# TUTH Report - Rbarker87 **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [January 19, 2011, 4:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704 "2011-01-19T16:53:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rbarker87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7feea3/32.png) [@Rbarker87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbarker87)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2011, 4:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/1 "2011-01-19T16:53:22Z")
I just got this in last night. Normal 2.5 strength. The wife has no idea. We’ve been married 2 years now, but dated for 8 years before that. So we’ve been together for about a decade now. The spark isn’t “gone” by any stretch of imagination, but we’ve gone from high school/college/etc lovey doveyness to both working full time jobs and she’s working 10+ hrs some days (shes an RN working on her CRNP degree/license). This is just history to say that basically the spark isn’t “Gone”, but its definitely more work now to get her “in the mood” thanks to all the work that goes on and just basically both of us being tired all the time. Being a guy I am always ready lol, but its not the same necessarily with her. **Day 1:** So I get in the TUTH last night after I get home from the gym. Due to bad weather/wrecks my wife was stuck in traffic and unable to get to the gym. Afraid she might find the package I invite her for dinner then race home to beat her home, get the package and hide it. I was successful 🙂. She commented on how I was driving like a maniac, but anyways, just leading up to that night. So I get home, I start looking at the product and unfortunately some IO was sent with it (I really appreciate the free sample, but was just nervous as I’ve never used this stuff before) and it seemed like it leaked or something. It wasn’t a lot, but I don’t know how this stuff works so I handled it like acid lol. I washed my hands and cleaned the bottles off and started to figure out how I was going to apply the TUTH. When you go to spray this stuff, its sprays what seems like a TON of stuff. I honestly only pushed the plunger down 1/4-1/2 a spray since it was still a lot of material (or seemed like a lot). Are you supposed to do a “full spray” or just enough to cover the area? Anyways. I put some on my wrist and some on the back of my neck (2 areas, 1/4-1/2 spray each). I come out of the bathroom now and I hug her and stuff just to try and make sure she gets a wiff. Well she missed the gym so she now works out at home (that zumba craziness) and then she sits on the couch to watch tv with me after she finishes. I notice she’s figidy and like she’s rubbing her nose and stuff so I am guessing she’s smelling it, her body doesn’t know what to do or something, but its definitely there lol. After about an hr of tv its late and time for bed, we lay down in the bed and she snuggles as always and we turn on the 10 o clock news and I notice that she’s smiling and holding on my wrist (my left one that has the spray on it). She’s acting flirty (giggling/joking/etc with me) and just would hold that wrist/rub it lol. At one point she literally put my hand on her face to where that wrist was right up to her nose. I rub that side of her head, but it was just funny. Never commented on “smelling good” or similar so it wasn’t completely obvious to her (thankfully), but still it definitely seemed to be working or something. She’s exhausted and we go to bed, but still it definitely is doing something or is having an effect. It can’t cure exhaustion, but I had a good 30-60 minute talk with her that was full of giggling and similar lol pretty funny stuff We dated forever, so its not out of the norm for her to giggle and flirt about stuff, but it was significantly noticeably different and she would not let go my wrist until it was time for bed. Had I put the moves on or something I bet it would have happened, but honestly, I was exhausted too lol. It was leg/back day at the gym so I was wore out. Can’t wait to try it again tonight. Today is her short day so it should be the best time to see if it works or not. BTW, as I was asked. I am 25 and she is 23. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2011, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/2 "2011-01-19T20:35:06Z")
Just posting so it keeps me subscribed and I can get updates when you post. I’m liking this already 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Rbarker87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7feea3/32.png) [@Rbarker87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbarker87)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2011, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/3 "2011-01-20T16:24:55Z")
**Day 2** Little more ‘ballsy’ today on my part with the application. I am trying to make sure she doesn’t know (or smell anything obvious) to try and keep this as “scientific” as possible. Anyways, I put more on (actually did 2 full sprays on my neck/under adam’s apple) and a half hearted spray on my wrist and rub both together (so no matter which side she’s on, my arm would be around her and she’d get a good wiff). Again I am new so please, she probably could smell it regardless lol, I just don’t know/understand well enough how these work yet. Well today was supposed to be a light day, but that did not work out. She had to stay later in order to cover for a friend who is pregnant/having sickness issues. On top of that, her mom was inspired by how much weight she has lost/I had put on (lean weight) that she wanted to use the tread mill we have (we’re signed up at a gym so we never use it). So now I spent an hr loading that up as well and unloading. So again, its a late night, we’re both tired, but I am going to give it a try. We sit down to watch ‘my strange addiction’ and I sneak into the bathroom to spray on the TUTH. Like said above, I put 2 solid sprays on my neck/under my Adam’s apple and and a light spray on the wrist. I can smell it pretty heavily, but once it dries, its not as obvious. She never mentioned “smelling anything or smelling great or similar”; however AGAIN i see her sniffing randomly and rubbing her nose and stuff lol. Things then get a little interesting. She grabs my arm and wants to cuddle up (this isn’t normal on the couch as she’s not “touchy feely”). She gets hot easy and doesn’t normally like being held and what not unless we’re in the bed. So that was key #1, but what was even more interesting was that she’d cuddle up, get hot, then move away, but literally in 5-10 minutes she is leaning against me or holding my arm or something. Really out of the norm. I am giggling/laughing about it and playing it off on the ‘strange addiction’ show as it seems subconsciously she is trying to constantly touch me in some way/shape or form, whether or not she likes it or it makes her hot or whatever lol. Then it happens… Nope not what you think. She gets a text from another friend who’s now pregnant too \ _yay_ \. This friend is of course the last of her non-pregnant friends from college/nursing school to get pregnant. We’ve already had this talk and we both agreed to stay married for 3-4-5 years before having a kid so we can have a “nest egg” in the bank, etc, but you could tell it hurt her as she more than likely really wants one. She’s more mature than “i want a kid because my friend has one”, but I am saying all this as it really killed the mood. We head to bed around 9:30 and she snuggles and even though shes not “in the mood” she again holds onto my wrist and wants me to hold her/snuggle and what not. This is more than normal so the TUTH has to be doing something. Its not magic to where her panties fall off and we’re doing the dirty deed, but it definitely does affect her. Tonight is her 10-11+ hr day so I am not expecting much, but we’ll see. Sorry I don’t have more interesting findings to report. ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2011, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/4 "2011-01-20T16:41:14Z")
hi, I really like your reports so far very thorough, dont be sorry about reporting your honest results, this forum would be no good to anyone if it was full of exaggerated BS. Looking forward to hearing more from you. ---
**Author:** ![Rbarker87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7feea3/32.png) [@Rbarker87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbarker87)\ **Post date:** [January 20, 2011, 4:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/5 "2011-01-20T16:54:19Z")
> [@THE\_GHOST](#): > > hi, I really like your reports so far very thorough, dont be sorry about reporting your honest results, this forum would be no good to anyone if it was full of exaggerated BS. Looking forward to hearing more from you. I appreciate that 🙂 thank you! I just like seeing reactions, so when something pops up and kills the mood or kills the “experiment” its frustrating. Its all in fun 🙂 but still haha ---
**Author:** ![SoulBoy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/soulboy/32/933_2.png) [@SoulBoy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SoulBoy)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2011, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/6 "2011-01-21T04:37:20Z")
I’ve just got back on to the forums again due to working over the festive break then off for a long deserved break. I’ve been doing testing with my partner over the last week with TUTH only, no cologne just two sprays one to the each side of the neck. This stuff as Rbarker87 states won’t get her dropping her underwear at the first sniff, but I do find my partner loves the smell of the stuff & becomes extremely amorous (more than usual) when she’s around it, usually leading us to bed or where ever. I find that after she’s been around TUTH for about 30-40 minutes then I start seeing the changes more or less straight away. ---
**Author:** ![Rbarker87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7feea3/32.png) [@Rbarker87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbarker87)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2011, 4:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/7 "2011-01-21T16:42:14Z")
**DAY 3** O boy do we have some fun in store for today. On top of the standard TUTH report, I have some IO reports. Ok, so we’re going to do this chronologically which puts me heading to the gym around 5:30PM to do chest/arms/shoulders (favorite day). I’ve snuck my IO/TUTH with me in the gym bag so that if my wife starts to think something’s up she won’t go through drawers and similar at home and find it (my bag’s always with me). So I am driving to the gym and I put a spray of IO on my front bottom of my neck and on the back of my neck. One it smells good, two I am just curious to see what other people do since my wife seemed to be a difficult target until today. I did not use any TUTH as I am not looking for “that” kind of drama/connection/etc at the gym. So at the gym I am in the middle of working out and I am nearing the end and I am doing some flat tricep push-downs and I notice just staring at me is some really cute older lady (mid 30s probably). It startled me so I probably looked like a psycho in how I reacted (I have headphones on and I am cringing as I push out the last few reps) and after I compose myself I can hardly reach my dang ears to pull the head phones out as my arms are so sore/locked up from doing 2-3 bicep exercise and finishing my 3rd tricep exercise. She just sits there and smiles/giggles real big and asks if I am using another tricep type free weight tool. Its no where near me as I don’t like it and I say no, she’s more than welcome to use it. I apologize for being a psycho and I had no idea how long she was standing there and she just giggled/smiled and said no problem, eye’d me up/down and walked off with her piece. This is abnormal as I am pretty hardcore in my workouts and I don’t look like the friendly/talking type. I am there for business and to get swole son _lol_ moving on. So kinda like a mid-story precursor my wife is working out with me as well (She’s running on the treadmill beside me, she runs, i do a little cardio before my workout so my heartrate is up and im focused/ready to go) and she’s just always smiling and happy the whole time (abnormal as she too is serious about running/working out and losing weight). I notice that she just basically seems to want to work out right beside me and do whatever machine is next to me and smile. Nothing crazy, but still shes in a great happy and wanna be around me mood 🙂 (trust me for either of us this is big as we’re both sweating, stinking and wore the heck out after about 30 minutes into our hr+ workout). Now the fun… So of course my wife notices Ms. Cutie Patooties odd behavior towards me and is giving me that “mmmmhmmmmm” look. She is of course waiting to use the other half of the machine I and cute lady is using (its one of those cable machines that has 2 sides, you can do triceps, biceps, leg extensions, etc on either side and you have to share tools). So then I head to the free weights to max out whatever I’ve got left in my arms and cute lady is sitting right beside me. I don’t know if something more is happening here, but it sure seems like it. Everything I’d start working out she’d work out and when I’d rest she’d rest and look over quite often (I have my headphones in so I pretend I don’t notice as I am again not trying to make a “connection” at the gym… I just wanted to see if people/girls would come up and talk (just try and see if this stuff really works or not). She was the only other lady I saw so I’d say it worked lol). I finish my workout and head to the locker room. Somehow I get pulled into other peoples conversations (never met them before) and we all joke/laugh and move on. Again I don’t know what it is (just coincidence or pheromone) but I can tell people are more open. Now we’re on our way home (driving separately as we both drove from our jobs). I am laughing my butt off on the way home as it was just interesting to see all that happen. So now I am like, maybe me sweating makes it go out stronger/further and that’s why so many reactions happen, so its on now… I spray 2 full sprays of TUTH on my lower neck/upper chest while driving home. I did this about 5-10 minutes before getting home so it could dry/not smell so strong (when I sprayed twice I had to roll the window down as it was overpoweringly strong). Now we’re home, funny enough she doesn’t mention cutie girl. That’s odd as that always happens one way or another (whether some guy is hitting on her or some girl is hitting one me… If this happens we rub it in/make a big deal and laugh about it). We get home, I take my shirt off and make my protein shake/do my thing and she walks up and says “wow your boobies are getting big” (just joking around as it was chest day), but mine are way bigger and grabs my hands to put them on hers… so yeah, great moment and we go to watch tv. I don’t want to watch grey’s anatomy, she does so she goes in the other room and I play my games. The whole time she is yelling out stuff to me joking about the show, joking about me nerding it out, etc. When it comes bed time, its on, she’s like why don’t come on in babe 🙂 she’s laying on my side and is nekkid ready to go. It was awesome and this stuff has to be working as she’s completely different around me with it on. I can’t wait to see how a Saturday goes when she’s not working so much and has both energy and this in my favor. Anyways, long story short, its a great night and I had a TON of fun with my IO/TUTH. Granted maybe she did it because of jealously with that other girl or something, but I doubt it. She even said “looks see, I even wanted to do it this time” as I give her so much crap about me always having to beg lol. She’s like “you’re the boy, you’re supposed to ask for it” and well honestly, it gets old having to ask all the time. I want the feeling mutual ya know? So anyways. Fun fun night 🙂 😃 thanks TUTH And thanks AD/Smartmones One other thing I’d like to mention is that just like SoulBoy says, this doesn’t seem to really work/take affect until about 30 minutes into it. I’ve never put it on, walked out and she be like OOOOOOO. It always seems like 15-30 minutes into it, the mones break down her guard and open her up. ---
**Author:** ![Rbarker87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7feea3/32.png) [@Rbarker87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbarker87)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2011, 3:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/8 "2011-01-24T15:56:05Z")
**Day 4-5** Ok I do not have as much experience with the TUTH over the weekend as the wife had a conference she had to attend most of saturday (8am-4pm) for their credit hours and similar for her RN license (That and again I am not looking to use TUTH on anyone other than my wife as I am not looking for ‘that’ kind of connection with other women). That being said I did try some A314 1.23a spray when we were heading to the gym twice (before we headed to the gym). This had an interesting effect… On Saturday I sprayed one on my wrist and rubbed both together. It seemed strong so I was trying to keep it from being too obvious (that and to me it smells more “feminine” so I didn’t want her wondering “Why some other woman’s perfume was on me” lol… its not girly necessarily, its just not ‘musk’ or whatever a typical guy cologne smells like. I like it, its just sweeter smelling to me than normal guy stuff… anyways… moving on lol)… so on the trip over there she seems “on edge”. Like everything makes her irritable. Granted they didn’t have food at the conference, so she was starving, but it just seemed more than that. I didn’t like the effects that much with her (today), but nothing too serious. Nothing important at the gym as it was closing time so there weren’t many people there and on the way to dinner nothing crazy. I did the same thing sunday before church, except I sprayed it on the back of my neck this time and wrist (rubbed them together). Again, she seemed “on edge” wanting to argue on the way to church, but when we got there, it got a little more interesting. After a little while everyone walks around to meet/greet and I noticed I had a LOT of people walk up to shake my hand and just want to talk and what not. We’ve been going there for years and this hadn’t happened before. Normally you shake 2-3 people’s hands, sit down, and that’s that. I had a LOT of people come up from around our area. Another thing is that a lot of them wouldn’t make eye contact which was abnormal as well. I mean we’re all friends and we’ve all known each other for years, so it definitely must have some kind of “im more alpha than you” effect lol 😉. I dunno. It was just different. Granted I bought the A314 for the work environment, but just wanted to try it out. Now on the way home Sunday and that evening, it seemed that it finally broke through to the wife. She started asking me for MY opinion and advice on stuff and became a lot more loving/understanding later that day. I don’t know how to explain it, but it seemed like I was the guy who was trying to “be the boss” and she didn’t like it, but then realized it wasn’t going to change and i dunno. It sounds stupid to even write all of this (as I am normally not the “im the intimidating guy”… I am always the shy/comedian kind of guy, so its a weird experience), but it did seem to have an effect on people around me and on my wife, so I am interested to see how it does in the work environment. I’ve put one spray on my neck of A314 and one spray of IO for work today and I’ll keep reporting. ---
**Author:** ![jnoel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jnoel/32/650_2.png) [@jnoel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jnoel)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2011, 5:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/9 "2011-01-24T17:12:18Z")
wow thats awesome that you guys have been together for so long, i thought you were in your 30’s or so. Its cool that you guys were high school sweethearts. i hope the products here fuel the flame of your relationship ---
**Author:** ![Rbarker87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7feea3/32.png) [@Rbarker87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbarker87)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2011, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/10 "2011-01-24T17:26:11Z")
> [@jnoel](#): > > wow thats awesome that you guys have been together for so long, i thought you were in your 30’s or so. Its cool that you guys were high school sweethearts. i hope the products here fuel the flame of your relationship Thank you man, I really appreciate that. It was a tough journey, but even though I sometimes wonder ‘what could have been’, I am very happy to have found her and be able to make the first one work out as awesome as it has 🙂. Fortunately we got all of our “been together 1-3 year fights” out of the way early on lol. I am not a quitter and neither is she so we’ve made it always work 🙂. Thanks again man! ---
**Author:** ![Rbarker87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7feea3/32.png) [@Rbarker87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbarker87)\ **Post date:** [January 28, 2011, 3:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/11 "2011-01-28T15:25:34Z")
Sorry for the delay, been a rough few days with personal issues. Tried the TUTH again last night after about a 3-4 day break and the stuff works. After the gym we are in the kitchen and I literally walk out, go to b-room, put on two sprays (front upper chest) and she changes from being irritable to wanting me to hold her (she’s now “freezing”, we try to keep the heat low in our house thanks to the wonderful utility bill come winter). That being said this was the first time she had ever smelt it, funny enough though she didn’t even ask what it was, where did I get it, etc (she buys me my cologne as I don’t know what smells good lol). She just puts her head on my chest and says wow you smell good and just smiles and stays there for a while. Long story short, no booty that night, but come this morning it was another story =P guess the TUTH needed time to sink in 😉… I know this isn’t as detailed as normal, but I haven’t really had time to even use the stuff, more or less plan it out. I’ll keep everyone posted as this stuff passes and I get to have some more fun. I am hoping to have some more A314 1.23a reports as I should have a big job interview coming up. ---
**Author:** ![dingo11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/34f0e0/32.png) [@dingo11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dingo11)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2011, 2:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/12 "2011-02-02T14:41:05Z")
Hey RBarker87…any more updates? ---
**Author:** ![Rbarker87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/7feea3/32.png) [@Rbarker87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbarker87)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 7:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/13 "2011-03-11T19:17:01Z")
> [@dingo11](#): > > Hey RBarker87…any more updates? sorry, i am now unemployed ☹ haven’t had much desire to do much of anything right now except sell stuff and job hunt. Some promising leads coming up, but sucks for the time being. I will report back when I can. ---
**Author:** ![Aggie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f07891/32.png) [@Aggie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aggie)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 7:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/14 "2011-03-11T19:31:24Z")
You WILL get a job. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Rizingfire](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rizingfire/32/1733_2.png) [@Rizingfire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rizingfire)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2011, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-report-rbarker87/44704/15 "2011-03-11T21:53:51Z")
Ya, and now you’ll have an edge with your job interviews…you have some great writing skills. I love the way you describe everything…my wife kept looking at me weird last night, I think the a314 vibe didn’t fit in her head or something…lol…I expected that…I may try the TUTH tonight, not sure yet cuz I am already kinda tired.