# The Weight of a Man on Top **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 8, 2010, 3:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881 "2010-07-08T03:12:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 3:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/1 "2010-07-08T03:12:44Z")
I’ve heard from a couple of women lately that one great pleasure is the sensation of a man’s weight pressing down on them while lovemaking. Anyone with similar perspective? ---
**Author:** ![ami81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ccd318/32.png) [@ami81](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ami81)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/2 "2010-07-08T03:54:09Z")
Probably they have a mild asphyxiation fetish? ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 4:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/3 "2010-07-08T04:07:45Z")
Dude, where do YOU put your weight? ---
**Author:** ![ami81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ccd318/32.png) [@ami81](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ami81)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 5:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/4 "2010-07-08T05:42:09Z")
> [@Whitehall](#): > > Dude, where do YOU put your weight? On my wrist/elbows. No offense but dont tell me you release your full weight onto her without propping yourself up in one way or another? ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 2:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/5 "2010-07-08T14:07:09Z")
> [@ami81](#): > > On my wrist/elbows. > > No offense but don’t tell me you release your full weight onto her without propping yourself up in one way or another? Yes I do at times, by clasping my woman and pushing hard with the hips and torso - of course it varies with position. What I’m hearing from the ladies is they enjoy the feeling of my weight upon them. I’ve sensed this for years but was a bit surprised to hear it vocalized. ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/6 "2010-07-08T14:40:04Z")
I’m a big guy who has a tiny GF and she has told me how much she likes it when I let (some of) my weight press down on her. She said in a way it makes her feel safe like I’m enveloping her. Seems to turn her on. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/7 "2010-07-08T16:16:13Z")
I weigh 120kg/265lb and I’m afraid to do this in case she gets squashed. ---
**Author:** ![hillke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/7bcc69/32.png) [@hillke](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hillke)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 5:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/8 "2010-07-08T17:43:44Z")
I’ve heard this in a similar way I suppose. Not about being full weight, but then again I’m only 210lb. More about being hugged or squeezed real close and tight, think bearhug. ---
**Author:** ![ami81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ccd318/32.png) [@ami81](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ami81)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/9 "2010-07-08T23:52:39Z")
Hmmn maybe it has something to do with feeling enveloped like ur bak as a baby in e embryo? Curious that no woman has responded yet lol ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2010, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/10 "2010-07-09T03:35:32Z")
Well you knew I would have something to say right LOL 😉 There is a difference in controlled weight and dead weight. Controlled weight is when you use different muscle groups in your body to distribute the pressure of your weight to a specific region. Yes women like what Whitehall is referring to but its not his full weight its just increased pressure caused by the distribution of his weight. Now women tend to like when a guy uses his hands arms elbows on the bed on each side of her because of the intimacy and because its hard to come when you cant breathe. Even distributing your weight onto one elbow is good. It has nothing to do with being in the womb LOL We were in water in there. What we hate is the dead weight thing. Like right after you cum and have no muscle control at all. To heavy LOL You need to lean off to the side a little so we can breathe. Remember if you did it right we just came to so we are already trying to catch our breath. Plus leaning off to the side distributed that weight to the pelvic region again. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2010, 4:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-weight-of-a-man-on-top/39881/11 "2010-07-10T16:40:15Z")
Miz Tisha, I knew you would have important insights to share - thanks! The difference between dead weight and live weight is important. Of course, “weight” is is just gravitational force of mass, so “live weight” is the physical pressure the man uses. He can use his muscles AND his weight to achieve that. Women can also like to use their large muscle groups to press back. Tension in the muscles also aids and increases orgasm so resistance by the woman can help her too. I’ve been experimenting!