# The Quest for Congruence - Diary of a Feminist Man **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [April 8, 2013, 2:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-quest-for-congruence-diary-of-a-feminist-man/58691 "2013-04-08T14:43:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 20
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2013, 6:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-quest-for-congruence-diary-of-a-feminist-man/58691/20 "2013-04-24T06:28:57Z")
Good times… The long term changes usually come about slowly. Glad things are coalescing for you and the missus. As to [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/), I would test that out first with the smaller 5 mu. I’m not saying that some have had a good response with that molecule, just that in my experience, it’s been a ‘bitch generator’… In me and my SO. For some, it brings out a relaxed confidence. For TAC, I also have personal experience and highly recommend it. Here is a couple of my posts on the TAC response on one of my threads: [TUTH Immunity... Is it possible? How to conteract it!!! - #25 by 1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-immunity-is-it-possible-how-to-conteract-it/42693/25) Also, K-Train had started his thread long before I got to PheroTalk… [Does TAC Really Intesify Orgasms?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/does-tac-really-intesify-orgasms/189943) As you have seen, you need to continue to tweak the application of the mones to your particular situation. You do need more of a sniper rifle approach than a shotgun approach. Many here are just happy with the ‘spray everything on and see what happens’. As you have a particular goal, you have a more complicated application with your particular relationship. Keep it up, I’m glad your doing well! 1Alpha . --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-quest-for-congruence-diary-of-a-feminist-man/58691)._