# TUTH to increase male/female bond? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 24, 2015, 1:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715 "2015-01-24T13:47:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Dream\_Brother](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dream_brother/32/1559_2.png) [@Dream\_Brother](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dream_Brother)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2015, 1:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/1 "2015-01-24T13:47:58Z")
So, I’m meeting a female friend in a weeks time. Whenever we meet, there seems to be an uncomfortable vibe, which I’m not too sure why. No arguments or anything, just feels like we’re both shy and waiting for the other to initiate conversation. Either that, or we don’t know where we stand with one another. If I were to use TUTH, would this repel her, or give the shyness a more alluring vibe? Other products I have are P74, Ammo x1, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), Instant Shine and MX353, if any of these alone or mixed would give a similar effect? I want them to feel, when there’s silence, an aura of mystery and attraction, not uncomfortableness or awkwardness. As much as I live by the ‘If you really want something, don’t give up’ philosophy, I’m honestly close to giving up, as I don’t feel the connection I desire, and I’m making a fool out of myself. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2015, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/2 "2015-01-24T14:51:57Z")
TUTH is not a bonding phero and as the chemical equivalent of slapping your cock on the table, shy it most certainly ain’t! 😃 If anything, TUTH alone on a shy guy can come-off more creepy/oppressive rather than alluring. [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) has some bonding/boyfriending properties but to bring these out to the full, you need to be paring it with IH. IS/IH is also useful bonding/trusting/playfully confiding. and all of these will combine nicely with TUTH. Also remember that bonding mixes tend to develop over repeated exposure - sometimes a lot of repeat exposures, depending on the individual subject. ---
**Author:** ![Dream\_Brother](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dream_brother/32/1559_2.png) [@Dream\_Brother](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dream_Brother)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2015, 2:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/3 "2015-01-24T14:59:12Z")
The annoying thing is, I’m not shy with other people - just her. I can’t bring myself to showing my genuine personality in fear of losing any existing bond. I know what it is, after all these times meeting, years, without doing anything, I’ve put her on a pedestal. I need to just see her as another girl I wouldn’t mind.. Y’know. Perhaps it’s time to back-off and perhaps retry/rekindle in the future, but next time with a little less of being so available, and much more alpha vibe. I really don’t think abruptly testing [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) around those you are already close with can help, at times. Argh, I’m too young for this! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2015, 4:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/4 "2015-01-24T16:33:09Z")
Its taking that risk of losing any bond that often strengthens it in all the right ways IME. From what you list, try some TUTH/[P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/)/IS or if you are going to a club/party, MX353/IG - Both of these can hit pretty well. TUTH/P74/IS is more of a very sexy, happy, feelgood but still close/sharing mix, whilst MX353/IG is more of a hard-hitting “I’ve not seen you this way before”/heat of the moment mix. 🙂 Also, if conversation is difficult, go somewhere/do something where the heart rate gets risen, feelings get engaged and driven to high gear without so much chat - dancing/gigs/activities/sports etc - all are good for the more reticent guys. Actions, not words. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Dream\_Brother](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dream_brother/32/1559_2.png) [@Dream\_Brother](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dream_Brother)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2015, 5:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/5 "2015-01-24T17:34:09Z")
MX353/IG definitely stands out to me! I’ll give that a try 😃 Otherwise I’m going all-or-nothing.. Thanks for the advice 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2015, 5:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/6 "2015-01-24T17:41:50Z")
> [@Dream\_Brother](#): > > MX353/IG definitely stands out to me! I’ll give that a try 😃 Otherwise I’m going all-or-nothing.. > > Thanks for the advice 🙂 That is the all or nothing option! ---
**Author:** ![Dream\_Brother](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dream_brother/32/1559_2.png) [@Dream\_Brother](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dream_Brother)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2015, 11:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/7 "2015-01-24T23:25:10Z")
Screw it, it’s all or nothing then.. Why not! ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2015, 1:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/8 "2015-01-26T01:10:58Z")
> [@Dream\_Brother](#): > > Screw it, it’s all or nothing then.. Why not! The Romans had a motto - _Fortuna Audaces Juvat_ “Fortune favors the bold.” As for me, I’ve an important GF visit tonight. She’s been talking with a girlfriend and told me “We need to talk.” Call that “heavy with portents.” So tonight, I’m going with TUTH and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). She’ll either pledge eternal devotion and beg to be my naughty girl 😉 or want to breakup ☹. There are 3,500,000,000 females on this planet. This one is great but she can be replaced.🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Dream\_Brother](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dream_brother/32/1559_2.png) [@Dream\_Brother](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dream_Brother)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2015, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/9 "2015-01-26T01:44:42Z")
Let’s hope its the former 🙂 All the best of luck! ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2015, 2:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/10 "2015-01-26T02:47:12Z")
The greatest way to increase the bond with your female is to give her orgasms. When you do, tell her to look at your face when she comes. Your body scent and your visual appearance will imprint in her brain. The oxytocin flood she experiences will lock in her affections. I’ve wore either TUTH or NPA in our prior dating and lovemaking sessions. Adding the IH should touch her even more deeply. However, IH tends to inhibit but not prevent my erections but not everyone as experienced that. ---
**Author:** ![Dream\_Brother](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dream_brother/32/1559_2.png) [@Dream\_Brother](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dream_Brother)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2015, 2:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/11 "2015-01-26T14:30:37Z")
> [@Whitehall](#): > > The greatest way to increase the bond with your female is to give her orgasms. > > When you do, tell her to look at your face when she comes. Your body scent and your visual appearance will imprint in her brain. The oxytocin flood she experiences will lock in her affections. > > I’ve wore either TUTH or NPA in our prior dating and lovemaking sessions. Adding the IH should touch her even more deeply. However, IH tends to inhibit but not prevent my erections but not everyone as experienced that. Man, I wish I was at that stage, we’re only friends! ---
**Author:** ![nosemolester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nosemolester/32/1782_2.png) [@nosemolester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nosemolester)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2015, 3:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/12 "2015-01-26T15:44:15Z")
> [@Whitehall](#): > > The greatest way to increase the bond with your female is to give her orgasms. > > When you do, tell her to look at your face when she comes. Your body scent and your visual appearance will imprint in her brain. The oxytocin flood she experiences will lock in her affections. > > I’ve wore either TUTH or NPA in our prior dating and lovemaking sessions. Adding the IH should touch her even more deeply. However, IH tends to inhibit but not prevent my erections but not everyone as experienced that. Will this work for women, if I’m on top? ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2015, 12:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/13 "2015-01-27T00:26:06Z")
> [@nosemolester](#): > > Will this work for women, if I’m on top? I suspect it would with a woman-on-top position (cowgirl), although if you’re muff diving the visual angle is lost. If you’re talking about girl-on-girl, does the dominent woman wear an A-none heavy mix with her female lover? ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2015, 4:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-to-increase-male-female-bond/63715/14 "2015-01-27T04:22:56Z")
Report on the TUTH/IH mix. I applied a spray of TUTH to each shoulder and a spray of IH to each side of my head hair. I started a little meal in my hotel suite, she working late, as usual. I could barely finish cooking - she was on me like white on rice. She once surprised meat the stove by coming up from behind me, laying her head on my shoulder. After our meal was finished, she protested about me cleaning up the kitchen - I just told her to get in bed and I would be there shortly. I did bring her a little dish of ice cream as a reward. The rest of the evening was just about what one would imagine - the morning too. The TUTH worked great, as usual, but I observed no effects from the IH. Neither of us had much new or revelatory to say all night.