# Thoughts from a Pervert- The Journal **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Journals\ **Created:** [March 24, 2014, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458 "2014-03-24T02:30:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2014, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/41 "2014-04-29T02:09:21Z")
Hi LS, Don’t sweat how many sprays it takes, just go with what is working. It seems you are getting good results at your current levels, but if you want, roll with what you got, and ramp up accordingly , with the dosage you have on hand. Classic testing technique. Take note if at a certain dose you get positive effects. Then when you reorder, order an appropriate dose to match the optimal effects. Or just order the higher dose and keep the lower dose for micro steering. Or..just wing it. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2014, 12:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/42 "2014-05-01T00:22:44Z")
A reminder that you have not yet redeemed your coupon for three wishes. ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2014, 3:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/43 "2014-05-01T03:54:10Z")
P74 does not work on the grumpy Does anyone else notice that targets are not as responsive to mixes (same quantity/dose/sprays) on subsequent dates?! The first time it’s like heaven- exactly what you want- and the next time- not so much, almost as if you’re not wearing products at all! WTF. 10 mcg p74 3 sprays MX274 Dinner date with the doctor Jeans, sweater, boots, (it’s pouring over here!) Okay both of us had long days with a bunch of patients and we were both pretty miserable/needed to get the F out of clinic. We could not wait until the weekend to see each other so we decided to meet up last night. We were also starving. I could not make him laugh, loosen up, smile, or flirt with me! I think I’m also one of those annoying girls that pushes the topic instead of letting it go which exacerbates it even more, “The day is over! let it go- enjoy the night with me” bad move! He wasn’t exactly grumpy so to speak, and he did feel bad for not being as attentive, but he just didn’t feel present. He did discuss a lot of the same things that made me happy last time and my brilliant mind was able to turn him on (geeks love another geek and he gushed a couple times about my intelligence). The dinner was actually really lovely and the whole night was a success so I shouldn’t be complaining, but it’s just a little disappointing when you see results one day and nothing the next. Him sleeping over was eerily reminiscent of us living together. He liked watching me wash dishes, he appreciated me hanging up his clothes away from the dog and without getting wrinkles, getting him a towel for the morning, him getting dressed for work before me- it was adorable. But we barely made out. He did take his pants off this time to sleep (he left ALL his clothes on the first time) and I was totally being a creep and tried to cop a feel to see what I’m working with while he was asleep. Nice guys have little wieners and I just need to be mentally prepared for that disappointment before it goes too far. Let’s just say, we are all hoping he is a grower. He did tell me what a great time he had and how much he wants to see me again so it’s not like I did anything to ruin it. hmmphf. Le’sigh. Monesmademedoit my three wishes: 1. make all the boys I like, like me back, just enough to come over and do me right when I really want them to or attend crazy parties with me. 2. Find me a successful, tall, handsome hubby with a huge man stick who wants to BONE all the time. Oh and thinks I’m AWESOME. 3. Teach me how to squirt. I’ve watched all those videos on the internet. no luck. ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 1, 2014, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/44 "2014-05-01T17:58:04Z")
> [@LadyScientist](#): > > 1. Teach me how to squirt. I’ve watched all those videos on the internet. no luck. I’ve had no luck either. 🙄 P78 is one that does seem to be horn dog for men and women both…_if you use enough_. How 'bout a book instead. [Amazon.com: Uncovered: 20 Hints for Men From a Bisexual Woman eBook: Andrea Roberts: Kindle Store](http://www.amazon.com/Uncovered-Hints-From-Bisexual-Woman-ebook/dp/B006VA9EVE) Get yourself some TAF as well. Colleagues will marvel at your insomniac stamina. Then some P104 for downtime. People always asked me if I’m _holding_ with that juice on. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2014, 5:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/45 "2014-05-03T05:47:25Z")
p74 is working too well on me 3 sprays MX274 1 spray IS/A Short dress, wedge pumps Going to a doctor fundraiser event at a bar – The best looking Dr in our program approaches me first. I’ve always had a crush on him but he started dated another doc in our clinic and they’ve been together for a few years. They just broke up 2 weeks ago. He says “Wow you look really great, can I say that? Is that ok? You look, like REALLY good tonight” and then is literally my tail the entire night. Does not leave my side, tells me when he is going and when he’ll be back etc. – One of the brand new supervisors pulls me aside and confronts me that he actually knows me from a few years ago. I panic because I keep my professional and party life completely separate. He reassures me he won’t blow my cover but I remember that he remembers me because he was crushing on me then, the first time we met. He is being inappropriate but is kinda like that with all the girls so no biggie there. – When introducing my outside friends to a new group, I ignored introducing myself to a guy who was clearly deeply hurt. I didn’t realize I did this, apologized “oh sorry were you trying to meet me too?” , him, “yeah I would love to meet you” then more flirting. – A friend of the higher ups is really tall and extremely good looking but I’m “below” them and can’t really talk to them. So I’m talking to a few of the girl docs near them when he makes conversation with me. Turns out he’s not a Dr at all and we actually have great convo, good eye contact, he asks me for my number (wow in front of my bosses, ballsy!!) but haven’t heard him from him yet. damn ☹ The really gorgeous Man Candy from my all night sexathon Sat night said he would try to attend but does not. I call him to tell him we are all leaving and he asks if I still want to get to get together. So he agrees to come over WOOOO HOOO. I want to keep him. I add: 15 mcg [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) 2 sprays IS/A Dear lord this man is so fucking beautiful I want to eat him alive. I ask him if he is the kinda guy that can’t respect me now because of how we spent our first night together and he reassures me he thinks it’s cool that I felt comfortable with him to have fun with him in such a sexual way. – pre and post sex pillow talk is about marriage, babies, our salaries, what cities we want to live in, our families, what kind of people we want to spend our lives with, our core values-- HOLY HELL. This dichotomy between drugs/fucking with LTR compatibility interviews is really strange. (btw I need to start lying to boys- they all want so many goddarn children!! I don’t want any even though I’d be an incredible mother. I want to make money, travel, publish, give lectures, fly first class, spend all my money on myself, my sexy hubby, and party) – He says he wants to see me again this weekend (WOOO HOOO!) but I’m celebrating my birthday prematurely so not sure if I actually will. Plus, maybe he crossed me off the list when I said I’d only consider children with a man I really loved. – okay but seriously, I’m smitten. This is annoying. Twice in one week, both guys both times with p74?! NOT a coincidence. The boys need to fall in love with me, I’m not the one that needs to be crazy about them! I need to keep my cool! And I usually can- this is very uncharacteristic of me and I hate it. It’s making me feel like a middle school tween writing our names in hearts on my binder. – as long as they are obsessing over me like I am about them (seriously cannot get them out of my mind, feeling EXTREMELY pathetic) then this is fine. But I’m extremely anxious, worrying that they are not going to call or see me, blah blah blah. This is the type of bullshit that, I, LS, NEVER worries about. MAKE IT STOP. For the love of the phero gods PLEASE. over it. Random story I forgot to tell: A few weekends ago Wasted- basically on the verge of blacking out from drinking (my friends rage) The 2 pump-wonder well-endowed DJ wants to come over and I don’t resist because I want him to pay for our cab (I’m so LAME!) and make sure I get home ok (not as lame). I spray 7.5 mcg Mol C to neck/chest/cleavage and we smoke a huge blunt. He convinces me that he can last longer if he gets really high. I know I’m going to fall asleep the second my head hits the pillow. I basically don’t remember the sex-session and according to him, I came twice. TWICE. He very well could be making this up because he knows I’m not that into him, but it’s also not completely unreasonable because he has always been able to make me climax just not with his man-stick. But I obviously had really good Os because he had the need to text me about it the next day and I told him I didn’t remember. (he was NOT happy about that). Sooo I take back what I said about mol C not being weed/booze friendly. Unless he is lying. Apparently blacked out me can climax but really wasted me cannot. huh? ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2014, 8:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/46 "2014-05-04T20:36:58Z")
You fallouted yourself! This effect goes back in reports to 2006 with [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) alone. Never heard of it being entirely self effects. When guys wear this, it has this effect on women (sometimes…even by itself). It can also attract males–a downside. Androtics once made Lust After Me and MX216. LPMP makes a product called Like A M\*\*\*\*\* which is also alpha nol and EOW cops. Basically, MX216 was cops, alpha nol and TAL, supposedly. I think straight TAL + Like A M. would pack a punch. However, lacking a vag. myself, perhaps one of the female users, Brian or Mick. may have some feedback. There really is no way to predict in advance whether TAL or TAH would work best. You have to test them. They are too subjective. [Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258) > [@MX216 = sweet & sexy sociability](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mx216-sweet-sexy-sociability/3777): > > I was the lucky recipient of some of Androtics’ last stash of MX216 (coconut scent packet) and I’ve been doing some testing with it over the last couple of weeks. For me, this is a really lovely social mix that turns me into everyone’s sexy and charming best friend. Some random observations/reports: friends having NO reservations telling me how sexy/hot they think I am. Giving me LOTS of compliments (men and women) and there being not a stitch of discomfort from either party. Could this be t… > [@Mx216 is out of production: where is Dolly's recipe for it?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mx216/25205/2): > > Now, where would you be without me wink Alpha nol is supposedly very effective in female attraction mixes. But again we have so few reports of men directly smelling their women. This lack of feedback from married men sadly limits our ability to craft more effective mixes for ladies to seduce hunk doctors with big dicks. Androtics got cranked up with really good mixes for women this year, and everything has to be put on hold now pending FedEx. What can you do? [Instant Sexiness vs Lust after me](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-vs-lust-after-me/83) ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 5:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/47 "2014-05-05T05:14:15Z")
Mol C is by far my most favorite thing ever 1.875 mcg p78 (15 sprays total in my hair post hairspray. I thought that was a good location for that quantity, I have big thick hair- plus the alcohol in the hair spray made a primer/attractant on the surface of my hair. I was willing to reduce diffusion power for staying power, well that was my logic feel free to discuss) 3 sprays MX 274 chest 2 sprays IS/A I celebrated my birthday yesterday for over 15 hours and then basically ran away from it. How does one actually get lost at her own birthday party? Well you just give up on your phone, throw your hands in the air, and say FUCK THIS- I’M OUT. and disappear. POOF. Just like that. Then apparently you meet the cowboy fantasy boy you’ve imagined in your head your whole life. So seriously these May birthdays man- I’m telling you- the planets were crazy aligned for me this week, regarding the ridiculous level and quality of men I have met in less than 7 days. That’s strange as hell, years and years with nothing impressive and bam- out of nowhere. 3 for 3. So his group of friends adopted me after I ditched mine and we stayed up all night partying like rock stars. The boy is nearly too good to be true so I asked what his mental health status (really?? yes. really) and I kept trying to rule out invisible diseases while he spoke (Aspergers popped in mind at one point but crossed that off pretty fast). I have a love theory- that if you act like you’re in love, you give off the vibe that you’re lovable and loving, and people just naturally love you back and are drawn to you because that love energy is so vibrant (wow that’s the most hippie shit I’ve ever said) So maybe the p74 enhanced this “smitten kitten” bullshit from the boys previously and therefore I attracted a really lovey dovey person. BC I wasn’t wearing p74 during my encounter with fantasy boy but it felt like it- on both ends. (or if I put it on it was a dream state and I can’t really remember) Brunch me and fantasy 7.5 mcg Mol C 2 sprays IS/A Over brunch we connect big time. I have to be very careful not to crush this guy. He has never had a gf and his number is pretty shockingly low. He talks about how he’s been waiting to meet a girl like me and the gross/embarrassing/ truth is that I believe him. He is the male opposite of me in terms of sexual experience but because we were so emotionally connected (and chemically)- I had the most mind blowing sex of my life. It helps that he’s built like a manly man with a huge cock. I came harder and harder every time, times 3. That is def a record with a new boy. and honestly for all the money I spend on substances to have hot sex, I really should just use the C. I kept asking him “are you sure we are not high? think long and hard” because it felt like what under the influence sex is supposed to feel like. Don’t be surprised if the next post is that I’m probably in an unspoken relationship with this guy because I’m 100% sure he would fall apart if I hooked up with anyone else now. Dinner date tomorrow pending. ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2014, 5:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/48 "2014-05-05T17:40:13Z")
Somebody is in love… 🙂 I truly believe that we have a chemical “lock and keyset” and when you meet the key to your lock, it clicks. You are compatible. You have “chemistry”. Now as you know there are lots of other variables in a suitable mate, but when this happens, its a good start. It also sounds a bit like “opposites attract” on this guy with you. Outgoing/introvert. Sexually experienced/sexual novice. Etc. Glad for you. Hope it works out. ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2014, 3:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/49 "2014-05-06T03:31:47Z")
F U CP, I’m not in love. I refuse Okay so before I freak myself out and run away before anyone has a chance to get close to me, let’s talk about the facts. It’s dangerous to fall in love at this age because the next thing you know, you’re married and you’re not sure if the life you’re leading is the life you want. This isn’t going to end well for him. Wise women always say to find a man who loves you more than you love him, since two people never love each other the same way, you need to have the upper hand. This is just about the safest guy to fall for- he would be the perfect husband, almost disgustingly romantically cute. And he’s got the checklist down cold- I’m not unreasonable but I sure as hell have one lengthy checklist. So why am I being ONE GIANT WUSSY?! Well first, he must have some sort of social anxiety disorder to have really made it this far without a gf (he’s 23, that magic age of young boys that love me) But I’m not seeing any signs of this. YET. That’s the thing with the crazies, they hide REALLY WELL. and 23 is about the age of my first love I met in college and he had never had a gf yet either- oh RIGHT. he was DEF CRAZY. Second, the things you THINK you want are rarely the things you actually want. Every time I build a man in my head of certain traits or characteristics that I admire and look for, then when I meet someone with those things- it’s not enough to carry the chemistry/attraction. It makes me question my desires all together. It’s almost like the novelty of the person actually existing ruins the fantasy. wow I’m disturbed. I’ll look for anything to ruin a good thing! (I even asked if he had a criminal record, who the fuck do I think I am? Can’t I trust that there are just normal happy healthy loving Americans with good morals? NO.) So I decide not to use any products on him today for our dinner date. I’m annoyingly quiet and tired (I was not feeling physically well earlier). This confirms that lively upbeat persona I notice with the MX274, easy to laugh, joke, playful. Those are personality traits I love about myself. I’m also not feeling connected to him- I’m being crazy judgey in my head, noticing I don’t like his hair or the way he talks sometimes, or his goofy grin when he’s smiling at me in bed. But the chemistry can’t be argued- we couldn’t take our hands off each other the second he walked in the door and it took me whining about how hungry I was to get us out of bed). The sex is just as incredible but that X-T-C feeling produced by Mol C is FOR REAL, bc It was def absent today (same guy, around the same time in my cycle, 1 drink in both times, so no other variable) Man, I really thought I outgrew this whole “run from something real because you can’t handle disappointment and no one will ever be good enough” thing. Luckily, I realized I was doing it and mentioned it to him: “just to be honest, I get freaked out easily and I have a tendency to run away from things that move too fast or get real too quickly” he panicked that he already did something wrong- he hadn’t, but I just wanted him to be prepared because I feel an immense pressure. Of course he was perfectly supportive and willing to do whatever I needed. He’s being so wonderful, that he’s making it really hard for me to fall into my old patterns. ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2014, 9:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/50 "2014-05-14T21:16:56Z")
male gay attention? 1.875 p78 3 sprays MX 274 1 spray to go IS/A Dress/pumps, Day 33 (it was a week late this month, super bloated, never felt more fat in my life!) – went to a show with a good friend and he peer pressured me into going to an underground party/rave type thing in China Town by buying my ticket without my consent. I have a shit ton of work to do this week so I reluctantly accepted. – this is the second time this combo (the only difference is the slightly more p78 with Is/A, I’ve been ignoring IS/A bc I like MX 274 better) has been getting gay guys to talk to me. This is confusing as hell because they are good looking guys who approach me, dance with me, make conversation, and then drop in the convo 10 minutes later about their “partner” or “boyfriend”-- I’m sorry how exactly am I supposed to know you WEREN’T hitting on me?! It makes me feel like a fool. Drunk bitches got broken gaydar don’t you know? This happened with 2 gay guys on 2 different nights, same combo. Aside from these situations, I have rarely been approached by gay guys. – 10 mcg Mol C did not work on me after 7 hrs of application. Weird that it peaks on me between 3-5 hrs and then disappears. (damnit I even planned ahead that time taking the time window into consideration! It would have been perfect but my friend from out of town showed up unannounced and interrupted. We had to politely excuse ourselves after a respectable amount of time, hence it was all gone) – I lost my Man Candy and favorite lover- they have officially stopped talking to me- the famous fade out. Damnit we are so hot in bed- can’t we just keep boinking? So glad it’s summer and the beauties are coming out to play. – Cowboy is in my hands like putty and all my friends know he’s going to need therapy when this is over because I’m probably already destroying him. He’s not the one, but I haven’t cut the cord yet. Maybe I’ll drop the no-baby-bomb so he runs on his own. Which, by the way, am I the only fucking person on the planet that does not want to reproduce!!! ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2014, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/51 "2014-05-15T00:40:25Z")
I think the 274 is getting you the gay male attention. ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2014, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/52 "2014-05-15T01:16:44Z")
> [@monesmadedoit](#): > > I think the 274 is getting you the gay male attention. why do you think that? well I’m not quitting it anytime soon- I love it. But the gay boys hogging up my attention has got to stop. And how dumb I feel after all those hair flips when I hear about their boyfriend and then figuring out a respectful way to the “I’m going to go find my friends” departure is not fun. Are you still in Miami? I’m going! ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2014, 2:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/53 "2014-05-15T02:00:51Z")
I think that MX had a good bit of [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) in it. It’s got a really gay vibe. More like bonds to everything within 6 ft. So, you have to be selective about who you wear that around. One can also reverse fallout, or start bonding to peeps who ordinarily would not be a first or even third choice. No, but I might be closer to St. Cloud at the end of May. I have friends in low places. ---
**Author:** ![Brian\_F](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/brian_f/32/1573_2.png) [@Brian\_F](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Brian_F)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2014, 2:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/54 "2014-05-15T02:30:21Z")
> [@LadyScientist](#): > > Maybe I’ll drop the no-baby-bomb so he runs on his own. Which, by the way, am I the only fucking person on the planet that does not want to reproduce?!?! It’s been my observation that most people your age in the US do **not** want to reproduce. Japan too. They’ve been suffering generational collapse for some years, maybe a decade now, as all the young people are enjoying their affluence or lack thereof (bad economy). Japan’s named this the “Satori Generation”. They don’t want cars or brand name handbags or luxury boots. To many of them, travel beyond the known and local is expensive and potentially dangerous. They work part-time jobs?because that is what they’ve been offered?and live at home long after they graduate. They’re not getting married or having kids. They’re not even sure if they want to be in romantic relationships. Why? Too much hassle. Oh, and too expensive. **Read more:** [https://www.adbusters.org/magazine/113/satori-generation.html](https://www.adbusters.org/magazine/113/satori-generation.html) Rolling Stone has recently touched upon this, too. (Edit: Ah shit, I thought I remembered something about not wanting kids in there too, but no.) Nevertheless, while young, straight Millennials may not be having more sex, they are certainly having it differently. The study cited above also found that today’s college students are significantly less likely to report having a regular sexual partner (77.1 percent versus 84.5 percent), while they’re more likely to report having sex casually with a friend or random partner. Having spent a year conducting research on the floor of a freshman dorm at Indiana University, Armstrong has seen this change in action. ?As much as I want to try to dispel the fiction that there is this relentless move toward promiscuity, that every single generation is more promiscuous than the last, which just isn’t true, I also think that the cultural change ? in terms of how people connect, the meanings of these connections, the gendered aspects of the connection, how these connections fit into the rest of their lives ? is still changing really fast. It looks like [young people] may be having less sex, less relationships, less commitment, but what they’re doing is more casual. We still don’t really have a handle on it all.? **Source** : [Millennials and Sex: A New Take on Dating, Marriage and Monogamy | Rolling Stone](http://www.rollingstone.com/feature/millennial-sexual-revolution-relationships-marriage) Other notes from the interwebs… While millennials are planning fewer children, other potential parents simply aren’t having them. A few years ago, while I was working on my book about my own struggles to work and raise a family, ?Maxed Out: American Moms on the Brink,? I half-jokingly asked what would happen if [we all went on strike](http://www.workingmomsbreak.com/2011/03/28/mommys-on-strike/)and refused to have babies. I’ve never heard of women actually taking to the streets with my suggested chants **(?Give us schedules that are FLEX or you get no procreative SEX!?).** Instead, without so much as a word, women (and men) around the world were silently making the decision not to have children. Birthrates in many countries in Europe and Asia were in steep decline at the time, and while the United States had held steady at a ?replacement level? rate of about 2.1 live births per woman, that appears to be changing. The [latest estimates](http://www.prb.org/Publications/Datasheets/2012/world-population-data-sheet/fact-sheet-us-population.aspx)suggest that we are currently below 1.9, a rate that’s potentially too low to sustain a relatively large number of retirees. ?Generation Child-Free? would not bode well for our economy. **Source** : Katrina Alcorn op-ed for NYT: [Millennials Want Children, But They're Not Planning on Them - The New York Times](http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2014/01/08/millennials-want-children-but-theyre-not-planning-on-them/?_php=true&_type=blogs&_r=0) LSci, you’re young and in charge of your body, in a restless, teeming city. Both you and your city are full of energy. Use it or lose it! There are so many lost and abandoned children floating around the world waiting for smart energetic ladies to someday adopt them. (Key word: someday) I, personally, wouldn’t agree with _my_ woman freezing her eggs or inseminating via petri dish: the outcomes don’t, at this time, look that great (autism or other developmental problems) against plain ole natural selection. There are always exceptions though, and I love exceptions. … But I’ve never been in the position of having to “freeze my eggs”, so I couldn’t speak of the frenzied last ditch emotional decision to “further my genetic material”! I personally believe that memetics can be stronger than genetics, and if you want to really live on in the next generation, you’ll rear your adopted child, biological child, younger sibling, students, so on, with your _memetic material_. The aggregation of everything you’ve learned and experienced, bestowed upon the feisty, full of energy firebomb you chose to wield the knowledge. So no, not wanting kids ain’t weird. Seems normal to me. ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2014, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/55 "2014-05-15T03:04:43Z")
> [@Brian\_F](#): > > LSci, you’re young and in charge of your body, in a restless, teeming city. Both you and your city are full of energy. Use it or lose it! There are so many lost and abandoned children floating around the world waiting for smart energetic ladies to someday adopt them. (Key word: someday) I, personally, wouldn’t agree with _my_ woman freezing her eggs or inseminating via petri dish: the outcomes don’t, at this time, look that great (autism or other developmental problems) against plain ole natural selection. There are always exceptions though, and I love exceptions. > > … But I’ve never been in the position of having to “freeze my eggs”, so I couldn’t speak of the frenzied last ditch emotional decision to “further my genetic material”! I personally believe that memetics can be stronger than genetics, and if you want to really live on in the next generation, you’ll rear your adopted child, biological child, younger sibling, students, so on, with your _memetic material_. The aggregation of everything you’ve learned and experienced, bestowed upon the feisty, full of energy firebomb you chose to wield the knowledge. > > So no, not wanting kids ain’t weird. Seems normal to me. Brian it’s so good to have you back here after all that Fed-ex drama! You have officially kept me from my research all night (don’t worry I thoroughly enjoyed it) It’s really refreshing to hear how similar we think! I have had this conversation many times when people insist that I will “change my mind” and will therefore be too old to have kids ( oh boo hoo hoo- It’s about time us women liberate ourselves from our own bodies and biological clocks already). I hate using this analogy, because people are not dogs, but I would never encourage a family to purchase a puppy from a puppy mill- not only because genetically they are so inbred that they have all sorts of genetic problems, but because they are creating a market that can’t be filled while existing ALREADY LIVING dogs are put to die in shelters every day because they don’t have homes. They are so many children on this planet that are already ALIVE that want homes and families- I could never justify bringing another human being into the planet just because it has MY genetic material. I understand that it’s a special bond two people create and it’s a beautiful thing to go through etc etc etc etc- but you can’t tell me that an adopted child with two parents don’t experience that same love and bond. Some step-parents are more like “real” parents to many people I know. My uncle was always more my “dad” to me. We don’t need to have the argument about nature vs nurture here-- because every well-educated person knows that they are so finely intertwined that they can’t be separated. Another thing- pregnancy is about risks of genetic disease and outcome- but with a living being, it’s not a risk, you can test them! You can know what you’re getting into. Take a trip to the East Coast- you will have one big shock. Dating in CA was so simple, I could share my views and what I wanted from the experience mostly without judgment, drama, and with understanding 95% of the time. Almost every guy I have dated here has been very explicit about wanting children and a family very soon, wanting a “good girl”, being wary of me because I’m “intimidating” or “sexually aggressive”, and have told me flat out they while they won’t commit to me, they expect me to commit to them. It’s outrageous. I even know men who won’t use protection and they don’t care because they just want children so badly! So- yes in this very weird kinda backwards, oddly conservative dating pool, I have to hide my sexual liberties and not talk about my non-traditional views on marriage and how I don’t want children- or they’ll scratch me off right away. Now, you’re probably wondering why I would want to waste my time with them in the first place? A) I have needs B) Competition in this city is fierce- every female is gorgeous, successful, fun, not necessarily smart but not dumb, and a total catch. The guys on the hand- not so much. The successful ones know that they are hard to come by and monopolizing the dating scene. They get away with extremely awful behavior. Can’t wait to move out of this city! ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2014, 5:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/56 "2014-05-16T17:20:16Z")
I am trying to come up with some sort of affordable test pack concept of alpha molecules dosed appropriately for women to tweak their primary signature. I have 1.5 mcg TAL just for this purpose. I know that I have small amounts of estrogens. Ditto women for T. I don’t have the placental mones, but I do have some estrogen metabolites. It always stunned me how ( **some** ) women thought Prince was hot stuff back in the day. And the Bieb. I think that look is at times favorable for casual flings, as it is still male (penis required for admission) but far from the fatherly provider vibe. You specifically aren’t looking for a father. Your signature needs to project and attract that but still have positive selfies. Update: Some feeback that an Alpha Female Pack (with some male mones perhaps in doses appropriate for women and acceptable fragrances ) may be possible. Hopefully this would be affordable and a stock item. No custom lab time. Just put it in the cart and it ships quickly. This would be to tweak the Instant Sexiness. It’s funny what guys respond to. I think I would go for P78, TAL (Instant Sexiness), [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/), P96. The female athletic types are perceived as butch. They aren’t all gay. And the physical prowess adds something, whereas some bodybuilders don’t seem feminine at all. Guy pecs and biceps on girls just don’t do it for me. ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2014, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/57 "2014-05-16T23:13:39Z")
You read my mind!! I was just going to ask you to just to tell me what to buy and what doses so I don’t fuck it up this time (assuming I’m sober when I make the purchase)–but I have to disagree with you about something. While I don’t want babies, I still want that urge to fuck someone uncontrollably- which is related to my body wanting to make babies with them. Humans got this far (civilized society) because of our cognitive control over evolutionary urges. I have child bearing hips and a great rack- I have the nurturing wisdom, patience, and loving capabilities that would make me a wonderful mother. Men see this and like this in me- but I CHOOSE not to reproduce. Similarly, the men I want are those that would provide great (theoretically) genes/ provider/ protector or whatever. They are big, strong, and alpha (smart, quick, versatile, clever, etc) but maybe they just don’t want kids either- not because they wouldn’t be great dads, but because they prefer the same lifestyle I’m looking for. – My point is, my mone signature doesn’t need to reflect that we are not a good baby-making match. That part (not wanting children) I believe is a conscience decision. The sexing on the other hand… that’s uncontrollable. and I love that part! so don’t change it. ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2014, 12:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/58 "2014-05-17T00:03:01Z")
[What pheromones would enhance respect for a woman?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-would-enhance-respect-for-a-woman/56731) I’d take a look at that. It’s in stock. No custom lab time, I don’t think. It was supposed to be awesome. I would think you could use a spray with [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). Depending on your ratios, you build a different vibe. I would much rather see women use this than A314 for men. Pheros have to be dimorphic. No endocrine-normal female is pumping out the quantities erone in A314. 10 mcg of TAL is a whopper for guys. Any guys. And I don’t think even gay guys should wear that much. It feels like being lovingly smushed under a pile of sorority sisters at a PJ party. Keep in mind that prergnancy often isn’t a rational choice. In countries where women are making this choice (Japan), the risk of negative population growth is real and serious. The Japanese girls just don’t want any pain-in-the-ass rugrats cramping their style. You are fighting the natural biological trend, swimming upstream. However, this isn’t impossible. Every female military officer is fighting a system that didn’t and doesn’t want them there. But, some succeed. As no-scalpel vasectomy has become cheaper and more common, a small number of never-married and greater number of divorced men are on the market. Certain men are posessive or jealous and some don’t want to be posessed. The man least likely to be posessive is least likely to be around, globetrotting here and there. I would conjecture the guy least likely to want kids is the least likely to pursue women. You’d have to stalk your prey. Women initiators run against the paradigm. Men are supposed to. But that is the typical, nuclear family (kids) role. Pursue woman, follow natures course, raise kids to maturity, become grandparents. I don’t use pheromones in that traditonal nuclear family strategy. My concepts aren’t applicable to 95%. It is an uphill battle, I will admit. I lay a reverse honey trap with yummy pheros to lure alpha females. Decent looks. Must be interesting. I will make one or two attempts to engage them. If unresponsive, I click “next.” To put this in perspective, prolly even at a hipster NYC club, only one or two such women would even be present. Catching them between BF’s is like watching the skies nightly for a meteor shower. It requires creating reverse alpha mixes, something really rare and in need of biological skill more so than typical mix testing. The man who gets snipped has made a decisive decision. He knows his priorities and personality. He has made a life choice. It can be reversed, but that contemplates a major lifestyle change. It’s like truck drivers. Tough to be a family man on the road all the time. When can you date? Couples usually the happiest team drivers. You are seeking someone who shares a uncommon but possible\* lifestyle choice\*. Tell me what products you seek and I will try to give you correct dosing. Let me put it this way: IG signals husband material. IJ signals F’ 'em and leave ‘em. Doesn’t even care much how many babies are left in the wake. Until child support really cramps the PUA action. Both signals are masculine and attractive. Most female mixes are the IG-type. A F’ Bunny-No-Baby girls mix is a tough one. I’ve looked at a few blends at other companies. Let me see if I can find something that makes sense. I will ask Brian to double check if the formulary makes sense as far as my putative guesses. The don’t ship on weekends, so any orders you place by about 8 AM PDT go into processing Monday. You aren’t exactly a cougar, but that mix might work. Leopard maybe. I forget what they call them. No slut shaming. ---
**Author:** ![LadyScientist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c57346/32.png) [@LadyScientist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LadyScientist)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2014, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/59 "2014-05-17T00:39:13Z")
I love you. For the record: I refuse to be called any cat until I have wrinkles-- except pussy. I’ll take that. Plus I don’t chase the babies! They find me! I would love an older man! ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2014, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458/60 "2014-05-17T21:27:13Z")
Here are some links to look at. 1/4 strength TUTH diluted with neroli perfumer’s alcohol is a reasonable and maybe useful choice. I think this is your basic TG. A 30-ish Clooney. Interesting. He’s got a 100%, 30-year contraceptive success rate. Married once. Active with no shortage of fertile women. No kids. [George Clooney - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Clooney#Relationships) What about this pattern doesn’t fit? Gay? I don’t think so. Snipped? Maybe. Shooting blanks? Maybe. I’d favor number 2. Great for PR but solves so many prenup and other issues in the media spotlight. A _strategic decision_ he may have made as his career took off with ER. What I would have done. TAH could make guys nuclear-family possessive. Whereas TUTH, I think, with TAL would be sexually posessive and slightly jealous/aggressive towards other men. The 135 and 300 alpha mixes…well…guys who are too posessive for alpha females just aren’t going for any headstrong ideas. The prototype gender role expects sexual and economic female diminutive status. Pregnant women are vulnerable. Rare is the man who will tolerate a frequent-flyer wife with absolute non-jealousy of the flings he worries she might have. Especially on extended trips with an announced high-sex-drive penchant. However, the fact Clooney was well cast in Up in the Air gives you some personality insight. He’s made his life’s choice. It won’t be baby daddy or house husband. [MX135: "I'm not your girlfriend, dude."](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mx135-im-not-your-girlfriend-dude/1154) > [@Are there separate men's and women's versions of Turn Up The Heat?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/14424): > > Hi. A while back I bought two bottles of ‘[Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/).’ I thought one was for men and one for women. But they don’t seem to have different labeling. Are there two versions of Turn Up The Heat, or just one? It seems like I bought one for my man (to turn me on) and one for me (to turn him on) but I just can’t remember now. Thanks so much! > [@Can women use Turn Up The Heat, and what exactly does it do for them?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24107): > > Can women still use Turn up the heat? and what exactly does it do? The OP descriptors of TAL and TAH are on target. > [@LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383): > > Hello people! For awhile now I have been wanting to compile your wonderful experiences for everyone, especially us newbies. I find myself constantly searching, searching, searching for your pearls of wisdom and thought - why not put some together on one page? I know there are other fantastics posts out there with the phero meanings, descriptions, and what they are designed for and what is in them, but this one only has direct, random quotes from all of you based on your own personal experienc… Now, if we can collect 2D:4D and waist/hip ratio correlations with self-selected TAL and TAH girls, so much guesswork could fade. One would think the Marilyn type W:H would favor TAH. I would like to see a password-protected forum for polling and biometric data where women can contribute in privacy. I’m looking for better-than-chance predictors of self-satisfaction scoring. Customer uses W:H scoring. Calculator says IS/B should work. It does. Higher first-order statisfaction, fewer customer service tickets. > [@Equivalent to A314 for Girls](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/equivalent-to-a314-for-girls/58318): > > A female friend of mine who is a senior marketing manager, has been contracting for in a company which seems to have quite a poisonous back stabbing culture which has eroded her confidence & self belief somewhat. She is now in interviews for new roles but is finding it difficult to believe in herself and put herself over to her best advantage. I wear A314 in all business meetings which always gives me a lift, I feel more confident & gets me respect from others in the meeting. I’m wondering if … I don’t know if Tisha’s post is correct. But the concept is reasonable. I would add haveing a 7.5 mcg spray of TAL on hand can make sure you aren’t over steered. IS/A is the base, but if adding diluted TUTH, MX135 or 300 makes it too butch, add on additional straight TAL to make sure the signature being sent is primarily feminine. I think the amount of erone and -enone in undiluted AMMO or A314 is too strong, too male and a girl wearing it who obviously looks like a girl…that mix would fail. It doesn’t compute to have a visual girl but an olfactory male sig. The alpha or male notes need to be minor in the mix. I will tell you that 12.5 mcg TAL on a guy–it takes a damned lot of TUTH or A314 to balance that. Like IJ + 4 drops A314. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458.md?page=2) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/thoughts-from-a-pervert-the-journal/61458.md?page=4)