# Trying to attract a 29 Year old

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/trying-to-attract-a-29-year-old/29646>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 6, 2009, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/trying-to-attract-a-29-year-old/29646 "2009-06-06T17:21:05Z")\
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**Author:** ![snowboarder10](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/db5fbb/32.png) [@snowboarder10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snowboarder10)\
**Post date:** [June 6, 2009, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/trying-to-attract-a-29-year-old/29646/1 "2009-06-06T17:21:05Z")

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So I’m 21, I’ve been trying to pick up an attractive 29 year old for a while. I know she’s interested, I know I can do it! She has brought up how her friend is dating someone who is my age, we have set up a sort of date [it was to get coffee then changed to drinks (she likes beer) together after she was fired from our work due to the economy] but she cancelled and then “couldn’t” come with me to another event I asked her to.

So since she’s just lukewarm and I’m not desperate, I’m going to wait till she boils… as there are plenty of other gorgeous women out there. But actually because I’m enjoying focusing on myself, getting ripped, buying investment properties, my first car, pampering myself with some toys etc.

She did start e-mailing me at work from her new job and yes I’m responding, but I will only toss the bait back in when I know she will bite next time. And when she does and we do go out on a date I’d like to have that extra edge and appear older, more mature, but not something that will make me look fake when I still am ripping on her, making jokes and acting like my normal confident self.

What combo would you guys suggest?

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**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\
**Post date:** [June 6, 2009, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/trying-to-attract-a-29-year-old/29646/2 "2009-06-06T17:44:00Z")

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Nice strategy, dude. You don’t want to make the suspense _too_ tough, but you do want to portray a busy, progressive, strong man’s aura. Looks like you’re doing so successfully by _being_ a busy, successful strong man.

Woman’s perspective: go for the A314. Especially if you want to be perceived as older and classy. Oh gosh, I turn into twitterpation-central around a guy wearing A314. Not so much in a “yes, master” way (though there are reports out there of that happening), but more in a “wow. I never knew how cool this guy is, and I can’t believe he’s into _me_”.

Other than that, I sense you probably harmonize well personality-wise with IShine or [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/). What do you have in your arsenal?

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**Author:** ![snowboarder10](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/db5fbb/32.png) [@snowboarder10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snowboarder10)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2009, 2:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/trying-to-attract-a-29-year-old/29646/3 "2009-06-08T02:08:09Z")

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I’m actually quite new to the [Pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) world… other than having some Pherlure… which worked a little for the first time last night. My intro post is [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introduction-from-toronto-area/29644) and that will tell you a bit more about me and what I plan on getting… if you have any suggestions I’d love to hear them.