# the "things" that build a successful relationship

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**Created:** [June 27, 2009, 7:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-things-that-build-a-successful-relationship/30210 "2009-06-27T19:01:05Z")\
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**Author:** ![cliffharris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/96bed5/32.png) [@cliffharris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cliffharris)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2009, 7:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-things-that-build-a-successful-relationship/30210/1 "2009-06-27T19:01:05Z")

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just out of curiosity, the “things” that build a successful relationship and make it strong… are the things you are cheating to overcome with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). Do any of you have problems with deep meaningful long term relationships that have passed the troubles that make relationships grow? or do you tend to have to keep constantly using your pheromones to bewitch the one you are with?

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2009, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-things-that-build-a-successful-relationship/30210/2 "2009-06-27T19:40:26Z")

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Ah, pheromones are but a tool, my friend. 🙂

That’s not cheating. It’s learning how to use something to your advantage to promote/direct good feelings in yourself and others, to benefit everyone. Pheromones are incapable of “bewitching” _anyone_ on their own.

Think of them like you would a cool haircut or a nice suit that you put on to impress a girl…or taking your fiat to the car wash so it’s all clean and shiny when you pick her up. It’s make-up, perfume, a Wonderbra 😃 …something you do to enhance the whole package. They _may_ be of some help to start/reignite a spark but can do nothing without you to back them up. They can get you in the door but they won’t keep you there unless you do your part.

So, to answer your question…no. 🙂 The things that make relationships strong don’t come in bottles. They come from inside you. Compassion, understanding, empathy, tolerance, acceptance, persistence, patience, a willingness to forgive, love and a little creativity in the bedroom are what make a relationship strong…that’s what you “have to keep constantly to bewitch the one you are with”.

If you can find _that_ in a bottle…I’ll take a 50 gallon drum, please. 😉

Bella

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2009, 8:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-things-that-build-a-successful-relationship/30210/3 "2009-06-27T20:50:48Z")

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> just out of curiosity, the “things” that build a successful relationship and make it strong… are the things you are cheating to overcome with pheromones. Do any of you have problems with deep meaningful long term relationships that have passed the troubles that make relationships grow? or do you tend to have to keep constantly using your pheromones to bewitch the one you are with?

No I had a deep meaningful relationship before I discovered mones. I just use them for hot sweatly wall banging sex now. 😃

Mones can enhance a relationship but cant fix one or create one if there is not a underlieing interest attraction and connection.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2009, 9:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-things-that-build-a-successful-relationship/30210/4 "2009-06-27T21:17:11Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> No I had a deep meaningful relationship before I discovered mones. I just use them for hot sweatly wall banging sex now. 😃

_sigh_ I’d like both!

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**Author:** ![cliffharris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/96bed5/32.png) [@cliffharris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cliffharris)\
**Post date:** [June 27, 2009, 9:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-things-that-build-a-successful-relationship/30210/5 "2009-06-27T21:21:02Z")

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thank you for your answers