# try it ... and then become it **URL:** \ **Category:** A314 Insider's Club\ **Created:** [November 2, 2009, 3:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/try-it-and-then-become-it/33766 "2009-11-02T15:54:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Bob808](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/85f322/32.png) [@Bob808](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bob808)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2009, 3:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/try-it-and-then-become-it/33766/1 "2009-11-02T15:54:05Z")
My question is simple. After some period of using A314…can you in time “learn” the attitude and use it as you wish when you need it or want it? Because I’m thinking…I am experimenting this, I am doing all the work after the effects appear. I cannot forget the way I feel and how confident I become when I wear A314. Is there anyone that has put away the A314 and now he acts Alpha on his own without any phero help? Of course this is not good for bussines but … it’s the ultimate goal somehow right? Self-improvement! If that would be possible then A314 would be a powerful tool for personal coaches and finally for self-improvement. This may well deserve a Nobel prize Steve. What do you think? ---
**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2009, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/try-it-and-then-become-it/33766/2 "2009-11-03T00:57:02Z")
Good question! With any [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) usage you should be striving to better yourself anyways. With A314 in particular, I have found that the effects stick with me even if I am not using it. I made a post about that a few months back, because it suprised me. When you act a certain way for so long I think it “trains” your brain to act a certain way. People still respond to your actions, pheros or not. A quote from data4 that I saved because it made sense to me: > [@](#): > > I think there is a danger in pheromone use in that people may rely too much on the pheromones being the reason they’re able to positively interact with people, and thus become hooked. Of course, with respect to Androtics’ business, I would certainly hope people continue to buy. I know I will. Still, I would also hope that folks here who use [mones](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/) as compensation for a lack of interpersonal relations skills would take advantage of that new confidence , esteem, and sense of power over their destiny that the pheromones have allowed them to feel and integrate it into the “whole person”, rather than let it live as a chemical compound in a spray bottle. Here is a thread that has some relavance as well. Great reading too! > [@How have YOU used mones to create a more attractive lifestyle ('to be a better man')?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-have-you-used-mones-to-create-a-more-attractive-lifestyle-to-be-a-better-man/27339): > > YouTube - Robbie Williams Obviously there are direct advantages to using mones in the pickup situation. However the reality is that mones on their own can only do so much and mainly ‘enhance’ what is already there between you and a girl. So how have YOU used the mones to create a more attractive lifestyle (‘to be a better man’)? A more attractive lifestyle may be way harder to obtain than slapping on some mones and going to a nightclub but the rewards in terms of quality (and quantity if that… ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2009, 5:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/try-it-and-then-become-it/33766/3 "2009-11-04T05:19:11Z")
If the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) help you feel like the man, then ou will know what “the man” feels like. I’d say you can easily be the man without the pheromones after you get used to the way you act whilst on them. ---
**Author:** ![LaPew](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lapew/32/330_2.png) [@LaPew](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaPew)\ **Post date:** [November 4, 2009, 5:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/try-it-and-then-become-it/33766/4 "2009-11-04T17:07:27Z")
IMO once you become more conversant with the effects of A314 it definitely helps in identifying Alpha traits. However the ability to gracefully ‘get away with’ certain behavior does decrease. ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2009, 8:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/try-it-and-then-become-it/33766/5 "2009-11-07T20:10:22Z")
pherophreak is right.