# To be less harmless and more polarizing **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [June 16, 2009, 3:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-less-harmless-and-more-polarizing/29931 "2009-06-16T15:08:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 45
**Author:** ![metalTree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b38774/32.png) [@metalTree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/metalTree)\ **Post date:** [July 2, 2009, 5:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-less-harmless-and-more-polarizing/29931/45 "2009-07-02T05:59:13Z")
Definately Narrowing in on my Sweet Spot Tonight I went out with the following: 1 Drop of A314 Applied to my wrists 1 Spray of [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/) to my Throat Before I go into the field report, I’m going to summarize my findings so far: 1. -none products (Instant Jerk and TUTH) rule for me. They make people want to talk to me and socialize with me. Without pheromones, people (including friends and family) react to me like I’m low status even though they don’t mean to. But with -none, I really feel like people respect me respect and people definitely don’t treat me like a low status loser any more. Therefore -none will always be a part of my mix. 2. Androstenol (Alpha & Beta) - The socials seem to make other straight guys talk to me much more than usual. I had several instances where men talked my ear off while wearing socials and that almost never happens without pheromones. Androstenol seems to have no effect on women for me. For some bizarre reason, it seems like the -none products make women want to talk to me, not Androstenol based products. Androstenol based products reduce the number of hits when I go clubbing with -none based products so it seems like it has a weakening effect. But I will definitely spray on Adrostenol based products when I’m in situations where I want to socialize with other guys. 3. A314 - This in the only Androsterone based product I have tried. Worn alone, this product really doesn’t do much for me. But this product seems to magnify the effect of Instant Jerk. When I wear Instant Jerk or TUTH unbuffered, I definitely get more hits from women than without pheromones. The A314 + Instant Jerk combo is absolutely golden for me. The A314 + Instant Jerk combo works so well for me, I will be gravely upset if either of these products are discontinued. I had two nights with this combo (one of the nights I also had TUTH) and the amount of hits I got was far more then I ever had over any 2 night period. F#\*king amazing. If this combo continues to work for me as well as it did the last two nights I went out with it, my social life will be absolutely amazing. So, as I mentioned before, I sprayed on the following before I went out. 1 Drop of A314 Applied to my wrists 1 Spray of Instant Jerk to my Throat In addition to the pheromones, the other factors that may have effected results were: 1. 3 Nodoz during the day 2. Lifted weights at gym (medium intensity workout) I first go to an upscale club that had a Wednesday party night advertised by a promoter. No hits on either of the subways or subway platform on the way to the club. I get in the club and the person at the door had not idea who the promoter was that I mentioned. Turns out that it was an old add that a stupid promoter set up to be shown every week. The event doesn’t happen any more but the stupid promoter never took the recurring ad down. Anyway, I go inside and I notice it’s almost all men. I observe the crowd for a couple of minutes and I realize that it’s a gay event. I realize that this is not an ideal place to test the pheromones so I left. For the record, the pheromone mix did not result in any hits from any gay men. And I do get hit on gay men from time to time because I have some feminine mannerisms which makes some people think I’m gay. So I shoot up to another area of Manhattan where I saw an 80s party advertised. The bar had a decent crowd, yet there was room to sit at the bar. It looked like a neighboorhood crowd so I decided to just sit at the bar and have a drink. So I ordered a drink. There was a mirror behind the bar so I could observe the crowd without turning around. Sweet! Within two minutes after I sat down, this young Asian girl brushes my arm with her arm as she goes up to the bar. I’m not sure if it was an accident or not but the barstool to my left was empty so there was plenty of room. Then she gets the drinks she ordered and she brushes against me against as she walks away. Two accidental touches are unlikely so I categorized it as a hit but I froze and didn’t act on it. I’m still being a pussy. Then a minute later, a girl squeezes to the bar to my right and shoves her breasts into me. Then she pushes her butt into me. There was not a lot of room there so it might have been incidental. But she could have easily gone to the bar to my left. So, I think this was a hit. But I froze again. Then I see this girl stand next to me and start dancing. I watch her dance in the mirror and she never looks at me. But after a few minutes, she taps me on the shoulder and says “Hi” really shyly and looks away. So I’m looking at her and she looks at me again making brief eye contact with me but then looks away shyly again. Holy F#$k. Another instance where a nice looking woman is intiminidated by me. This has happened two nights in a row and this only happened once in my entire life before pheromones. Instant Jerk + A314 is in fact gold! As soon as I realize that she is intiminidated by me, I all of a sudden felt confident and started talking to her a bit. As I talked to her she kept on touching my shoulder and arm. So I made a few mildly sexually provocative statements to her. She looks away shyly for several seconds. The she looks at me, and moves in for the kiss. It’s late and I have to work tomorrow so I’m not going to go into any more details. I didn’t go home with her because she was with friends and she started to get too drunk. (For some reason, drunk girls really annoy me and turn me off. I think it’s because I’ve had some girlfriends in the past who got drunk all the time and I hated that.) Even if I had wanted to go home with her, her friends would have cockblocked me. Plus there were guys in the group that seemed to know her. They bought me a shot at some point which I really didn’t want but I kind of felt obligated to drink. Before I left, the girl kept on telling me to drink my drink. In the past, women have done that when they realize that I’m somewhat uptight and when they want me to loosen up. So I wonder if I was coming across as uptight. Anyway, I said goodbye to the girl and her group and I went home. She actually seemed to get pissed at me when I told her that I was leaving. Oh well. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-less-harmless-and-more-polarizing/29931)._