# Tilt's Journal **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [July 31, 2011, 10:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tilts-journal/51547 "2011-07-31T22:24:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 39
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2011, 6:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tilts-journal/51547/39 "2011-11-28T18:19:45Z")
You know, tiltmaster, I had similar thoughts on mones when I first started. For me, I can see that we are all looking to influence others just by the clothes we wear and even the type of perfume and cologne we wear. Being able to interpret body language, NLP and other modalities are used for understanding others and getting an ‘edge’ over others. Mones are another tool in that social interaction with others. However, take a look at the posts on this thread where forum members discuss this and hopefully help you decide one way or another: > [@Pheromones, an ethical dilemma?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-an-ethical-dilemma/44315): > > I can’t help but have an increasing feeling that I’m doing something wrong when I wear pheros. I feel as though I’m wearing a mask, that I’m not being wholly myself when I put them on. More and more I just feel that I’m being selfish, that I want others to notice me more and give me more attention, and I’m willing to give up my authenticity to have that. I don’t know if I can do this anymore, I feel like people I have met while wearing phero’s haven’t seen the real me, somehow, that I’ve given o… --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tilts-journal/51547)._