepdad getting the “jist” of my notion. HH 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![kingcrimson](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/ed8c4c/32.png) [@kingcrimson](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kingcrimson)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2007, 4:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/3 "2007-03-05T04:54:16Z")
I had similar reaction Heinz from my parents, for once respect rather than condescention… but what I’m wondering about is… are they aware that they’re acting different? do you think they assume there’s something different about us that warrants this? (for me conveniently this all coincides with losing 25 pounds and having a new hair cut) ---
**Author:** ![HeinzHummer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/heinzhummer/32/941_2.png) [@HeinzHummer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HeinzHummer)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2007, 9:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/4 "2007-03-06T09:43:35Z")
> [@kingcrimson](#): > > I had similar reaction Heinz from my parents, for once respect rather than condescention… > > but what I’m wondering about is… are they aware that they’re acting different? do you think they assume there’s something different about us that warrants this? (for me conveniently this all coincides with losing 25 pounds and having a new hair cut) King, I do believe that at first, there is at some subconcious level, a perception that “they” see us differently. As time passes, there may be one, or a multiple of crossroads that their mind may take. To this extent, I cannot comment. I doubt that even a Doctor with years of experience could give you a precise explanation, for the human mind is fickle, and mysterious. In my opinion (at least what a B.A. in Business Admin. is worth) I do believe yes that at some point, depending on their level of awareness, they perceive a difference in their own level of behavior around you. I have witnessed this many a time before. You need not go farther than wearing a “Sexual” [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) whilst acting incongruently, E.G. “non sexually”, with said pheromone. Giving a different perception than what your pheromone signature is illustrating will bring people crashing back to reality, where they say “incongruent message, deny!!”…or if you listen to Elvis Pressely “Return to sender, no such number.” I do believe they assume, at some point or another just to fit theiry reality into a frame of model, that they have about the world, that something is different about us. For your own situation, however, that depends highly on what you weighed before, how socially successful were you before, What your attitude before the weight loss was…Do you see a pattern here? Everything is a comparison about Who you were Before the change, whatever it was, and Who you are Now after the change. It is a comparison. How much better are you now than you were before, and to what extent can that be attributed to your own personal doing, as opposed to your congruency with the pheros. I hope this post helps you and good luck! HH 😃 ---
**Author:** ![flinx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e79b87/32.png) [@flinx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/flinx)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2007, 2:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/5 "2007-05-27T14:34:57Z")
I am trying to find information on how to reduce the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) I produce naturally so as to decrease the amount of distraction I produce. I am not interested in more effect but less effect would be helpfull.I produce an increasingly powerfull attraction which prevents a(normal) relationship. The longer I know a woman the more obsessed she becomes it has complicated my life to the point of restraining orders becoming needed more than thrice and now I am almost a recluse. If you find any info on reduction of naturally produced Pheromones please respond. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2007, 9:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/6 "2007-05-28T21:47:58Z")
> [@flinx](#): > > I am trying to find information on how to reduce the pheromones I produce naturally so as to decrease the amount of distraction I produce. I am not interested in more effect but less effect would be helpfull.I produce an increasingly powerfull attraction which prevents a(normal) relationship. The longer I know a woman the more obsessed she becomes it has complicated my life to the point of restraining orders becoming needed more than thrice and now I am almost a recluse. If you find any info on reduction of naturally produced Pheromones please respond. In another thread recently Gegogi posted about a Japanese antiperspirant deodorant which kills pheromones.. you might want to look into that.. ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2007, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/7 "2007-05-28T21:53:04Z")
> [@flinx](#): > > I am trying to find information on how to reduce the pheromones I produce naturally so as to decrease the amount of distraction I produce. I am not interested in more effect but less effect would be helpfull.I produce an increasingly powerfull attraction which prevents a(normal) relationship. The longer I know a woman the more obsessed she becomes it has complicated my life to the point of restraining orders becoming needed more than thrice and now I am almost a recluse. If you find any info on reduction of naturally produced Pheromones please respond. That, and it might be your behavior they are addicted to. If you make yourself unavailable, people just want you more. You’re a hot, rare commodity, and they want to be the one who has it. ---
**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2007, 3:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/8 "2007-05-29T15:40:04Z")
> [@flinx](#): > > … If you find any info on reduction of naturally produced Pheromones please respond. From the management perspective, there are tactical measures you can take related to how you wash / shower. Hydrogen peroxide 3% is inexpensive and seems to work well in removing phero-residues. I’ve used a half-ounce or ounce in the shower after soaping and rinsing phero-application spots when I really want a “blank phero canvas.” You might want to look to search results for “Nioxin” as well. Was it also your desire to find pre-emptive means of producing lower levels of pheromones and not just find effective means of managing them after being produced? Short of finding a doctor with specialties in endocrinology and nutrition who ~knows~ why and how your body produces pheromones and how to tweak the production levels, the best suggestion that I have might seem silly: consider hypnosis – tell your unconscious mind to slow down the phero-production and let it figure out how… My caveat is that death and serious disease and dietary deficiency and aging and stress are the primary “natural” reducers of phero production that I know of. So you probably wouldn’t want your unconscious mind to follow these paths … If you have some successes, please let us know. I suspect there are more than a few here who would welcome any wisdom you find on controlling natural pheromone output levels. ---
**Author:** ![talkischeap](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/talkischeap/32/2274_2.png) [@talkischeap](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/talkischeap)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2007, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/9 "2007-07-02T04:20:07Z")
I think most people are definately aware of how they’re treating you and, if applicable, that it’s different than before (besides DIHL type reactions, where they might only realize what happened after the fact). The pheros have changed the way they precieve you, but they’re not forcing behaviors. What they might not know is exactly _why_ they’ve had this change of heart or altered chemistry with you, and if they were to question it, I can see one of two scenarios when it comes to their reasoning. #1- they figure that they’ve seen you in a new light, that they’re finally getting to know the “real” you, or if they’ve known you for awhile they might convince themselves that you’ve matured or improved in some way. Keep in mind that when a person is attracted to you, they’ll usually try to justify it mentally by looking at you or your actions in a favorable light. The same kind of thing happens in the honeymoon period of new relationships. After all, we all want to believe that the people we respect or crush on are worthy of those feelings. #2- they are thrown off and confused at first, but then realize that they only feel this way about you when they smell your scent. If they were especially perceptive, it might throw them off if you wear it one day and then not the next, or switch a mix drastically. Whether or not they know anything about pheros, or how much they _want_ to figure out the mystery behind their sudden attraction would matter alot. No one here can tell you what the people around you are thinking…but you might want to be careful around the people who not only are strongly affected by the pheros _but_ also comment on the scent. They’re more likely to link the two. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2007, 8:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-extent-of-others-conscious-awareness/2354/10 "2007-07-02T08:17:15Z")
I find that my behaviour in other mediums with a person I’m interacting with is important too. That is, the way I use words themselves, communication like messaging and email can support my pheromone usage.. this is myself and the pheromones help others see myself as I really am.. so my words have to express that too. Not sure if I managed to convey this but it’s a matter of congruency once more between the pheromones and the non-physical behaviour (email,sms,…).