# The Restaurant Manager is a Babe **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 23, 2009, 6:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401 "2009-02-23T06:58:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/21 "2009-02-23T21:03:23Z")
> [@castlerock](#): > > If you want to take it even further back, then you can look at works of **Milton Erickson**. Everybody acknowledges the brilliance of Milton Erickson. > > [http://www.nlpu.com/bandbio.htm](http://www.nlpu.com/bandbio.htm) > > Richard Bandler is a co-founder with John Grinder of the field of Neuro-Linguistic Programming. A student of mathematics, Richard began studying the work of Gestalt therapy founder Fritz Perls when he was asked to edit transcripts of Perls’ lectures and workshops for the book _ **Eyewitness To Therapy** _ (1973) for Science and Behavior Books. He also began to work with family therapist Virginia Satir at this time. > > Richard met John Grinder, a linguistics professor, as a student at the University of California at Santa Cruz. In 1974 Bandler and Grinder began to make a model of the language patterns used by Perls, Satir and Hypnotherapist Milton H. Erickson, which they published in their books _ **The Structure of Magic Volumes I & II** _ (1975, 1976), _ **Patterns of the Hypnotic Techniques of Milton H. Erickson, Volumes I & II** _ (1975, 1977) and _ **Changing With Families** _ (1976). These books formed the foundation of the field of Neuro-Linguistic Programming Milton Erickson is my all time hero! He died in 1987 and I’ve always regretted not being able to meet him. He was leagues ahead of his time, and no one ever showed a better grasp of subconscious principles than he did. He was ostracized from the analytic psychology group because of his radical ideas. Diane ---
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/22 "2009-02-23T21:11:10Z")
> [@diane999](#): > > Milton Erickson is my all time hero! He died in 1987 and I’ve always regretted not being able to meet him. He was leagues ahead of his time, and no one ever showed a better grasp of subconscious principles than he did. He was ostracized from the analytic psychology group because of his radical ideas. > > Diane If I remember correctly from what I’ve read, Richard Bandler said he met Erickson and said Erickson was brilliant and how honored he was to meet him. Ross Jeffries also talks very highly of Erickson. Erickson is definitely a legend in the field. ---
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/23 "2009-02-23T21:12:25Z")
> [@castlerock](#): > > If I remember correctly from what I’ve read, Richard Bandler said he met Erickson and said Erickson was brilliant and how honored he was to meet him. Ross Jeffries also talks very highly of Erickson. Erickson is definitely a legend in the field. I loved him because he operated totally outside the box, yet could always master the contents of the box. The man had phenomenal vision. Diane ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 2:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/24 "2009-02-24T14:00:08Z")
I think you all missed the point: Nicole! Yesterday I was on my way to Universal Studios to do the tourist thing. I was waiting in the lobby for a taxi and I see the lovely Nicole walking by. I pretend like I didnt. Her voice, like an angel, calls out my name and of course I pretended to ignore her like it wasnt my name. She stops and says I knew it and I started to laugh. I had to prove to her my name was SteveO. I did some Kino and tried to anchor her feelings towards me. She got very flush red and did a little shutter. She then said I need to go and walked away. No goodbye, no nothing. Personally I think I might have pushed her close to abandoning her work for a morning tour of my room, but I’ll never know. Mx292 ---
**Author:** ![data4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/data4/32/272_2.png) [@data4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/data4)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/25 "2009-02-24T14:09:56Z")
Bandler (and Grinder) IS NLP. NLP has found its way into everything, from psychotherapy to marketing and advertising. Even that erotic hypnotist I posted about in the Lounge bases her hypnotic style on NLP and Eriksonian Hypnosis. In fact, if you can get past the kookiness of what her products do and listen to how she weaves her words, you can see she’s got a wonderful grasp on the concepts. If you want to see where it all began, do a search for Frogs into Princes. That’s one of Bandler and Grinder’s books. The other biggie is The Structure of Magic (don’t let the title scare you off. It’s not some new-agey pop-psy book) But… yes, as Steve was saying, that’s not the point of his thread. 😉 Steve, is that the last time you anticipate ever seeing her? T’would be a travesty if you left Orlando without so much as an email address to keep her thoughts beaming towards Memphis. 😃 -D4 ---
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/26 "2009-02-24T20:02:19Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > Personally I think I might have pushed her close to abandoning her work for a morning tour of my room, but I’ll never know. > > Mx292 the more real world practice, the better. don’t forget to show her your bathtub if she gets a chance 😃 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/27 "2009-02-24T21:27:05Z")
Nope I am gone and unless I am lucky like that, I dont believe I will ever see Nicole again. ---
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 9:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/28 "2009-02-24T21:59:20Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > Nope I am gone and unless I am lucky like that, I dont believe I will ever see Nicole again. honorable thing to do is fall on your sword samurai style 😃 ---
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 10:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/29 "2009-02-24T22:50:36Z")
> [@castlerock](#): > > honorable thing to do is fall on your sword samurai style 😃 Er… nope! You need to grok Steve, Castlerock. See, girls like to have guys chase them… But not SteveO… He won’t chase girls. He wants girls to chase him. And that is the point. Diane ---
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2009, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401/30 "2009-02-24T23:29:30Z")
> [@diane999](#): > > Er… nope! You need to grok Steve, Castlerock. See, girls like to have guys chase them… But not SteveO… He won’t chase girls. He wants girls to chase him. And that is the point. > > Diane https://www.youtube.com/embed/BNFeGcZw2uA?feature=oembed&wmode=opaque [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-restaurant-manager-is-a-babe/26401.md?page=1)