# Turn Up the Heat and Instant Gentleman led to a sexual harassment accusation

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [October 30, 2008, 9:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat-and-instant-gentleman-led-to-a-sexual-harassment-accusation/22298 "2008-10-30T21:34:40Z")\
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**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\
**Post date:** [October 30, 2008, 9:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat-and-instant-gentleman-led-to-a-sexual-harassment-accusation/22298/2 "2008-10-30T21:46:46Z")

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oops! And we were just discussing IG/TUTH combos in this thread:

> [@She Stayed Very Close Part 2](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close-part-2/21873):
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> Myself: Mid-40s, athletic, married This is a follow-on to: [She stayed very close ...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/she-stayed-very-close/21363) I have been playing with [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) a little more with both work and social situations. For work my favorite mix continues to be A314 and Instant honesty but it never hurts to experiment a little … Mix: 3 sprays Instant Gentleman 1 spray TUTH 1 spray Instant shine 2x Siutation: Social with people 30s and 40s. Hit #1: Good female friend, we are sitting on a large love seat talking. A say large i…

It seems to me that 99.99% of girls would not feel threatened in this way, but you cannot win them all I guess. I’m sure you are a good calibrator of other people’s moods and body language, but yeah, you never know when people will have issues. Bad luck there.

I have, without pheros, not been accused of sexual harassment, but made some women feel uncomfortable who obviously had a problem with some other man in the past ,and projected whatever that was onto me. Now the only mistake I made was trying too hard to convince them that I was actually alright, and not the sort of guy they thought, when I should have just left them alone from then on. But human nature is such that, if you think that someone has got a badly wrong idea about you, you want to correct it for them. Some people are very caught up in a set of thought-processes from the past or something, and there is not a lot one can do to change that.

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