# The Story of My First Time. By LFC, lol **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [December 14, 2006, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-story-of-my-first-time-by-lfc-lol/1143 "2006-12-14T05:30:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![LFC](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/898d66/32.png) [@LFC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LFC)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2006, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-story-of-my-first-time-by-lfc-lol/1143/1 "2006-12-14T05:30:44Z")
Hello fellow Phere-moners. I received my package today and I was anxious to give it a whirl. My intentions were to load up on a few things and go to local restaurant/bar and see what happens. Here was my recipe: IFM, A314, IH, IO, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) - 2 of each IFM on the back of neck and top of head A314 on wrists and back of ears IH on back of head and wrists IO can’t remember Instant Shine on front of neck SO I went to the bar and had a beer and ordered food, and to tell you the truth I couldn’t really tell if anything was working. It is my first time. Just as I ordered my food, the girl I was seeing a while back gave me a call and asked me if I would straighten her hair. Laugh all you want guys, but ladies love it when you play with their hair. 😛 So I thought this would be the perfect time to see just how well this stuff works. On my way to the house I got a lil nervous. “Do I have too much of this and not enough of that?”, Should I put one more of this or that?". I got to the house and ran in to the bathroom and put one more spray of IFM in the hair and IH on my hands. I think it may have been a lil overkill, but i’m a rookie, so go easy on me. Ok, so this is how the evening went. She had a rough day at work and was venting to me. Normaly when we hang out at my house, the conversations we have aren’t as in depth as I would like them to be. Tonight, she said more than I’m used to. How she has pictures of us when we went on our first date (and some inside things that I’d rather not reveal about that night 😃 ), how her friends said they wished that things worked out between us. She spoke more deeply about some personal things that are going on in her life and asked my opinion about them. I usually think about what I’m going to say before I say it, so I can get my point across without it being offensive. But tonight, my words came out clear and to the point. For instance, she said “I just have issues”. I told her, “We all have issues sweety. You just have a tendancy to bottle up all your feelings and emotions until you snap, and take out all that built up tension and frustration on someone who may not deserve it.” She said, “I know, but what can I do to stop that?” I said, “It helps to talk about your problems before it gets to that point. I don’t want you to have a nervous breakdown or a panic attack, or get so stressed out that you end up getting sick and depressed. Before you get to that point, talk to me or someone else you feel comfortable with. You know my ears and shoulders are always available at a moments notice.” So I must say that the conversation was more deep and her defenses were down. It wasn’t as intimate as I would have liked it, but being able to talk to her on this level was a big step in the right direction. As far as body language, while I was doing her hair, I noticed her laughing a lot more while watching tv. She sat with her back straight, not slouched like she usually is, with her shoulders back. I did notice her stare in to my eyes once while I was talking. Not like she was just paying attention to what I was saying, but more like she was feeling my words and daydreaming in my eyes. Ladies if you read this, please share your opinion. After she left, I got a call from her 3 times. She usually just calls me when she gets home, but she had to make a detour at her girlfriends house first. She called me when she left there, when she got home, and then again just to tell me that the dress she wanted to wear on friday to my company christmas party didn’t fit right. Hmm…? Obviously the IFM was making her comfortable and lose her defenses, IH had her talking to me about deep emotional and personal things, A314 i’m still not sure, IO had her talking more which helped IH just come out, and the Instant Shine was making me feel more lively. Ok, I know this was a long post, I was just really excited and wanted to share as much as possible so I can get as much feedback and opinions of what was going on here. Until next time, this LFC FINALLY signing off… ---
**Author:** ![Rapaille](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/57b2e6/32.png) [@Rapaille](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rapaille)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2006, 8:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-story-of-my-first-time-by-lfc-lol/1143/2 "2006-12-14T08:33:46Z")
Great observation. Maybe it’s wise to use products separately; so you can see the effects it has on people.