# To be less harmless and more polarizing **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [June 16, 2009, 3:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-less-harmless-and-more-polarizing/29931 "2009-06-16T15:08:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 97
**Author:** ![Vangelis](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vangelis/32/598_2.png) [@Vangelis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vangelis)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2009, 11:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-less-harmless-and-more-polarizing/29931/97 "2009-07-18T23:56:31Z")
> [@metalTree](#): > > On the subway ride home, I was sitting next to an attractive girl in jeans. There was a space about 10 inches between us so we weren’t sitting that close. I looked at her in the reflection across from us and it looked like she might have been looking at me but I wasn’t sure. About 2 or 3 minutes before we reached her stop, she opens up her handbag and as she is opening it she makes an exaggerated motion with her elbow and makes contact with me as she pulls out a banana. According to my game book, that was totally an Approach Invitation. As you know, I am mainly a day gamer and i am always alert to those types of events. Is as if they are giving you the opener in a silver plate. You just have to ask them or comment about it. They are giving you the sign. I would just have gone and said: A banana (tone is important but really almost any tone does either question, exclamation mark, complicity… what ever comes natural). She will have to fill in with some comment and you have the conversation rolling. Anyhow, the following is a great thread I found really useful: > [@Approach Invitations](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/approach-invitations/1221): > > by formhandle [Formhandle Explains AI (Approach Invitation)](http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms/ai.shtml) \> Afterwards though I realised she wanted to speak and take things \> further. \> \> Asked a [HB](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/) I know about this and she said “I DO IT ALL THE TIME!!!” - \> so chicks stalk guys as well (lol) \> … Yeah, I call this the “Approach Invitation” (AI), it’s not really “stalking”. I mentioned a while back that I would post about it. I guess I forgot to. Here it is. First, to differentiate, there is a big difference between AI and pe… --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-be-less-harmless-and-more-polarizing/29931)._