# turn up the heat

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [January 10, 2009, 4:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727 "2009-01-10T04:54:30Z")\
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**Author:** ![knotyboy13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/838e76/32.png) [@knotyboy13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/knotyboy13)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2009, 4:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/1 "2009-01-10T04:54:30Z")

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I’m just checking everything out, trying to get the mrs. more interested in sex…any suggestions for the first time selection?

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**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2009, 5:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/2 "2009-01-10T05:02:54Z")

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Hi there,

Welcome to the forum.

Tell us more about your personality. Are you shy or outgoing?

WHo are your ntargets? wife, colleague, friends?

TUTH is good for sexual attraction. It can sexually arouse girls. Please tell us more for more precise recommendation.

Awaiting yourn reply

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2009, 5:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/3 "2009-01-10T05:11:29Z")

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Hello knotyboy13

Good to have as a member of Pherotalk here so welcome 🙂 Ok i see you have been checking things out here, that’s good 🙂

Btw if you are to get your mrs to be more interested in sex, i will suggest TUTH like jamesbonded have recommended as this is good for making relationship more closer & intimate 🙂

But tell us more about yourself & what other goals do you want to achieve by using pheros here & what kind of effects you hope to get from them so that we can help you better 🙂

I will be back to answer this intro & see you 🙂

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**Author:** ![knotyboy13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/838e76/32.png) [@knotyboy13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/knotyboy13)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2009, 6:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/4 "2009-01-10T06:24:45Z")

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> [@jamesbonded](#):
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> Hi there,
> 
> Welcome to the forum.
> 
> Tell us more about your personality. Are you shy or outgoing?
> 
> WHo are your ntargets? wife, colleague, friends?
> 
> TUTH is good for sexual attraction. It can sexually arouse girls. Please tell us more for more precise recommendation.
> 
> Awaiting yourn reply

I’m outgoing , I can start a conversation with a stranger. Target is wife not looking to cheat unless the moment is right. I feel that I’m loosing her interest (wife) and want to get her aroused more often

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**Author:** ![knotyboy13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/838e76/32.png) [@knotyboy13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/knotyboy13)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2009, 6:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/5 "2009-01-10T06:34:12Z")

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Sounds like what I need, any men using it right now?

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**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2009, 6:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/6 "2009-01-10T06:46:41Z")

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hey there, welcome, to the forum.

I see you have posted here before, but so far havent gotten a gift cert yet.

Have you made any purchases yet? Please read the link in my signature and explain to us some specifics, all this this post so we can all get a better feel for you.

Let us know are you shy or outgoing, how did you hear about pheromones, how did you find the forum, what do you plan on using pheromones for,have you ever used any [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) before?

Hope after you answer these questions, we have a better feel for who you are, can qualify you for the gift cert, and get you started!

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**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\
**Post date:** [January 10, 2009, 2:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/7 "2009-01-10T14:11:53Z")

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Hey knotyboy13 welcome aboard man,  
None based products like ammo and turn up the heat are great at getting extra attention from women. Turn up the heat can def give alittle extra spark in the bedroom when the moments right.  
Instant honesty would be good at getting deeper conversation with her which might make her more comfortable. Also instant female magic is perfect for making women more comfortable, even during her time of month.  
I hope we helped some 🙂

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 12:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/8 "2009-01-11T00:22:25Z")

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> [@knotyboy13](#):
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> I’m outgoing , I can start a conversation with a stranger. Target is wife not looking to cheat unless the moment is right. I feel that I’m loosing her interest (wife) and want to get her aroused more often

Well for what i studied from your situation, my recommendation of TUTH still stand, i would also recommend [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) as recommended by chicagokid1 as this phero is also suitable for making closer conversation with your wife which will make her be much more comfortable with you 🙂

Here is a very helpful link that you should read on(just click on it)\> [Mens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168)

Hope that help you there & see ya 🙂

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**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 12:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/9 "2009-01-11T00:28:39Z")

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What I’ve found on here is that a lot of married guys are in the same boat (myself included) first things first, read the married guys link in my signature below. Then, and I speak from personal experience here, concentrate on the socials, specifically IFM and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), once you’ve ironed out any issues that arise from the deep and meaningful conversation that you will have, then look to the TUTH to relight the fires, try this one too soon and you may get your fingers burnt!!

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/10 "2009-01-11T00:39:18Z")

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> [@knotyboy13](#):
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> Sounds like what I need, any men using it right now?

Hi there! Welcome to the forum. I see you’ve already made your introductions in an earlier thread so please post any additional questions such as this into the men’s section. You’ll probably get better response that way. I’d imagine one of the moderators will move this thread for you if you ask nicely. 🙂

I’m not a man, but I can tell you from first-hand experience that TUTH is good for female arousal. The times that I’ve rubbed a little under my nose while “in the moment” has made the experience quite, ummmm…over-the-top, I guess. Vaaarrooomm!!!😃 Start with one spray and work up from there. You don’t want to scare your poor wife away as she already knows your phero signature and will probably need to get used to the “new you”!!

But, with that said, Tisha had an excellent point in your other thread about trying [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Women need to feel “connected” (yes! I’m aware that IS a scary word for some 🙄) which, in itself, can be arousing for some women. Connection first, then sex. Instant Honesty can help with that as long as you’re willing to put the effort into it.

Good luck knotyboy!

~~River

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 12:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/11 "2009-01-11T00:45:12Z")

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> [@river](#):
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> Women need to feel “connected” (yes! I’m aware that IS a scary word for some) which, in itself, can be arousing for some women. Connection first, then sex.

Ohh - you mean _emotionally_ connected. When you said “connected” the first time all us guys thought you were talking about sex … 😮 😛 … so it wasn’t _that_ scary … at first.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/12 "2009-01-11T00:49:30Z")

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Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂

Well Turn Up The Heat would be a good start. Its sex in a bottle. Arousing to females but since your wife already knows your pheromone signature go slow with it. Start with one spray and let her become accustomed to the signals she will be getting.

I also suggest [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) for a close intimate connected feeling. I know I know doesn’t sound that exciting to men but women really love this feeling and its arousing to us.

Now no offense meant but does your wife have any mood issues you would like improved. 😃 If so take a look at [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/). It calms and eases, gives a feeling of well being comfort and affection.

Now we need to get your qualified for your GC, One more question… How did you find out about pheromone products and this forum ?

I Look forward to your reply

Tisha

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**Author:** ![knotyboy13](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/838e76/32.png) [@knotyboy13](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/knotyboy13)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/13 "2009-01-11T01:26:57Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
>
> Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂
> 
> Well Turn Up The Heat would be a good start. Its sex in a bottle. Arousing to females but since your wife already knows your pheromone signature go slow with it. Start with one spray and let her become accustomed to the signals she will be getting.
> 
> I also suggest [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) for a close intimate connected feeling. I know I know doesn’t sound that exciting to men but women really love this feeling and its arousing to us.
> 
> Now no offense meant but does your wife have any mood issues you would like improved. 😃 If so take a look at Instant Female Magic. It calms and eases, gives a feeling of well being comfort and affection.
> 
> Now we need to get your qualified for your GC, One more question… How did you find out about pheromone products and this forum ?
> 
> I Look forward to your reply
> 
> Tisha

Sounds good. I found out about the site looking for product of this nature and just stumbled on through google. I joined and thats how I got here. And you?

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 1:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/14 "2009-01-11T01:50:40Z")

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> [@bosshank](#):
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> Ohh - you mean _emotionally_ connected. When you said “connected” the first time all us guys thought you were talking about sex … 😮 😛 … so it wasn’t _that_ scary … at first.

I know. That was man-talk…I knew you’d eventually figure it out! 😃😃

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/15 "2009-01-11T01:51:11Z")

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> [@knotyboy13](#):
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> I found out about the site looking for product of this nature and just stumbled on through google. I joined and thats how I got here. And you?

Most of us think Tisha was born here on the forum … lol. 😛

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/16 "2009-01-11T01:54:01Z")

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> [@river](#):
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> I knew you’d eventually figure it out!

Huh, I’m sorry - I was watching the game … did you say something … figure what out? Oh yeah - you look great in that dress. 🙄

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 1:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/17 "2009-01-11T01:57:01Z")

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> [@diamond](#):
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> What I’ve found on here is that a lot of married guys are in the same boat (myself included) first things first, read the married guys link in my signature below. Then, and I speak from personal experience here, concentrate on the socials, specifically IFM and Instant Honesty, once you’ve ironed out any issues that arise from the deep and meaningful conversation that you will have, then look to the TUTH to relight the fires, try this one too soon and you may get your fingers burnt!!

Yup!

Diamond, you are a genius (or just well-versed in the ways of married women, either way)!

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**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/18 "2009-01-11T01:59:18Z")

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> [@bosshank](#):
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> I’m sorry…I was watching…you…you look great in that dress. 🙄

(Women’s version of selective hearing) LOL!!!😃

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/19 "2009-01-11T21:22:02Z")

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> [@](#):
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> Most of us think Tisha was born here on the forum … lol. 😛

Nah I am just a born talker 😉

Thank you knotyboy13 for letting me know how you found us.

> [@](#):
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> And you?

I started looking into mones because I wanted to spice things up at home as well. My first mone product was bought at a naughty nightie party. I have been using mones from all over for almost 9 years now and am somewhat of a science geek. I was a moderator for a few other forums in the past and since my interest and now expertise lies in [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and human influence and communications which is all related to mone technology I became the moderator here. But my love of the products, company and the people of the forum keeps me here 😉

**Your GC is on its way** 😃

Tisha

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**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\
**Post date:** [January 11, 2009, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/turn-up-the-heat/24727/20 "2009-01-11T21:39:14Z")

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> [@river](#):
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> Yup!
> 
> Diamond, you are a genius (or just well-versed in the ways of married women, either way)!

Thanks river 😃

Have spent years making a determined effort to understand the female brain!

My wife actually said to me that she sometimes thinks I should be gay due to my being in tune with the female psyche. Not quite sure how to take it at the time but eventually took it as a big compliment. I continue to strive for complete understanding
