# Totally,Newbie

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/totally-newbie/50290>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [May 13, 2011, 5:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/totally-newbie/50290 "2011-05-13T05:49:43Z")\
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**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2011, 10:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/totally-newbie/50290/2 "2011-05-13T10:27:03Z")

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> [@onesgoodthing](#):
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> Hello…
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> I’m currently interested in this guy. Since we meet 3 yrs ago in college, I’ve always showed interest in him, and he as well but he just seems so indecisive as to what he really wants. I know I should wait patiently but I’m feeling the need to give him a helpful nudge into my direction…I was wondering which “to go products” in the female pheromones I should purchase… What do you guys recommended I try because all of the pheromones looks really good but I’m not quite sure which one will help my situation…Would you say I should try: Turn up the heat, Instant shine,Instant sexiness b,Instant honesty,Instant openness along with Max Attraction Silk??? Please respond hes a true keeper…

First of all, I’m relatively new here myself. Secondly, I’ve never used Max Attraction.  
As for the others, I don’t know if a newbie could really handle TUTH? Have you read some of the guys journals? As newbies, there’s a **lot** of funny posts by the guys having acquired TUTH for the first time. 😃  
I, _PERSONALLY_, think the instants are an awesome start. IH, IO, IS and IS/B.

Read: _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _ ([How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1))

and:

**Intro To Mones by Steve O** ([An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003))

Keep it simple and do one at a time. Especially include the guy in the test process! So, while you’re finding your sweet spot, you can also see the effects they’re having on him. 😉 When you know the effect they have individually, then you can start experimenting with combo’s. On both of you! 😃  
But seriously, in the beginning you gotta boil water before you can be gourmet cook. 😃 In MY humble opinion. 😮

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