# truly need help **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 24, 2006, 4:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264 "2006-12-24T04:43:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![opus88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/838e76/32.png) [@opus88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/opus88)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2006, 4:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/1 "2006-12-24T04:43:34Z")
Hi, Everyone! I am intrigued. I came across this site today and would really like some feedback. I struggle with a chronic and sometimes disabling health condition. By firing the medical community and turning to nutritional support, I am once again living a real life, although I am still rather fragile (and may always be). Partially due to the health issues, and partially due to birth control pills in my teens and twenties, my libido has been killed. (Research now shows that the birth control pills destroy something that allows the libido to work properly, and they say it can never be recovered. Why the $%&#$ haven’t they made that known, or put it on a warning label for The Pill?) I’m not willing to accept that it’s gone forever, but it’s been gone for about 16 years now, even though I had a very strong drive before all these problems appeared. Along with that, I’ve also lost my self-confidence. My brain no longer functions in an organized, logical manner - I’m not stupid, but most of the time I can’t prove that, not even to myself, because I’m living in a fog or can’t access most of my memory. I used to be known for my always-happy persona, but that part of me rarely shows up anymore. Once a person who loved parties, introducing myself to strangers without giving it a second thought, now I am a wallflower who is much more comfortable staying at home. Please give me some suggestions on what (if any) [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) might help me. I’m realistic enough not to expect miracles, but I still hold hope for such! (By the way, I’m blood type A.) I can’t wait to hear your suggestions. Many thanks for your honest input and assistance! ---
**Author:** ![BlazingAzn88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/49beb7/32.png) [@BlazingAzn88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlazingAzn88)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2006, 5:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/2 "2006-12-24T05:11:25Z")
you say you suffer from self confidence and libido issues? Well, to tell you the truth, Self confidence has to be gained from within. You have to believe in yourself and not let anybody else bring you down. However, if you want something to help garner you respect so that you can gain self confidence, i highly suggest A314. I would pair that up with IS. You said you wanted to be a happy person. IS makes people see you as a bright person. A person who makes everyone around them happy. Maybe a mix of CTTM2 or something so that you could increase interactions and make yourself more alive, but i suggest that after trying IS since its more advanced. Lets do it this way. Why dont you try IS and A314 first. If your budget cant fit it, try IS first then tell us how your life changed. Remember, noticing body language is essential to understanding how these products affect you. I really do wish you the best of luck. ---
**Author:** ![BlazingAzn88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/49beb7/32.png) [@BlazingAzn88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlazingAzn88)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2006, 5:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/3 "2006-12-24T05:12:00Z")
btw, if you havent read up, IS means Instant Shine ---
**Author:** ![Alpha1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/fbc32d/32.png) [@Alpha1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Alpha1)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2006, 5:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/4 "2006-12-24T05:53:38Z")
> [@opus88](#): > > Partially due to the health issues, and partially due to birth control pills in my teens and twenties, my libido has been killed. (Research now shows that the birth control pills destroy something that allows the libido to work properly, and they say it can never be recovered. Why the $%&#$ haven’t they made that known, or put it on a warning label for The Pill?) I’m not willing to accept that it’s gone forever, but it’s been gone for about 16 years now, even though I had a very strong drive before all these problems appeared. If androtics has a concoction that can resurrect female’s libido, I’d really love to know that too. My fiancee’s libido has also been destroyed by regular use of birth control pills in her teens (she start using them from 12 until 22 with her ex-boyfriends, only stopped since becoming my girlfriend 2 years ago). opus88, does losing your libido makes it difficult to enjoy love making as well? I really appreciate any input that can help regading this ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Comitz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b2d939/32.png) [@Comitz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Comitz)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2006, 9:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/5 "2006-12-24T09:56:02Z")
I believe A314 is for men? They have a women’s version out in the advanced/experimental section of the site, but thats a steer-clear for newbies. Don’t mean to be contradictory, but I am not really sure if that is one chemical that can be mixed and matched between genders? ---
**Author:** ![BlazingAzn88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/49beb7/32.png) [@BlazingAzn88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlazingAzn88)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2006, 10:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/6 "2006-12-24T10:02:22Z")
From what ive read, it should be fine. But then again, i could be wrong… Would TUTH work for you? ---
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2006, 10:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/7 "2006-12-24T10:35:58Z")
Good morning. Welcome to the forum! 🙂 Instant Sexiness or something based around the [pheromone](https://a314.com/) TAL (funny sounding name, great pheromone) might help. It will help you feel more competent. MX134 might help as well. That said, I can offer you more than that. If you’re _sincere_ about getting better (some people are too attached to the “benefits” of their sickness), you’re in luck, because I’ll help you do exactly that. Just drop me a note privately, and I’ll help educate you about some particularly effective healing and nutritional modalities. The types of thing you don’t hear about often, because there’s no financial incentive in telling other people about them. You can be thinking more clearly and feeling better in general, in as little as a week for now. (but plan on much longer, for long term changes). There’s no charge for this (we only charge for the pheromones). I do this, because I used to have my share of medical challenges myself, all overcome through undying effort to address and correct them. It’s literally like I’m a new man. Now, I like to help others when I can, to share what I’ve learned. The fact is that nobody needs to be in pain, or living in a fog. That’s not what life is about, and I mean that from the bottom of my heart. Warmest regards, Michael P.S. Mental agility and libido often do get lost together (and return together). Back when people first started using “smart drinks”, “smart drugs” and what are now known as “nutraceuticals” in the 80s, they were amazed at how their sex drives often went up simultaneously. Before that, I think people basically sex drive and intelligence to be separate. (“awh, that librarian would never be kinky… nah.. no way!”) However, it’s recently been found that as you address one of these issues, the other often shows improvement, as well. You may be able to kill two birds with one stone here. ---
**Author:** ![opus88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/838e76/32.png) [@opus88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/opus88)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2006, 3:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/8 "2006-12-27T03:13:06Z")
Thank you for your feedback! I’m trying to decide how to proceed, and can’t wait to try this new avenue. I am confused as I look at the products. When I click on the women’s spray products, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) says it is “for men”. There were also a few instances on the forum where I saw women were using products for men, and men were using products for women. Can somebody explain how I should know what to use? If either gender can use any product, why are they labeled for one or the other? ---
**Author:** ![kamantalu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e19adc/32.png) [@kamantalu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kamantalu)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2006, 10:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/9 "2006-12-27T22:42:53Z")
Opus, you seem to be asking for help. I would humbly suggest if you are serious about helping yourself that you go find a book titled “We want to Live” or “the Primal Diet” by aajonus. This is one of the most interesting and exciting books I’ve read in the last few years, and the information conveyed to me through it has been immensely pertinent to my life. ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2006, 11:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/10 "2006-12-27T23:14:35Z")
> [@opus88](#): > > Thank you for your feedback! I’m trying to decide how to proceed, and can’t wait to try this new avenue. > > I am confused as I look at the products. When I click on the women’s spray products, Instant Shine says it is “for men”. There were also a few instances on the forum where I saw women were using products for men, and men were using products for women. Can somebody explain how I should know what to use? If either gender can use any product, why are they labeled for one or the other? I think [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) was originally developed for men, but women tried it and loved it too. If you’re ever in doubt about a product, do a search on the women’s forum to see if we’ve tried it (most things we have!) Or, just post about it on the women’s forum. ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 1:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/11 "2006-12-28T01:24:50Z")
Or just call Jasmin at the toll-free number. She’ll steer you right. ---
**Author:** ![opus88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/838e76/32.png) [@opus88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/opus88)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 3:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/12 "2006-12-28T03:58:29Z")
> [@kamantalu](#): > > Opus, you seem to be asking for help. I would humbly suggest if you are serious about helping yourself that you go find a book titled “We want to Live” or “the Primal Diet” by aajonus. > > This is one of the most interesting and exciting books I’ve read in the last few years, and the information conveyed to me through it has been immensely pertinent to my life. Kamantalu: Thank you so much for your kind answer! I haven’t heard of the first book, so I’ll have to check it out. I have Aajonus’ “The Recipe for Living Without Disease”, but I wasn’t able to eat most of the things he recommends, or in great enough quantity to warrant making the recipes (due to spoilage). Maybe now that I’m stronger and less diet-restricted, I need to take a look at it again. Glad you mentioned it. I credit nearly all of my healing progress to the Metabolic Typing Program - it truly gave me my life back. But it still hasn’t been able to restore all of my previous brain functioning. And my libido was dead for so long before I started on that program (and still is) that I feel it will take more than just that program to revive it. That’s why I’m interested in the potential of pheromones. Again, thank you! ---
**Author:** ![opus88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/838e76/32.png) [@opus88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/opus88)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 4:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/13 "2006-12-28T04:11:35Z")
To Everyone: Big thanks for your input! I have made note of your suggestions and will pursue each. I really appreciate the community atmosphere I’ve seen here so far. We all do need each other, don’t we? 🆒 Alpha1: Yes, it can make intimacy difficult on many levels. I know how disappointing and maddening it is for our partners, but keep in mind that it’s even worse for those of us who have been horribly punished for trusting Western medicine’s poisons commonly known as prescriptions. Be patient with your gal - I know it may be tough sometimes, but don’t forget that’s just one aspect of a relationship. If you love her enough to stay together in spite of the low frequency of sex, and you can keep the communication open about it, you have found the right mate. Should I find the pheromones to be an answer, I’ll certainly let everyone on the boards know about it! ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 6:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/truly-need-help/1264/14 "2006-12-28T06:29:42Z")
Hi opus 88! I’m glad that you found this site! I’m not going to say anything about pheromones bcoz other knowledgeable forum members have advised you already. I have a 22 y.o. female friend whose condition was even worse than you! She tried to commit suicide twice and everytime she does that I’ll take leave from my work and spend my time with her. After much care, love and affection shown to her, today she has ‘recovered’ and we became best friends. She used to come and stay in my house for a certain period of time. I realized that your condition is much different than hers, but what I’m trying to suggest here is do not ‘lock up’ yourself in the room! Go out and see people and make some new friends. Fill up your time with some healthy and quality activities. Do not feel inferior. Life is God’s gift to us and live the best out of it and don’t waste it ok. I take this opportunity to welcome you aboard, with love.🙂 “It matters not how long we live, but how” - Philip James Bailey May God bless you always. Mohammad - a distant friend 🙂