# to be a little girlier..?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-a-little-girlier/21024>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [October 8, 2008, 5:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-a-little-girlier/21024 "2008-10-08T05:55:24Z")\
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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [October 8, 2008, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-a-little-girlier/21024/6 "2008-10-08T19:13:34Z")

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> [@remmy](#):
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> _ **o no, i dont act butch or anything like that but some of the guys i know tend to be really.. sexist. and i just attack them verbally whereas the other girls wouldnt.** _ idno, its really not that big of a deal, im not socially awkward or anything like that. hm.. _ **i guess i meant sometimes i take offense to some comments really quickly so when i look back on it, if i held on just for one second, somebody else would’ve said something, u know?** _

Oh, I really didn’t think you were butch, baby…lol…and I know you’re not socially awkward. 🙂 I’m much the same way, quick on the trigger, and it’s hard for me to let these type of remarks go. You can say what you feel compelled to say, it’s _how_ you deliever it that’s important. You can still make your point if, as you said, you just need to slow down a sec and think about how you phrase your comments. 😉 Frankly, if you wait for somebody else to say something, you might have a long wait.

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> _ **TAH and IS-B dont work on me. i dont know why. i feel weird and out of place and i think i actually get snippier which is what i wanted to avoid when i put it on.** _
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> _ **anyways, maybe ill try instant female magic** _ 🙂

If it doesn’t work, well, it doesn’t work! I understand that. I can get rather..erm…snippy ma self with a spray too much of IS/A. 🙄

[Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) makes me feel relaxed and in a go along kinda mood. If I know I’m going to be around people who stress me out or are difficult, I spritz a couple of good ones right up front so I can huff it. And, believe me, sometimes I inhale _deeply_. 😃

Bella

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