# This title is unique so you have to read it, new here! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 3, 2009, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/this-title-is-unique-so-you-have-to-read-it-new-here/29539 "2009-06-03T19:33:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![philledl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/4491bb/32.png) [@philledl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/philledl)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/this-title-is-unique-so-you-have-to-read-it-new-here/29539/1 "2009-06-03T19:33:47Z")
Sry just wanted to get your attention haha Alright so the basics first: 22, Male, Philly PA The not so basics: I tend to be the guy that always has the upper hand on most things in life.. a good education, career, great family and friends, and a future. I tend to see myself as alpha, but i can also be quiet, and that makes ppl confused. I want to get even more out of my shell and see to what heights i can take myself. Used to be really shy and introverted but came a long way since i was younger. I want to see if i can now get the upper hand in the social circle. Although i must admit, im really skeptical about it all. Im a person of science, but with [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) there is so much crap on the internet and so many questions that I feel overwhelmed and dont know where to start. I figured i try with the basics, like the great snook has preached. I bought A314, and to go bottles of Ammo, shine, honesty, and tuth. I want to see if i can see improvements in relationships of family, friends, workers and yes possible lovers. Sry but all guys want to know if this stuff can really break the ice and do the trick to get the hotties lol. Its been two days, i tried A314 and a little bit of the shine by themselves. I must admit i feel more alpha and different, calmer and more focused then usual, but then again what if this is all placebo effects? ☹ Im trying to be disciplined and try all the products on their own for awhile but patience is something i wasnt gifted with haha. Is there an Instant for that? lol The questions: 1. How far/close do you have to be for pheromones to really take affect? i think i seen hits but im not sure if its coincidental. 2. What would work best to change a current relationship? Meaning how can i get out of “the friend zone”? Honestly it would be great to meet new ppl, but sometimes you cant get over the ones right in front of you ☹ And the greeting 🙂 Enough about me I guess! Im really excited to be here and to personally share my encounters with others here who are willing to be friendly! Hello everyone from beautiful/stinky Philadelphia! LOL Sincerely, Philledl ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/this-title-is-unique-so-you-have-to-read-it-new-here/29539/2 "2009-06-03T19:42:25Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Another user from Philly! Well I am not from there but several users are or from the immediate environs. I looks like you have a pretty good spread of products. Congrats! As far as the effects, give it some time. A314 can be one of the trickiest to work with. It will probably be easier to see strong results with the IH. How far away they are to work depends on conditions. Outside - very very close. Inside - it can depend on which way the air conditioning is blowing. Best effective is 6 feet or so although a good scent trail can go much further. To get out of the friend zone is a common question but one of the toughest things to do. The real work for that, like everything else, is going to be up to you. As far as what pheros - I would work the IH and IShine. Pull her in emotionally closer to you. Trying to force the issue with TUTH would most likely backfire if she is not ready for that. Hope this helps. ---
**Author:** ![DanMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e495f1/32.png) [@DanMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DanMan)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 7:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/this-title-is-unique-so-you-have-to-read-it-new-here/29539/3 "2009-06-03T19:48:48Z")
Hey There, Welcome to the forum! It’s good to see that you’ve been doing your own research already. I’ll keep an eye out for your reports. I’m probably not the best person to answer your questions but I’m sure somebody will cover them all soon. Good Luck with it all! P.S. The title did grab me, good work! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 8:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/this-title-is-unique-so-you-have-to-read-it-new-here/29539/4 "2009-06-03T20:18:14Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk philledl! I think you have a good selection of pheromones so far. Just remember that pheromones only 10% of the work and it is not magic so it brings out what is already there. 🙂 To get results in the different areas in your life it all depends on what results you want from each group and testing the pheromones one by one to get the feel of it does help. Good times, we are all guilty of being impatient in that area. To do the trick with the ladies as you so put it I would use Ammunition, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and the Instant Shine. The Instant Shine will make them want to be around you more, the honesty will make the ladies feel more around you and the Ammo gives of a sexual vibe. A sexual vibe not to strong so as to turn them of. Being skeptical is healthy and seeing that you are, the more you test these products out and see results you will see that they do work and there is a science to it all. I agree with Bosshank on how close you have to be and his comment on getting out of the friends zone. Being in the friends zone indicates that the woman sees you as a non-sexual entity and so we need to change her mind set of that. Products like TUTH and Instant Jerk usually do the trick. **Your GC is on it’s way!** ---
**Author:** ![DanMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e495f1/32.png) [@DanMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DanMan)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 8:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/this-title-is-unique-so-you-have-to-read-it-new-here/29539/5 "2009-06-03T20:23:09Z")
It’s good to know the average ranges required I had a rough idea from my own use but it’s nice to get clarification from other users. Even I’m learning here, cheers for probing philledl 😛 ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/this-title-is-unique-so-you-have-to-read-it-new-here/29539/6 "2009-06-03T20:59:43Z")
Hi Philled I wound just like to welcome you the the forums. Looks like you already have alot of great sugesstions and advice from the other members. I’m still learning and hopefully learn something from your reports. Chris