# To open up - I never thought it would **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 11, 2008, 10:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327 "2008-07-11T10:01:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Richis](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/richis/32/1756_2.png) [@Richis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Richis)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 10:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/1 "2008-07-11T10:01:06Z")
When a male friend asked me to accompany him for dinner last night, I wasn’t expecting him to reveal so many details about things he’s never mentioned before. I had my routine pheros on before leaving the flat: 2 sprays I/S A, 3 sprays I. Openness and 3 sprays I. Shine. So we walked around looking for a decent restaurant, and walked and talked. And talked. And talked. And around 1 hour later, we’ve found a decent place (all you can eat) and sat there and talked even more. He’s talked a lot about his family situation, which he doesn’t really do with a group of people, and it went pretty damn well. And we were still talking when it was closing time (10:00pm). And we were still talking a lot in the metro. Non-stop talking until he gets off at his stop, which is just before mine. So how many hours of non-stop jaw exercise (with only around 10 minutes pausing in the middle with a bathroom break) did that make? That was around 4 1/2 hours. Honestly, I think 3 sprays really is enough to keep a conversation going. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 3:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/2 "2008-07-11T15:16:53Z")
> [@Richis](#): > > Honestly, I think 3 sprays really is enough to keep a conversation going. And going, and going and going … lol. Nice report. PS - Tell him I said to plan a little better ahead of time on the dinner venue. Tell him you do the pleasant (romantic?) stroll after dinner to segue into whatever is next - not an endless trudge beforehand to build up an appetite for the “all u can eat” buffet - lol. ---
**Author:** ![Diatris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diatris/32/1066_2.png) [@Diatris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diatris)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 8:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/3 "2008-07-11T20:58:31Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > And going, and going and going … lol. > > Nice report. > > PS - Tell him I said to plan a little better ahead of time on the dinner venue. Tell him you do the pleasant (romantic?) stroll after dinner to segue into whatever is next - not an endless trudge beforehand to build up an appetite for the “all u can eat” buffet - lol. I hear that. LOL 🙂 ;)A guy you can talk all night with and not get bored definitely a keeper. Good report Richis! ---
**Author:** ![Richis](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/richis/32/1756_2.png) [@Richis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Richis)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2008, 3:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/4 "2008-07-18T03:42:39Z")
For the record, he already has a girlfriend. Haha. But I heart that kind of one on one conversation. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2008, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/5 "2008-07-18T08:03:59Z")
Flowing conversation is great. Reps for the great report. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2008, 1:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/6 "2008-07-18T13:21:21Z")
That’s what instant openness is for! 😉 Nice report, reps! ---
**Author:** ![Diatris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diatris/32/1066_2.png) [@Diatris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diatris)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2008, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/7 "2008-07-18T19:55:45Z")
Hmmm, he has a girlfriend! Don’t u just hate it when that happens. These days am getting flirted with more and more by guys that have girlfriends. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 7:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/8 "2008-07-19T07:40:36Z")
> [@Richis](#): > > So how many hours of non-stop jaw exercise (with only around 10 minutes pausing in the middle with a bathroom break) did that make? That was around 4 1/2 hours. No pauses to stare longingly into each other’s eyes? Sounds like an almost good evening. > [@Diatris](#): > > Hmmm, he has a girlfriend! Don’t u just hate it when that happens. These days am getting flirted with more and more by guys that have girlfriends. Better Girlfriends, than wife’s. I have been bumping into the “Married with Kids” crowd lately. 😠 (happily or not they are still married) ---
**Author:** ![Diatris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diatris/32/1066_2.png) [@Diatris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Diatris)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 5:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/9 "2008-07-21T17:41:41Z")
That’s what I think Woofie , the worst is when they don’t tell you until you develop feelings and then after give that we fell out of love crap. I have strict rules about getting involved with anyone who is married , has a g/f and hung up on someone besides me. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 7:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/to-open-up-i-never-thought-it-would/15327/10 "2008-07-21T19:06:21Z")
> [@Diatris](#): > > That’s what I think Woofie , the worst is when they don’t tell you until you develop feelings and then after give that we fell out of love crap. I have strict rules about getting involved with anyone who is married , has a g/f and hung up on someone besides me. True, I am the same way, if they are in a relationship, before I allow the ours to go beyond friends, or similar, they have to terminate the previous relationship. Only once have I gone as far as to makeout with someone who was in another relationship, but that was a mistake, she seemed gaga for me at the time, for some reason. I put on the brakes after that, laid down the stick and said me or him not both, and she went on to stay in the other relationship. they are now married with a couple of kids, but I still get emails from her from time to time.