# Thought on this mix for my first date. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 5, 2009, 5:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839 "2009-11-05T05:49:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![BMasters87](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmasters87/32/2048_2.png) [@BMasters87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BMasters87)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 5:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839/1 "2009-11-05T05:49:10Z")
Okay, here is the deal: She is a very sexual person, seems outgoing and fun. Best part is she came to me for the date, so she wants to go out with me and have some fun. I try to be outgoing, can hold back sometimes to ‘play it safe’. She is 21, I am 22. She had some big downers happen to her recently, one with family and one with a relationship. But she seems fine about losing that relationship. We are planning to go out to eat at a restaurant and then we are going to see Saw 5… or 6, whichever one is in the movies, I lost count lol. Now I am looking for a LTR with this girl. But it’s not only our first date, we never really met. Our friend is hooking us up but she still came to me. Anyway, my general choice mix is the following: A314 - 2 drops [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) - 4 sprays Instant Shine - 2 sprays P83 - 1 spray MAYBE Ammo - 1 spray What do you guys think? I’m going for a chatty vibe, I want conversation to flow easily and within the midst of the conversation I want her to get the vibe that I am more then just a friend, and I am hoping P83 along with Ammo will do that. A314 is just my initial dose. My arsenal of pheros include: A314 Ammunition Instant Openness Instant Shine Turn Up The Heat Instant Honesty To Go Spaceland To Go Come Talk To Me 2 To Go P83 If anyone has any better recommendations, feel free to throw in your opinions. I’m really sweating this one guys, she is very gorgeous and I’m hoping to be up to her standards. ---
**Author:** ![rhuang22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rhuang22/32/636_2.png) [@rhuang22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rhuang22)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839/2 "2009-11-05T06:31:04Z")
I would add IH in the mix. For obvious reasons. ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 6:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839/3 "2009-11-05T06:43:20Z")
Instant Shine 2 sprays. [Turn Up The Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) 3 sprays. [Come Talk To Me](https://a314.com/product/come-talk-to-me-cttm/) 2 To Go 2 sprays [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) 3 sprays. You arent trying to get this girl to give you a raise at your job so no need for A314. First date means you need to bring the attraction. Shine- she’ll feel great around you. TUTH- she’ll be desiring you. CTTM- she will be chatting a storm. this replaces both IH and IO. P83- serious kino (touching). great for first dates when combined with the rest of the formula. you’ll do well with that mix. good luck buddy. ---
**Author:** ![BMasters87](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmasters87/32/2048_2.png) [@BMasters87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BMasters87)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 6:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839/4 "2009-11-05T06:51:51Z")
> [@Mco-gnv](#): > > Instant Shine 2 sprays. > [Turn Up The Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) 3 sprays. > Come Talk To Me 2 To Go 2 sprays > [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) 3 sprays. > > You arent trying to get this girl to give you a raise at your job so no need for A314. First date means you need to bring the attraction. > > Shine- she’ll feel great around you. > TUTH- she’ll be desiring you. > CTTM- she will be chatting a storm. this replaces both IH and IO. > P83- serious kino (touching). great for first dates when combined with the rest of the formula. you’ll do well with that mix. good luck buddy. I must say, that makes great sense! I will use this mix unless someone has any better recommendations. But definitely, this sounds superb and exactly what I need =) thanks. EDIT: Do I really need TUTH 3 sprays though? wouldn’t that be a little TOO much? I hear even 1 spray is a whole lot, perhaps one spray on the upper chest under the shirt? ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 7:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839/5 "2009-11-05T07:08:42Z")
> [@BMasters87](#): > > I must say, that makes great sense! I will use this mix unless someone has any better recommendations. > > But definitely, this sounds superb and exactly what I need =) thanks. > > EDIT: Do I really need TUTH 3 sprays though? wouldn’t that be a little TOO much? I hear even 1 spray is a whole lot, perhaps one spray on the upper chest under the shirt? I’d say you’d be safe to go with 2 sprays of TUTH because of the buffering aspect of the CTTM and the Shine. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 8:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839/6 "2009-11-05T08:58:09Z")
This is what I would go with, so just giving you another idea. Two sprays of AMMO, one spray of TUTH (or one of AMMO and two of TUTH,) two sprays of Spaceland, four sprays of IS if it’s in x1 or 2 of IS if it’s in x2, some P83 for added punch, and two to four sprays of IH depending on what strength it is. The socials in this mix should be enough to buffer the -none in this without slaying the positive -none effects too much. The added IH will increase comfort, trust, and a feeling of well being along with the IS. The two sprays of Spaceland equaling 100 mcg of Alpha Androstenol should be enough to buffer the -none, add approachability, and conversation flow. The P83 should add that extra punch to the -none and give it that “velcro effect” seen with P83. You can probably even get away with one drop of A314. A314 seems too business for some, but for me it really gives off a romantic vibe when buffered well, and/or at low doses. I know A314 has this “business man” spotlight to it, but it’s really much more than that as it can also give off the image of you being confident and a possibly well provider (just don’t over do it as balance is key.) 🙂 Reason why I went with IO and IH instead of CTTM 2 is because IO and IH has a bit of each other in both products but it also has those “steering” [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) that push them to be more “IO” and “IH” which for _me_ I feel works better. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 5:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839/7 "2009-11-05T17:41:42Z")
The thing to remember BMasters87 is that you should stick with the mix that has worked for you in the past to get you the date in the first place. I had a mix really throw me off once. I got the date, changed it up, by mistake, and the next thing you know there was no second date. ☹ The next thing is to keep experimenting like you have been. You’re doing great and keeping the momentum going includes using different combos often. I like the idea of what you have put together though. Please make sure you report back on how it goes. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2009, 7:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thought-on-this-mix-for-my-first-date/33839/8 "2009-11-05T19:02:54Z")
True too! > [@Steve](#): > > The thing to remember BMasters87 is that you should stick with the mix that has worked for you in the past to get you the date in the first place. I had a mix really throw me off once. I got the date, changed it up, by mistake, and the next thing you know there was no second date. ☹ > > The next thing is to keep experimenting like you have been. You’re doing great and keeping the momentum going includes using different combos often. I like the idea of what you have put together though. Please make sure you report back on how it goes.