# The New Guy From Down South (aka South Carolina) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 9, 2009, 9:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718 "2009-06-09T09:23:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hayestc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/da6949/32.png) [@hayestc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hayestc)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 9:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/1 "2009-06-09T09:23:15Z")
Hello all, I am Tim from South Carolina. Currently I am on summer break from studying Electrical Engineering at the University of South Carolina. This coming fall I will be a entering my last year of undergraduate studies. I have had almost no success at getting an internship even though this is one of the most in demand jobs on the market. Do to economic turn down and corporate cutting, mixed with my moderately low self-esteem and shyness it is near impossible for me to land an internship. This summer I am working for my father on Monday and Tuesday going door to door selling decks, patios, renovations, additions, and such to the homeowners. On Wednesday-Saturday, I am a cashier at Books-A-Million. The cashier job also needs high selling confidence because BAM requires us as associates to sell a certain percentage of total sales to be Discount Cards and Magazine Subscriptions. I also happen to be engaged to my high school sweetheart, Brittany. I have had the best relationship with her. It started with me being the annoying boy in front of her in Chemistry class. Then one day I went to a concert with her and her youth group from church and when we got back, under the stars, I hugged her around the waist from behind and she said that was the first time she had felt safe in a long time. From there our relationship was great. There was no need for an additive (pheromone) to get her in the mood when we were dating. But, after we got engaged she started on a birth control pill that I think is lowering her sex drive. I have engaged her about us not really doing anything sexual anymore and she almost said she was sexually attracted to me. She still loved me, wanted to be my wife, but was not sexually attracted to me or for that matter at all to anything. So this brings me to tonight. Tonight I was searching the internet for erotic massage oils because her birthday is coming up and I wanted to give her the best massage I possibly could and maybe get a little something back. After searching for a while, I came across an oil that had a pheromone in it and was looking for a review to see if it worked well. Nothing came up so I started searching just for [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and that is how I got here. After reading a bit about what you guys are saying, and the results you are having, I decided to join the forum to find out more. I guess what I am looking for is something to jump start Brittany because being a redheaded Scorpio as I am, I am always ready and willing. The other thing I am looking for now that I have read some of the posts here, is something to give me more confidence because in my jobs I am always trying to break through the walls customers instantly put up when a pitch is presented, no matter how well you say it. If I could get help with confidence and my personal life I would be a thousand times happier than I am now(that is pretty darn happy because as is I am happy just not completely). Thanks, Tim(from now on Hayestc) P.S. What is a pheromone? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 9:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/2 "2009-06-09T09:31:00Z")
Hi Tim, Welcome to the forum. Nice long intorduction. I suggest IH and TUTH. IH will get her closer and intimate with you. She will talk deeper and more personal with you. TUTH will sexually arouse her. Hope it will raise her inerest in sex. GOod luck ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 9:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/3 "2009-06-09T09:31:41Z")
Hi Tim Thanks for sharing your story with Brittany! Ammo is a great attractant that gets a lot of women horny, however the social products like Instant Honesty, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine also help partners open up and draw them closer, this may help your relationship. I suggest you have a good read of [The Mens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168)and let us know if you have any additional questions. Once you start testing, be sure to return and let us know more about your results! šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 9:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/4 "2009-06-09T09:40:17Z")
Welcome to the forum Tim, As Bond suggested, You should try out TUTH and IH to spice up your sexual relationship. Add you also try [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for you two benefit from the better mood. Hope this help. ---
**Author:** ![hayestc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/da6949/32.png) [@hayestc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hayestc)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 9:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/5 "2009-06-09T09:49:24Z")
Thanks for posting jamesbonded and AlexanderG! Have either one of you used IH, AMMO, or TUTH. \<ā€”I think those are correct If you have would you mind telling me what happened because I do want to be sexual but I would like it to be intimate and loving as well? I read the descriptions of AMMO and TUTH and it kind of scared me off a little bit as being over the top. Do these work to those affects or is it overstated to induce caution of what is possible but unlikely? P.S. If it is too personal to put on the forum PM me and give me a link as to how I can read a PM. Thanks, Hayestc ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 9:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/6 "2009-06-09T09:57:38Z")
You can read the post here. There are many post on the effect of IH, AMMO and TUTH. Ofcourse they work but please do not expect them as magic potion. Pheromones can only help and largely still got to depends on you. ---
**Author:** ![hayestc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/da6949/32.png) [@hayestc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hayestc)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 10:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/7 "2009-06-09T10:03:58Z")
Thanks again jamesbonded, I feel better knowing that they donā€™t overpower like a ā€œmagic potion.ā€ I would never do anything to hinders someoneā€™s free will least of all Brittanyā€™s. I think I understand them a little better after reading some more of the posts, these are more like hints and suggestions to, for lack of better term, our hard wiring inside all of us. Thanks again, Hayestc ---
**Author:** ![hayestc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/da6949/32.png) [@hayestc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hayestc)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 11:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/8 "2009-06-09T11:01:28Z")
What would be best for breaking down walls that people have against salesmen? Something that would work quickly, but not be overpowering. I just get frustrated sometimes when a customer would truly benefit from something I am offering but has a wall up and wonā€™t listen. I think a combination of increased happiness and confidence would be the best combination. Is there a [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) that does this? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 11:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/9 "2009-06-09T11:46:30Z")
I know A314 is good for salesman. People will trust, respect and think you are reliable. Hence, they will listen to you more. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/10 "2009-06-09T19:39:10Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Hayestc! Your introduction was very informative and sweet. šŸ™‚ I think the massage oils with your pheromones will make for a great night and starter into getting your fiancee back into the game. Since she is also not feeling attractive to you anymore it might have to do with the fact that she herself might not be feeling sexual. I would suggest getting her some instant sexiness/a to get her feeling confident and sexy. As suggested instant honesty is a product that evokes intimacy and a deeper level of communication. This can be used both for your relationship and work. To be a good salesperson you will need others to trust your word. Instant shine is another good product for work and relationship wise. This a feel good pheromones that will have you feeling calm and nice and have others around you feeling good too. I would definitely not lean so much towards the [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) and more go with the Ammunition. These are both sexual products but Turn up the Heat tends to be stronger and depending on the person may give of a wrong vibe. Ammunition smells great and is sexually arousing. Keep up updated on your results. **Your GC is on itā€™s way!** ---
**Author:** ![hayestc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/da6949/32.png) [@hayestc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hayestc)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2009, 4:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/11 "2009-06-12T04:49:22Z")
Thanks Mickaelia, I canā€™t wait to try this stuff. From what everyone is saying I think I am going to try the travel size of IH IS [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and AMMO. Should I get IS or Instant Sexiness B? What is the difference? Thanks to all! You guys (female and male) have been very helpful, Tim ---
**Author:** ![hayestc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/da6949/32.png) [@hayestc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hayestc)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2009, 4:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/12 "2009-07-04T04:48:32Z")
I have finally got my PayPal account working and have made my first order. It seems (through reading) that the effects very depending on my different variables and I have 3 main places to test and report these pheros: Instant Honesty, Instant Openness, Turn Up The Heat, Instant Shine, and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). All of these are in the default TO GO! strength. In my relationship with my fionce, I will be vague to the point of almost success failure. But in the other situations, I will be posting as much detail as I can. Also, is there a particular place I should start a thread with results because I am already gathering data for a base run with no pheros? I almost forgot. Stupid question, how do you post a new thread? šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2009, 12:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/13 "2009-07-04T12:14:09Z")
If youā€™re interested in starting a journal to record your experiences, then go to the section called Menā€™s journals. At the top left you will see the button marked New Thread. Click that to start a new one. ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [July 4, 2009, 1:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/14 "2009-07-04T13:05:19Z")
From the homepage of pherotalk forum, it consists of several categories (Introduction new userā€¦, menā€™sā€¦, womenā€™sā€¦, store announcementā€¦, ā€¦) you can see the usage of each category below its name/link. you can open thread in these categories depending on what topic you want to post about. For example, what to report your hits of pheromone? Then go to Menā€™sā€¦ Category and open a new thread there (new thread button located at both the top and bottom left of the page.), To start a new journal, go to Menā€™s Pheromones Tipsā€¦\>\>\>\>Menā€™s Journal, and start your new thread there. ---
**Author:** ![hayestc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/da6949/32.png) [@hayestc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hayestc)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 5:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-new-guy-from-down-south-aka-south-carolina/29718/15 "2009-07-05T05:10:23Z")
Thanks you guys (and girls). I knew the button was there but at wee hours of the morning I just could not find it. šŸ™„