# Thinking about spreading IS to this girl I am talking to **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 13, 2009, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050 "2009-11-13T05:28:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2009, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/1 "2009-11-13T05:28:03Z")
I think she is nice person and a bit attractive, but I don’t find her too sexually attractive. I bought some [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and IS-b and would like to spray some on her. Will this make me feel sexually attractive toward her? The fact that I spray it on her might diminish the effect? Give it to her and ask her to spray it when she has a chance? ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2009, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/2 "2009-11-13T16:52:10Z")
If she is going to wear it you’ll HAVE TO tell her about phero’s, what they do etc…if you don’t she’ll read the bottle label & might draw her own incorrect conclusions as to what phero’s are all about & why you wanted her to use it. You definitively have to give her the bottle for her to use…How else would you do it? Just “discretely” spritz some on her? 🙄 I can guarantee you that wouldn’t work. She _WILL_ notice. How will you choose which is the right one for her btw? IS/a or IS/b? And what her sweet spot is? You can’t get someone to wear phero’s without their knowledge. Not only would you not know which phero or dose would work for them, but it would also be unethical. So, would IS/a or IS/b make you want her? Only if you already have some level of attraction there . If you just think she’s a really nice girl & you’d describe her attractiveness the way you would a sister or best friend…then no, it likely wouldn’t do much. ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 2:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/3 "2009-11-17T14:24:22Z")
Why do you want to become sexually attracted to her? How do you currently feel about her? ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/4 "2009-11-17T19:22:40Z")
just fill a water balloon with a dillute solution of IS/b and throw it at her - that should work 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 10:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/5 "2009-11-17T22:20:26Z")
> [@CoolKatDC](#): > > I think she is nice person and a bit attractive, but I don’t find her too sexually attractive. I bought some Instant Sexiness and IS-b and would like to spray some on her. Will this make me feel sexually attractive toward her? The fact that I spray it on her might diminish the effect? Give it to her and ask her to spray it when she has a chance? Wow, when I read your post at first I laughed and thought is this dude crazy. Let’s see, the best thing to do is have her wear them and tell her about [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) as suggested earlier to see if that works. You should remember that pheromones do not work on things that are not there. The fact that you are not sexually attractive to her might go deeper and pheromones may not be able to help. You did say that you find her a bit attractive so am really curious to see how this all works out. In my mind am thinking wouldn’t it be awesome if I could get a hold of this girl and just give her a complete make over ,turn her into a sexy vixen that has you at her feet begging for some. 😛 Ques. what type of girl is she, why aren’t you sexually attracted to her more and what type of girl is she? ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2009, 10:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/6 "2009-11-17T22:39:32Z")
Sounds like he’s desperate to have “someone”,just anyone, and she is the “most available”.😮 ---
**Author:** ![Nehve1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nehve1/32/959_2.png) [@Nehve1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nehve1)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 4:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/7 "2009-11-18T04:27:13Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > Sounds like he’s desperate to have “someone”,just anyone, and she is the “most available”.😮 Hmm…good call.:o ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 2:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/8 "2009-11-18T14:52:44Z")
water balloon ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/9 "2009-11-18T18:12:56Z")
You could also just buy some AMMO or IG and find a girl you really find attractive on that level too as a girlfriend, then be friends with this girl. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/10 "2009-11-18T23:04:44Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > Sounds like he’s desperate to have “someone”,just anyone, and she is the “most available”.😮 Lol…aww that wasn’t nice…but it sure was funny. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2009, 1:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/11 "2009-11-19T01:36:02Z")
> [@kelsey](#): > > Lol…aww that wasn’t nice…but it sure was funny. 😛 Funny?? I was serious, seems that way from reading what he wrote.🙄 ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2009, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/12 "2009-11-21T01:37:03Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > Funny?? I was serious, seems that way from reading what he wrote.🙄 Well, the thing is I don’t go around sleeping with random girls. I am not looking to hook up at a bar or anything. Moreover, I look for girls that are “clean” - clean as in, they never had an STD. It is not just her; also, there is this another girl that I find pretty too. However, I feel like they are not 9 or 10, and I don’t feel satisfied. For whatever reason, I want to try someone hot like Jessica Gomez or kim kardashian. ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2009, 1:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/13 "2009-11-21T01:39:11Z")
this is my story: I asked a pretty cute random girl living near me, if she would like to smell my perfume. She agreed, so I gave her a couple shots of IS-A. 20 minutes later, I ran into her again. I asked her about the smell and she said she liked it. Afterward, she let me smell her. It smelled REALLY nice and sweet on her. However, my perception of her did not change. I still found her pretty attractive, but she was not hot like Eva Longaria or anything… Any thoughts? ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2009, 7:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/14 "2009-11-21T07:09:16Z")
Good you reported what happened! You found out that pheros do something, but aren’t magic, and that is in line with what we all noticed with using pheros. You can be a one woman man and meet someone you are crazy about. And that may or may not have much to do with looks. It seems to me like you are not sure what you really want in a woman. To make love and to fall in love, you need to be enthusiastic about someone, not just “eh, she is kinda pretty” Ask yourself what, especially in terms of personality, would make you enthusiastic. Have you ever been in love? You can’t see on the outside if someone had an STD. My guess is that you filter out not just easy looking girls, but all the flirtatious women and end up dating girls you have no tension with. Without tension, things get boring and don’t get off the ground. Another reason could be your health. Are you vibrantly healthy, energetic and in prime state for reproduction? ---
**Author:** ![Nehve1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nehve1/32/959_2.png) [@Nehve1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nehve1)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2009, 4:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/15 "2009-11-22T04:30:00Z")
> [@CoolKatDC](#): > > However, my perception of her did not change. I still found her pretty attractive, but she was not hot like Eva Longaria or anything… Any thoughts? 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Beccah1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/beccah1/32/2380_2.png) [@Beccah1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Beccah1)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2009, 9:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thinking-about-spreading-is-to-this-girl-i-am-talking-to/34050/16 "2009-11-22T09:24:44Z")
I think it’s a nice gesture. I would love it if my husband bought me some! As for offending her, doesn’t everyone like free stuff 🙂 Maybe explain you use them, too. & you thought it would be fun to share them w/ friend, just for the heck of it. Doesn’t mean she’ll wear them though. I gave some to a platonic male friend. & I’m pretty sure they are sitting on a shelf somewhere,lol.