# The Secret Law Of ATTRACTION

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [May 12, 2007, 7:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629 "2007-05-12T19:08:04Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 13\
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**Author:** ![Tigerlilly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tigerlilly/32/2257_2.png) [@Tigerlilly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigerlilly)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/123 "2009-02-23T19:50:15Z")

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Tisha, your posts on this are fascinating. I’ve read the thread from the beginning. Most interesting was seeing Steve’s posts! I don’t know much/anything about this, but you have inspired me to start learning… I might be asking you some questions though, oh wise one. 😛

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**Author:** ![magicj76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magicj76/32/1858_2.png) [@magicj76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magicj76)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 9:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/124 "2009-02-23T21:49:45Z")

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> [@LifeT](#):
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> so is this like another tony robbins nlp product?

mmm… sarcastic ? lol

From my little experience with the law of attraction, it has the same “principles” explained by Tony Robbins and nlp. Feeling significant, secure, unsecure, and so on.

As many things, it is interesting to learn a little from, without going into it blindly as when some people think TUTH will turn women so crazy that they’ll rape you in the middle of the street !

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**Author:** ![magicj76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magicj76/32/1858_2.png) [@magicj76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magicj76)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/125 "2009-02-23T21:55:23Z")

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> [@Carmine23](#):
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> I first started out with little things such as Green lights when ever I drove, Now I can’t even recall the last time I was caught in a Red light for more than 10 seconds.

I didn’t know the law of attraction taught that. Other stuff teach you that. All that is what you found thanks to magnetism and other “schools” which use the same few principles.  
Haven’t been able to play with traffic lights other than as a pedestrian though.  
And A314 has been giving me more concrete things but it’s always fun to play for nothing but pleasure !

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**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 10:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/126 "2009-02-23T22:34:46Z")

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I myself believe in the LOA and I’m a Christian. When you believe you can have something and you feel the joyful feelings of already having it before you do (without allowing feelings of doubt to enter your mind)… you will most likily hold it in your hand. Doubt will keep you from having what you want most. negative feelings will limit you and keep good things from happening to you. Think of it this way… we are all made of energy (this is science) and we are all (everything in the universe) connected in this way. We attract what we think about most. This is because the things we think about cause us to have feelings that create a frequency. This frequency creates vibrations that connect to the similar frequency thus attracting it to you! I believe that yes, God does have a destiny planned for us, and if we choose to follow him we will live the best life we could possibly live. However, he also gives us control over it even if it isn’t always the best choice. It says in the Bible that our words are very powerful. LOA is great and it can work for any one, but those who are in faith and trust in God will recieve the desires of their heart at super speed and they will be more satisfied because it came from him. It has to do with the fruit of the spirit. My dad explained the whole thing to me (he’s really big on stuff like this) when I was confused about both the works of LOA and God and how they connected. My question was “If anyone can have whatever they want, then where does God come in?” God not only knows what we want, but he knows what we need. He created the LOA and he controls it. Thats just my views as a Christian on this topic 😛

much love,

~Tiffany~

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**Author:** ![mdm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ac8455/32.png) [@mdm](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mdm)\
**Post date:** [March 8, 2009, 3:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/127 "2009-03-08T03:48:19Z")

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do you mean 180 degree turn around?

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**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2010, 11:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/128 "2010-08-09T23:49:26Z")

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> [@Carmine23](#):
>
> Hello Gents and Gals,  
> Well some of you might remember me, I had some successful experiences with Instant Honesty.
> 
> Well I am here to talk about the Law Of Attraction, some of you might be going what the heck is that? Others might have heard about it or now what it is.  
> If you have heard about it, you probably have seen or read the book;  
> **The Secret,** and you probably know what I am talking about. If not follow the site and find out more about it.  
> [Wealth Beyond Reason - The Truth About the Law of Attraction](http://snipurl.com/1kci5)
> 
> I just wanted to tell you all my experience with the Law Of Attraction and what it has done for me.
> 
> I found about the law of attraction about 3 months ago, I was just surfing the net when I came across the movie **The Secret,** I was dumbfounded when I found out that my life have been a result from my thinking, when those words sunk into me I realized that The Law Of Attraction was true because all my surroundings was a direct result from the way I was thinking and acting on a subconscious. Once I realized that and I realized that I could control my thoughts I started thinking about the things that I had wanted but that I was resisting.
> 
> Soon after I started to notice that my life had a 360 turn, and all of the things that I had wanted for a long time started to come into my life easily a effortlessly.
> 
> I had been looking for the right girl for a long time but had not been able to find her, that is what led me to pheromones. They did help a bit but not to the extent that the Law Of Attraction helped me, I have found my Beautiful Bubbles and we are happier than ever before!
> 
> I just wanted to let you guys know about this Law Of Attraction and to share my experiences and how it changed my life within a few months of commitment to it.
> 
> I fully recommend that you guys check out Bobs website, he has put together a wonderful program that guides you step by step and helps you succeed with the Law Of Attraction. People say that it start with  
> \*\*The Secret **and ends with** Wealth Beyond Reason. \*\*By the way when I say wealth I don’t mean money, yes money is a side effect of being wealthy but being wealthy is being happy in every aspect of your life including Money.
> 
> Bobs program is the best lecturing program of the law of attraction that is out there, he gives you books, audios, seminars, and he introduces you to “EFT” which is one of the things that The Secret does not teach you but Bob does.  
> I wanted to share this with you because all could benefit from it and turn their lives around like I did with mine. After all we are all one.
> 
> Here is the website again, go check it out and enjoy. [Wealth Beyond Reason - The Truth About the Law of Attraction](http://snipurl.com/1kci5)  
> please feel free to ask me any questions on the subject.!

There’s another book out called: the **Secret Laws** Of **Attraction**

The Effortless Way to the Get Relationship You Want.

It deal alot with “If our **emotional needs** are **unmet** , we repel what we most desire. It provides a comprehensive quiz to help you identify your top 4 **emotional needs** ”. Very useful and insightful.🙂

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**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\
**Post date:** [August 10, 2010, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/129 "2010-08-10T00:19:23Z")

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Attitude is extremely important, however attitude without old school ideas like hard won knowledge, consistent practice, good coaches and mentors, strong theoretical understanding, and superior technique won’t take you very far.

Anything that helps you clarify your mental state, in terms of background psychology, self image, limiting beliefs, sure, that’s all for the good and it will make a difference.

Sometimes a major difference. OTOH, I’ve also seen far too many people who’ve crashed into the rocks on the mistaken belief that attitude alone will carry the day.

There are things in my life that I’ve had to hang in there for years, slowly mastering an art, until I began to feel the essence of it. If an attitude or a belief was involved, it was a long term, long haul, gritty stick to it attitude… there have been long years where I thought I was a superconducting pain magnet… everything sucked at the cosmic level… until I realized that I was operating out of deeply ingrained ignorance and illusions that only intense focus on the learning process could change.

If I have a major beef with The Secret and all Secret-like products and systems of thinking it is that they don’t like to admit that like has many high walls of pain, confusion, and profound frustration that you won’t surmount by trying to tune in a quick transcendence on the cheap… there is such a thing as earning your place in the world, on a lot of levels, which isn’t the same as wishing your place in the world, or fantasizing your place in the world… quite a lot is based on having the stones to hang in there for the long haul, get real with yourself about your limitations, ditching the excuses and fantasy compensations, looking hard at your habits and determinedly changing behaviors that cause limitations or self harm… there’s only one way, the real way…

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**Author:** ![MrCowbell](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f08c70/32.png) [@MrCowbell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrCowbell)\
**Post date:** [August 10, 2010, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/130 "2010-08-10T01:22:14Z")

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Your life did a complete 360??? Don’t you mean a 180 because a 360 would put you right back where you started..

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**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\
**Post date:** [August 10, 2010, 4:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/131 "2010-08-10T04:34:33Z")

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> [@MrCowbell](#):
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> Your life did a complete 360??? Don’t you mean a 180 because a 360 would put you right back where you started..

We need more cowbell!!!

I was thinking the same thing when I saw that. So many people confuse that saying…anyway. I too believe in the LOA, but more importantly as John Assaraf one of the teachers in the secret states the Law of GOYA… Get Off Your Ass!

LOA has changed the way I view my entire life, in that I am no longer a victim, but the creator of whatever goes on in my life…good, bad, or ugly, I made it happen through whatever choices I made, whether that was yesterday, 5 minutes ago, or 5 years ago.

People ask me “does it work?” Well, if I found this much happiness in looking at a stale piece of cheese every day, then I would be looking at a stale piece of cheese… hope that answers your question.

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**Author:** ![giants52000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/958977/32.png) [@giants52000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/giants52000)\
**Post date:** [August 10, 2010, 2:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/132 "2010-08-10T14:01:32Z")

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> [@tacitus](#):
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> Attitude is extremely important, however attitude without old school ideas like hard won knowledge, consistent practice, good coaches and mentors, strong theoretical understanding, and superior technique won’t take you very far.
> 
> Anything that helps you clarify your mental state, in terms of background psychology, self image, limiting beliefs, sure, that’s all for the good and it will make a difference.
> 
> Sometimes a major difference. OTOH, I’ve also seen far too many people who’ve crashed into the rocks on the mistaken belief that attitude alone will carry the day.
> 
> There are things in my life that I’ve had to hang in there for years, slowly mastering an art, until I began to feel the essence of it. If an attitude or a belief was involved, it was a long term, long haul, gritty stick to it attitude… there have been long years where I thought I was a superconducting pain magnet… everything sucked at the cosmic level… until I realized that I was operating out of deeply ingrained ignorance and illusions that only intense focus on the learning process could change.
> 
> If I have a major beef with The Secret and all Secret-like products and systems of thinking it is that they don’t like to admit that like has many high walls of pain, confusion, and profound frustration that you won’t surmount by trying to tune in a quick transcendence on the cheap… there is such a thing as earning your place in the world, on a lot of levels, which isn’t the same as wishing your place in the world, or fantasizing your place in the world… quite a lot is based on having the stones to hang in there for the long haul, get real with yourself about your limitations, ditching the excuses and fantasy compensations, looking hard at your habits and determinedly changing behaviors that cause limitations or self harm… there’s only one way, the real way…

Tacitus, You are the man. Just want to call it out. Thanks 🙂

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**Author:** ![keen\_observer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/keen_observer/32/1432_2.png) [@keen\_observer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/keen_observer)\
**Post date:** [August 10, 2010, 9:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/133 "2010-08-10T21:13:21Z")

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> [@tacitus](#):
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> There are things in my life that I’ve had to hang in there for years, slowly mastering an art, until I began to feel the essence of it. If an attitude or a belief was involved, it was a long term, long haul, gritty stick to it attitude… there have been long years where I thought I was a superconducting pain magnet… everything sucked at the cosmic level… until I realized that I was operating out of deeply ingrained ignorance and illusions that only intense focus on the learning process could change…

Your ideas and sage advice is right on target, tacitus. The ability to hang in there and not give up and master the skills that are required to achieve success at what’s important cannot be understated. If something is so important for a person to master or achieve in his or her life, then it should be important enough to hang in there and not give up until that goal is reached. Again, great advice, tacitus.  
—keen observer

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**Author:** ![fishlalala](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e9a140/32.png) [@fishlalala](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fishlalala)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2011, 12:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/134 "2011-10-27T12:52:24Z")

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> [@Lor](#):
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> bob proctor,right?  
> he’s a hoot.
> 
> i am better familiar with abraham-hicks.
> 
> all great stuff though.
> 
> rock on,carmine. ive followed this stuff for years 🙂

Yayyy!! I love abraham -hicks too!! she is fab!!! i got her speeches on my mac and iphone, listen day in day out~~ help me tremendously!!

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**Author:** ![fishlalala](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e9a140/32.png) [@fishlalala](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fishlalala)\
**Post date:** [October 27, 2011, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-secret-law-of-attraction/3629/135 "2011-10-27T12:54:38Z")

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> [@chads](#):
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> I don’t think these “happiness methods” are new. I dug up my copy of the Silva Mind Control Method.  
> Law 1 You must desire the event take place  
> Law 2 You must believe the event can take place  
> Law 3 You must expect the event to take place  
> Law 4 You cannot create a problem.  
> Sounds pretty similar to the secret.
> 
> Then from the bible"What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall receive them."

hiya then how do you explain some people say ‘love comes when you least expect it?’

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