# Time to get in the Game ;) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 22, 2013, 11:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/time-to-get-in-the-game/60292 "2013-10-22T11:25:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Bamxox](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/49beb7/32.png) [@Bamxox](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bamxox)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2013, 11:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/time-to-get-in-the-game/60292/1 "2013-10-22T11:25:56Z")
Hello Everyone! I’m Bam, I’m 22 years old and currently a student at a university in Canada. I am living in a residence with 40 other students (20 males, 20 females). My own bedroom, but common study room, rec room, and dining room. I myself am adventurous, but I tend to be shy. I was worried that people would be able to notice the difference that the pheromones will cause because we see each other so often, but I also have anxiety, which I will likely be going on medication for soon so people will likely notice a difference in how I act anyways. I don’t care! Recently I became involved with one of the guy’s here, and it has come to my attention that he is playing games with me. Soooo having known about this site, I decided I would give it a try and start playing some games of my own 😉 I like playing for keeps. I figure my residence is a great place to test some pheromones out and see if I get any hits! The ones I would like to try are: - Instant Honesty - [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) - Instant Shine (maybe?) - Instant Sexiness A or B I am not sure which I would be better off with regarding the Instant Sexiness A or B? I’m reading the thread that talks about the two, but any advice would be helpful 🙂 I want to be strong and confident in myself, but I don’t want to seem ditzy or for other girls to view me as catty or high competition. From what I’ve read neither will cause a poor reaction from other girls? And as for the Instant Shine or Instant Openness, what I hope to achieve is myself opening up and being able to speak more freely to people, I am less worried about others speaking freely to me but of course that would be a bonus too, if that were the case. I just don’t want to be ignored! (And if it helps my anxiety that would be awesome). Hope to get to know all of you on here! Bam xox ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2013, 11:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/time-to-get-in-the-game/60292/2 "2013-10-22T11:29:39Z")
Hello there! As for the Instant Shine, it’s my #1, I always keep 2 bottles in my reserves and wear it often. I find it draws me out of my shell and gets me engaging strangers more via hi’s or eye contact & smiles. You could try and self-effect with the [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) but you might find yourself talking to the point of annoying people. As far as the Instant Sexiness being male I’ve not made a point of learning the A/B differences but we’ve some wonderful ladies on here that can help you there. ---
**Author:** ![Bamxox](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/49beb7/32.png) [@Bamxox](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bamxox)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2013, 11:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/time-to-get-in-the-game/60292/3 "2013-10-22T11:39:26Z")
Thanks Ryanmercer! Yeah I definitely don’t want to become so chatty to the point that I annoy everyone, they’d probably think I was on drugs or something… Do you think that instant shine is more something for hanging out in a group or do you find it okay for hanging out with someone one-on-one? As for the IAs, I’ve read A is like Angelina tiger and B is like Marilyn kitten, and that I should start with the one that more suits my personality. I’d say kitten suits me more, but I kind of want to be a tiger. Perhaps I need both.. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2013, 7:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/time-to-get-in-the-game/60292/4 "2013-10-24T07:52:30Z")
Welcome Bamxox, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving [pheromones](https://a314.com/) a chance. Your gc was issued!