# The truth about phero use **URL:** \ **Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\ **Created:** [January 11, 2008, 10:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231 "2008-01-11T10:21:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![kidzest](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kidzest/32/1613_2.png) [@kidzest](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kidzest)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2008, 10:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/21 "2008-01-28T10:30:11Z")
Iโ€™ll remember not to sit outside in parks while using pheros.. Donโ€™t know what will come next..! Indoors will definitely be safer. ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2008, 11:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/22 "2008-01-28T11:11:28Z")
> [@kidzest](#): > > Iโ€™ll remember not to sit outside in parks while using pheros.. Donโ€™t know what will come next..! Indoors will definitely be safer. Gorgeous vampires, perhaps?๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![kidzest](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kidzest/32/1613_2.png) [@kidzest](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kidzest)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2008, 11:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/23 "2008-01-28T11:59:04Z")
Hmm.., i wander whoโ€™ll prick whoโ€ฆ!๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2008, 12:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/24 "2008-01-28T12:59:51Z")
> [@kidzest](#): > > Where i sat, theres no lighting. And the street lights were abt 20ft away from the bench. > > On the other occassion it was even dimmer, but still attracted bugs! > Possibly attracted by the pheros & not the scentโ€ฆ I never experienced this myself in dim places like a benchโ€ฆ ok a cockroach leaped on me once while I was kissing a girl, I was wearing pheromones ! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2008, 1:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/25 "2008-01-28T13:11:11Z")
> [@Phoenix](#): > > I never experienced this myself in dim places like a benchโ€ฆ ok a cockroach leaped on me once while I was kissing a girl, I was wearing pheromones ! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Once a female friend was sleeping in my room, then suddenly she screamed and said thereโ€™s a cockroach, but I didnโ€™t see any. And I was not wearing anything!!๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2008, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/26 "2008-01-28T13:13:30Z")
> [@Mohammad\_Shah](#): > > Once a female friend was sleeping in my room, then suddenly she screamed and said thereโ€™s a cockroach, but I didnโ€™t see any. And I was not wearing anything!!๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ you were naked? or just without pheromones? ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2008, 12:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/27 "2008-01-29T00:26:55Z")
> [@Phoenix](#): > > you were naked? or just without pheromones? ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ โ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2008, 8:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/28 "2008-01-29T08:59:04Z")
> [@Mohammad\_Shah](#): > > โ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Sorry.. I had to ask.. ๐Ÿ†’ I had just watched a James Bond movie.. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2008, 9:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/29 "2008-01-29T09:24:52Z")
> [@Phoenix](#): > > Sorry.. I had to ask.. ๐Ÿ†’ > I had just watched a James Bond movie.. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Actually, when she went to bed she was fully clothed, but when she woke up, she was naked!๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2008, 12:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/30 "2008-01-29T12:41:52Z")
> [@Mohammad\_Shah](#): > > Actually, when she went to bed she was fully clothed, but when she woke up, she was naked!๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ oops! I wonder how that happened! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2008, 1:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/31 "2008-01-29T13:45:24Z")
> [@desert\_rose](#): > > Hi bosshank, > It feels so good to read Iโ€™m not the only one that doesnโ€™t fully get it the first time using them. Iโ€™ve only been using pheremones for just over a week and I love them its sure nice to really come to understand them more and more too though ๐Ÿ™‚ > > Iโ€™ve been reading alot about this lately how congruency is so important and its really starting to make more and more sense to me now more than ever. I got lucky and began with instant female magic and it happened to fit well with my natural personality and so I was being congruent and I didnโ€™t even know it, if I had tried another product though like say alpha or something I donโ€™t even wanna imagine what would have happened!!! lol!! Iโ€™m a really soft sensitive emotional person and somewhat weak and nervous and timid far far from the alpha type and theres no way I could really be congruent with that persona > > Iโ€™m starting to understand more and more everyday, Iโ€™m sure glad it didnโ€™t take me a whole bottle to figure it out!!! lol!! > > Iโ€™m planning to try instant shine instant openess and instant honesty next and I wanna test them in remote places maybe out of town or something just to make sure they flow well with me before I use them around here where things really matter, just to be on the safe side, I got lucky so far female magic works so well for me ๐Ÿ™‚ I donโ€™t wanna push my luck though in case any of the others arenโ€™t so successful. > > Thanks for this post ๐Ÿ™‚ it really helped me feel better, I felt like I was the only one that ever had trouble with this, I sent you rep points ๐Ÿ™‚ I am glad the comment made you feel a little better about your intial experimenting with the products. Everyone has ups and downs when they first start until they figure out what works or does not work for them. And what they need to do (the congruency thing) to make the pheromones work for them. I think the big thing is for people who are naturally shy is to learn to come out of their shells either socially or at work. That is the only way they are going to really meet and get to understand and know people or at work to lead and take charge. A good part of leadership is understanding people, personalities and how to motivate each type of personality to reach higher. IO and IH are great products. But again remember - you have to create social interaction in order to take advantage of their effects and the social edge they will give you. Good luck with your experimenting. Please keep us updated. And thanks for the rep points! ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2008, 11:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/32 "2008-01-29T23:54:28Z")
> [@Phoenix](#): > > oops! I wonder how that happened! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ โ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ๐Ÿ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![desert\_rose](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/8c91f0/32.png) [@desert\_rose](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desert_rose)\ **Post date:** [February 6, 2008, 12:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231/33 "2008-02-06T12:03:46Z")
Hi bosshank, Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚ Thats true about social interaction. Iโ€™ve tried instant openess a few times now too and it seems to work really well, it seems to need the right kind of social setting though for really good success. I found using it around closer friends or anyone I really wanted to get to know more works very well and when I used it with my few friends it really seemed to bring more closeness with everyone, only thing is it seems to draw in other guys to me as much if not more than it does women and well I donโ€™t always do as good with conversation past few minutes or so with most guys cause most stuff they talk about donโ€™t interest me in the least they would talk about superbowl or tools n stuff or something else they like that makes me feel sick to even talk about and I burn out on the conversation and often annoy them too โ˜น With women I donโ€™t really have that problem its so easy to just talk for hours as long as I donโ€™t talk their ear off too much!!! lol!! theyโ€™re alot easier for me to talk to and relate to and they like the kinds of things I like, with most guys if I make the mistake of talking about things I really do like they all look at me funny like Iโ€™m too well not very masculine so I can never be open with them and still feel comfortable around them, its easy to talk to women though cause theyโ€™re more understanding and donโ€™t seem to mind if Iโ€™m too soft or less macho like than normal guys and we can usually talk about almost anything. I remember when I was younger late teens early twenties I had a few friends that were girls they always commented how overly easy I was to talk to and comfortable to be around, of course there was no attraction physically(actually there may have been once I think guys picking on me so much in front of her killed it though) still they were nice friends and we had good times together ๐Ÿ™‚ Iโ€™m planning to try using instant openess along with female magic in more mixed like crowds and certain situations soon, Iโ€™m hoping female magic will help buffer things more so guys donโ€™t talk to me as much as with straight openess and women hopefully talk to me a little more like when on female magic. Also Iโ€™m hoping it will help give me a more secure feeling since with just instant openess while self effects did feel good I felt a little more vulnerable in some atmospheres cause of feeling so open with everyone and with female magic I always feel more safe and comfortable and secure and relaxed its so wonderful ๐Ÿ™‚ Iโ€™m looking forward to trying them together real soon ๐Ÿ™‚ Of course female magics been my main staple so far and Iโ€™ll still often use it on its own as well, its really a wonderful product for me and is easy for me to be congruent with it cause it seems to just fit me naturally ๐Ÿ™‚ Iโ€™m planning to try instant shine and instant honesty next and I canโ€™t wait to see how they go for me also ๐Ÿ™‚ Thanks so much for posting such good info ๐Ÿ™‚ [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-truth-about-phero-use/8231.md?page=1)