# The not so gentlemanly adventures of TheGentleman **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [July 30, 2010, 8:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443 "2010-07-30T20:40:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 8
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2011, 7:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443/141 "2011-07-25T19:54:21Z")
That’s very interesting because for my it hits them right away sexually. It does however create a sense of comfort. So you get I’m OK with this guy being overtly sexual and I guess its because I need him to do me. Basically its designed with the M3 model in mind. It takes you from attraction to comfort, then into sexual. This is not to say you are doing this, but I think what might be happening is some are spending to much time in the comfort stage and getting friended instead of slept with. When I first started testing this it happened to me a couple of times too, but then I realized what was happening. It basically gives you everything you need to sleep with someone, but if you stay to long in that comfort area you are going to end being stuck there. Its a highly sexual mix, but as with any mix, you need to use the sexuality. ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2011, 12:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443/142 "2011-07-26T00:32:59Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > That’s very interesting because for my it hits them right away sexually. It does however create a sense of comfort. So you get I’m OK with this guy being overtly sexual and I guess its because I need him to do me. > > Basically its designed with the M3 model in mind. It takes you from attraction to comfort, then into sexual. This is not to say you are doing this, but I think what might be happening is some are spending to much time in the comfort stage and getting friended instead of slept with. When I first started testing this it happened to me a couple of times too, but then I realized what was happening. It basically gives you everything you need to sleep with someone, but if you stay to long in that comfort area you are going to end being stuck there. Its a highly sexual mix, but as with any mix, you need to use the sexuality. Yeah I think this is the conclusion I was coming to myself…that it was up to me to push that envelope. Interesting to say the least that its “sexual” in a different manner. Instead of causing “reactions” it allows you to act. That in and of itself will be highly more attractive when you’re the one pushing the boundaries and setting the sexual tone. ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2011, 12:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443/143 "2011-07-27T00:28:45Z")
MX 395 and Strippers Strip clubs are an interesting venue in that the world is flipped upside down, women are gaming the men and using the exact same techniques most schools of PUA teach. Attraction, comfort, then seduction. You can watch as they approach a guy, then start to escalate kino by first touching the shoulders, then playfully touching the hand or leg, and then move to stroking the guy’s inner thigh etc…then onto the seduction where they now attempt to close the deal by getting them to pay for a lap / private dance. Our game is to initiate conversation with the strippers and attempt to keep them interested long enough to the point that they almost forget to ask us for a lap dance. The idea is to practice conversational skills and to throw in some speed seduction / NLP at the same time. When using speed seduction on a target you have to categorize them in terms of what kind of recipe you will be using. If its a woman who’s into comfort, is a bit shy etc you will of course need to first build comfort and connection using patterns that build on that. But in the case of a stripper, someone who is a bit desensitized, and more than likely carries some issues that are a result of physical/sexual/ verbal abuse and / or substance abuse, they’re not looking to connect. They are more than likely fueled by desires, things that excite them to action. So patterns that I use tend to fall in line with asking them, “What’s it like when you start to feel an intense desire for a sweet piece of chocolate cake?” In one instance I asked one of the girls to describe what turns her on when checking out the other women. She started to go into describing the sensations she would feel, and where she would feel them. I would then feed them back to her using embedded commands and before it was all over she was telling me how she loved to look up at a man in the eyes with his testicles in her mouth. This woman stayed to talk to me for approximately 30 mins, and it was clear up front as I told her that I would not be spending any money on lap dances. So onto the actual report… **Mix:** MIX 395 **App Points, Dosage and Time:** 10pm arrived at Spearmint Rhino approximately 10:20 pm 2 sprays on each side of neck. **Venue:** Spearmint Rhino **Weather / Temp:** A bit warmer tonight, but club is cool, dark and zero humidity. **Distance:** Inches to 2 feet. **Self-Effects:** Nothing that I noticed **Effects On Others:** **Target 1:** Passion (stripper name) Beautiful Lebanese women about 27 years old, mother of 3 on loan from a club in Oregon. This was my most interesting interaction. She was sitting alone on a couch that ran along a wall adjacent to where I was sitting and had been watching me for quite some time. A couple of the more aggressive girls came by and I shooed them off with the quickness but in a friendly, but dominant way. These were girls who just jumped my jock immediately, started to grind on me, pushing their tits into my face. She came over to talk to me and I let her know up front that I wasn’t paying for any dances and she said that is what she thought was cool about me. That I was able to send those pushy girls on their way and not buy into their sales pitch. This girl ended up sitting with me for the next hour and a half and we had an amazing conversation in which she told me that I dressed amazingly, was just the cutest. Our conversation went all over the place. I actually first went into describing how she and the other girls were playing pick up artist and using the exact same techniques, then we got a bit sexual and started to talk about what we’d do with the girls that were on stage. We then moved into a corner section of the couch and got a bit closer. This went on for the longest time without her ever asking for a dance. After about an hour and a half she then told me she had to get up and go make some money, went to approach a guy got turned down so she then came and sat down with me for another half hour…LOL. I explained to her how the world was flipped around and she was now the dude. As soon as the conversation ended enter Porsche… **Target 2:** Porsche, blonde statuesque very leggy about 24 years old. This was definitely the funnest interaction all night long. This girl sat down and I informed her that me and my buddy were about to bail. She played a bit hurt and since it was fun I started to play back. She then started to tell me about different muscles in the body and for a girl who came across as a bimbo in the first 30 seconds she was surprisingly smart. But as she kept talking I put my finger up to her lips and told her…“shhhh” She then grabbed my finger and that’s when I realized she also knew some martial arts, but she didn’t hurt me…LOL Now this is when we broke out into a play fight that lasted for about 30 minutes and she kept edging closer and closer to my face. I told her that I was going to marry her tonight, fuck her all night, divorce her in the morning and leave her with the kids. She then told me she would take half of my shit and that she was pro abortion. The play fight got so fun that others around including waitresses just watched us. She pretended to slap me and then at one point really did but not too hard and before it was all over with that beautiful face she got so close she just gave me a kiss. The interesting thing is with these women…is you don’t know where the gaming ends. I usually just chalk it up to they’re always gaming, because they just don’t know any better, but either way it was a lot of fun. **Final Thoughts and Conclusions:** MX395 at a strip club, kind of hard to tell once again whether its true attraction or just gaming. We had intended to head out to the Marquee before the Rhino and that was my intended target environment, but we just went to the Rhino and stayed there for about 4 hours. Total cost, $7 for a damn bottle of water…LOL ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2011, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443/144 "2011-07-27T21:55:33Z")
You should read Data4’s mini-journal on speed seduction on strippers. Its pretty revealing and in the end, its all about the money. Its always about the money with strippers 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2011, 2:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443/145 "2011-07-28T14:58:42Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > You should read Data4’s mini-journal on speed seduction on strippers. Its pretty revealing and in the end, its all about the money. Its always about the money with strippers 🙂 I once dated a stripper who basically paid for everything while we were together., but in MOST cases I would have to agree with you. There can be exceptions to MOST situations In my case with the stripper the only thing with that is I knew her from high school and she had a huge crush on me. SOOOO my exception doesn’t really count 😛 ---
**Author:** ![raqy101](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/da6949/32.png) [@raqy101](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/raqy101)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2011, 3:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443/146 "2011-09-21T15:23:40Z")
i really love reading your adventures , keep it up mate ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2011, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443/147 "2011-09-22T22:15:58Z")
Thanks man…I need to get back to writing reports. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2011, 8:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443/148 "2011-12-11T08:40:10Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > I have had some amazing results with IG + MX297 and CTTM2 in the exact same environments. So I’m beginning to wonder if I’m expecting different things out of ICM 2.0 and not seeing the more subtle hits. > > In my experience so far, I’ve been really surprised at how much comfort this mix brings, I was thinking it would be a bit more “sexual.” Not saying it can’t be, just saying that I need to go in this with another frame of mind…more open to seeing what is actually going on. > And Mustang is probably right in that it needs some basting time for it to really hit. I know of another product from another place that takes 30 minutes before it really hits, it wasn’t necessarily designed that way, but then it kind of was. It doesn’t create sexual need, it triggers desire and craving…so I’m wondering if this might be similar in that it takes a few minutes to really hit all the right sensors. You really make me want to try this mix. Desire and craving sounds good 😃 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-not-so-gentlemanly-adventures-of-thegentleman/40443.md?page=7)