# Total newbie **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 10, 2009, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592 "2009-07-10T23:55:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jn1964](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/47e85d/32.png) [@jn1964](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jn1964)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2009, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/1 "2009-07-10T23:55:48Z")
Hi and I think the title says it when it comes to me and women. I am 44 and never dated or anything 😮 maybe too much info there Any suggestion son what to use would help thanks. Im not exactly forth coming with women tbh im shy and would love to meet a women who wants me sort of thing if that helps. Just one more question if I did order a product how long would it take for delivery to the UK and how does it come ( box brown envelope etc ) as I share a house with others and I dont wish for them to know. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 12:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/2 "2009-07-11T00:01:54Z")
Hi jn, welcome to the forum. You are in good company here, friend. We are all looking to improve in one way or another. Do you have any target person for phero usage? It helps us make good recommendations if we know more. Do you have any plans to use pheros for more than romance/social, perhaps work or something? Have you given any thought to self-effects? Instant Shine is a great all-round social phero that makes people cheerful, more happy when you’re around. It attracts them into your presence because you give off a fun, youthful vibe. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) can help a conversation along once it gets started. It makes people feel chatty, want to talk. Instant Honesty will encourage more in-depth, intimate conversations. Ammo is a great phero for men…very sexy. It is -none based so it sends out an ‘I’m interested’ vibe, but it is buffered enough not to be offensive. It is confidently, charmingly sexy. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 12:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/3 "2009-07-11T00:04:55Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. For shyness, try SHine. It can boost your confidence and uplift your mood. IO will make the girls want to talk to you. It gives you an edge in approaching girls. You will enjoy more light conversations with girls. AMMO will make them attracted to you. It can make them sexually attracted too. It is well buffered and can be used at most social settings/ Good luck ---
**Author:** ![jn1964](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/47e85d/32.png) [@jn1964](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jn1964)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 12:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/4 "2009-07-11T00:54:14Z")
Hmm!! I suppose that to be perfectly honest im not sure what target im after since I have no experiance at all with women ( mams and sisters not counted ). I suppose now that ive thought of it for a few mins I just need confidence to go upto women and say HI and then see where it goes ( im easily led 🙂 ) or maybe just to get the women to come to me and say HI. as it is a two way thing ( 2nd way sounds easier 4 me ) Whoaa!! just realised romance sounds brill sorry had to edit this as that is what I would like a bit of romance and see what happens. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 1:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/5 "2009-07-11T01:49:20Z")
It seems to me that the first thing you need is a shot of confidence. You are quite certainly a remarkable person who has a lot to offer. Don’t look back with regret, it saps the strength out of today, and robs the dreams out of tomorrow. From this point on, determine to make a difference, in yourself, and in the people around you. THis is the best of life. Instant Shine will help with the confidence thing, as will Ammo. They are both good to start off with. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is good for keeping the conversation going once it’s gotten started, and sometimes it causes people to approach you. But you may still have to make that opening yourself. Depends on the situation. Unfortunately there is no magic spray for being socially sheltered. YOu will have to get out there and make yourself available in order for anything to happen. Pheromones can and will influence how people think about you, but they do not turn people into robots, and a lot of how it turns out is up to you. I heard someone around here say pheros do not work for you, you have to work the pheros, something like that. It’s really true. ---
**Author:** ![jn1964](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/47e85d/32.png) [@jn1964](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jn1964)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/6 "2009-07-11T01:58:09Z")
> [@moonwhisper](#): > > Unfortunately there is no magic spray for being socially sheltered. YOu will have to get out there and make yourself available in order for anything to happen. . Yep I do understand that and I have been going out to places more than I use too with the help of friends. I think that you are right that i do need a shot of confidence and maybe the ammo to get the ladies. when I get my token ill give them a shot and hopefuly WHOOPEE!! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![jn1964](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/47e85d/32.png) [@jn1964](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jn1964)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 12:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/7 "2009-07-11T12:13:18Z")
Ok thank all for the reply now just one more question Wheres my $25 token please 😃 ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 1:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/8 "2009-07-11T13:34:57Z")
You have already received your required answer already, so I have no reason to repeat. Regarding the $25 GC, I would suggest you being patient, you will get it as soon as Mickaelia from Androtics is stopping by reading your thread, and dump a heavy GC in your email box, usually within 2 business days and it also depends on her work loads. Check back soon. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/9 "2009-07-11T15:38:43Z")
Hang in there, sweetie. Mick is the one with the magic gift certificate wand, but she’s awfully busy. She’ll be along before too long. It is worth the wait. ---
**Author:** ![jn1964](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/47e85d/32.png) [@jn1964](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jn1964)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2009, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/10 "2009-07-11T19:49:04Z")
Lol sorry was jking there I will be patient 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2009, 12:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/11 "2009-07-20T00:07:08Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk JN! You are gonna learn so much from the men here if you haven’t started already. Remember, it takes times time but you will get there. We are all here to improver ourselves and no matter how far we have come there is more to learn. Have fun on this forum. Your GC is on it’s way! ---
**Author:** ![jn1964](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/47e85d/32.png) [@jn1964](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jn1964)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2009, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/12 "2009-07-27T23:52:10Z")
Whoopee!! got order ( ammox2 + tuth ) ordered on **Thursday, July 23 and arived this morning July 27** **Very fast thank you and it seems to be working ok.** ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2009, 11:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/13 "2009-07-27T23:57:54Z")
just ok? Usually that stuff turns women on like lightning. Care to share your experiences? ---
**Author:** ![jn1964](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/47e85d/32.png) [@jn1964](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jn1964)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2009, 9:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/total-newbie/30592/14 "2009-07-28T09:41:33Z")
lol what I meant is I havnt used it out to party’s or stuff yet. But I did finaly get noticed by the girl ive loved for a while and for a change she actualy sat down talked to me and we had a good laugh ( I was happy just to be noticed if you see what I mean ) she kept on get closer to me all the time we talked but nothing happened yet. That was using 2 sprays of ammo and 1 spray of tuth and just for now ill keep it like htat and see what she does next. she does want to see me again ( tommorow ) then just se what happens but the problem is that we are both the shy type.