# The orgasmatronic tension-release theory **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 15, 2006, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-orgasmatronic-tension-release-theory/359 "2006-05-15T17:58:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 1
**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2006, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-orgasmatronic-tension-release-theory/359/1 "2006-05-15T17:58:27Z")
Backstory: mixed up an intense batch of -nols, P79, P80, dienone … about as close to the mythical panty dropper as I’ve yet compounded… women around me were getting aroused , normally conservative, restrained, professional conduct types, one found an excuse to rub up against my thighs and seemd to be struggling to control herself, another wafted off a hint of the unmistakable love aroma of woman, another, a mind spinningly beautiful south american woman was in the grip of an attraction-shyness double bind… to myself I said this is too much stimulation for these folks… and next time came in scrubbed clean… however, now the women relaxed, they weren’t processing intense, confusing feelings it would seem to be the case… although their minds had been imprinted with attraction-desire engrams from the previous time… Story: the stunning gorgeous south american came in specially dolled up, she was wearing perfume, constantly stroking her long golden hair (woof woof woof!), had on a beautiful shade of lipstick… in short, she was making a special effort… and when she wanted to talk she would put her hand on my shoulder so tenderly, she is playful and comfortable, talking with her eyes with me in ways I fear most north americans don’t fully comprehend or so it has been in my experience… we never talked before but we have this almost intimate, free flowing conversation for a few minutes then seems a bit surprised we were… but everything played very lightly… no needy clingy optical gloms … interacting in free space as it were … how unusual, out of character for such a beautiful woman, who must be accustomed to constant humpy luv gambits … ( these wooden “language patterns” that make life difficult for us more free form, loose jam sort of guys ) … I think the dynamic here was that first, a strong feeling or alteration of focus shifts into the emotional-erotic-communicative mode that is one big limbic mind package for women, then, phase two, she stops and analyses or maybe checks in with her _situational gestalt_ , then phase three, if you hang in there and remove the pheromone input (this is critical guys…) she makes a comaprison in her midbrain, “I was turned on to this guy, and he’s cool, and now I don’t feel all these confusing feelings, and he’s still cool… so he’s probably really cool…” My belief as of now is that steady state exposure to [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) is a fundamental error because it does not allow the recipient’s brain to experience the pheromone emitter (that’s you, pal) as a contrastive phenomenon … now, get this well… the brain is, at a fundamental level, an organ that builds understanding through contrasts… so the female brain is wired to think.. “I’m turned on… bad boys may turn me on but they’re waaay to costly to deal with and have messed up my life or my friends lives in the past… although I AM checking this guy out on some deep levels of preconsciousness… live to play another day” … so, when you appear the next day, as your same stable, humorous, well focused self, and you’re NOT emitting pheromones.. another part of her brain is saying " Allllright… this guy sure CAN turn me on, but he can also be a really decent, conscious, good listener… not just another hormone addled sex machine that ran out of the barn, maybe he’s one of those rare guys who is both fuckable and relatable … we should spend some time…" Every case is distinct so don’t conclude there is any patentable formula, OTOH there appears to be some kind of firm biological basis for this contrastive pheromonal presentation… --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-orgasmatronic-tension-release-theory/359)._